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My searches didn't find posts on applying specific PUA techniques to pursuing non-sexual friendships with men. I'd especially like to befriend the best friend of a girl I recently went on a Day 2 with (and made out with), who is male. So far he's friendly enough, but I want to form a stronger bond. The Game mentions that RSD was interested in "guy game" at one point. Has anyone looked into this systematically?
LOL. You're using classic girlie speake in a forum whose members are predominantly men hence, you're getting answers that do not fit in your game plan. Here's what you're looking for, http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/se ... 78&refine=
That female PUA fairly understands how to sarge men.
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Thanks for your thoughts, but "being cool" is not always intuitive for me. Although I'm often liked by guys in a friendly way, I'm not usually the leader, and want to be because this seems to be necessary to gain access to women in connected social circles. I've noticed that some guys do use variations on PUA to increase status among males. In fact, I'm hard-pressed to think of a PUA technique I haven't seen used: I've seen a range of DHVs including story-telling, posture, highly animated expression, takeaways, and even negs. I knew a Satanist who seemed to be a natural at this, constantly storytelling with manic humor. Another guy, an evangelical Christian, was more relaxed, but constantly negged everyone around him, and that worked too (he seemed to derive a narcissistic superiority from his religion, but people liked him, so it seems his confidence won out). The sequence for guys is always different, however--I've never seen a guy open another unknown guy with a neg. Carnegie of course has some material on this, and it does seem that there probably is an ideal method for guys, at least for the first few interactions. The Art of Charm podcast has some (fairly vague) ideas, so there is some more recent movement in that direction. Surely some PUAs look at this at least in the context of mixed sets. Basically, what is proven advice on how to consistently project coolness to guys?
Are you gay or are you a girl? I'm asking this because I have several girls neg me before and in the end, I just negged them back harder and stayed away from them for good. Majority of men are attracted to girls who are nice to them. It's the reverse for many women. Women are more attracted to the badboys especially when they're ovulating.
I've also had gays neg me before. One ended up getting several shin kicks to his calf and hamstrings. I have a few gay friends before and I became friends with them because they did nice things for me like giving me a free haircut. Some tried to kino escalate but I stopped them because it's pussy I want; not chicks with big dicks.
