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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Sun Jul 07, 2013 6:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Making her my girlfriend |
Hey guys, me asking in the General Questions again. A while back I posted about a specific girl who I tried to get, and eventually got. The situation run down real quick: Met her last year in the Summer, had an incredible connection and attraction, went on 4 dates, but didn't have sex. I ended it and stayed in contact with her via SMS for a YEAR. Met her again a few weeks ago. 3rd time we had dinner at my place and had sex. She came over 2 days later and we had sex again. She's now in London until September 20th. I am going to London myself for a week on the 15th of July. Before she left I told her I'm coming, and she said she'll be "waiting for me". So to elaborate now. We have an incredible connection and like I said in my last post this girl and I get on incredibly well and I know that I have to try make her mine no matter what to get this clearance. This peace. She has already met my mom LOL since I live at her place here in Vienna, and the night we had sex we all had a super long conversation after wards. She was incredibly chilled and comfortable about it. Anyway. We text quite a bit still, however she's super busy since she's got an internship and she's, well, in London. At times we go 2 days without texting, but she initiates again and then we get back on it, yet even then it's limited to something around 3 texts a day, but texts are playful and fall into my frame and they're sometimes affectionate. Has sent me little <3 hearts and stuff in some texts. I have kept from being needy with my texts by ending them, yet also have shown that I obviously think about her. Like it has been for the past year. So that's the situation right now. However when I go to London on the 15th for a week I want to seal the deal completely. I want her to be my girlfriend, and yes it will be a Long-Distance. Let's give it a shot. I don't want to hear your opinions about whether or not this is a good idea, but I am truly, honestly, sincerely asking for your help on how to do this. This girl has done quite a bit for me already. Since I do film and photography she told her colleagues I'm a good photographer and got me a gig at her non-profit event. I really do need your help here. I have a friend who has successfully made a chick his gf and they have a long-distance (see each other quite a bit throughout the year) - he's good with girls himself and when he told me that he straight up flew over to her and asked her out I thought that's AFC, but then it dawned on me that he went for what he wanted relentlessly. So I am actually considering telling her that I'd like her to be my girlfriend when I'm over there. We've known each other for a year, the sex is amazing, and we still have incredible attraction and connection. So community, I really do need your help again, I've never entered this territory before, and I hope I finally can because this is what I truly want. Thank you for reading and for any advice you may have. |
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| Author: | zoidburg [ Sun Jul 07, 2013 11:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Making her my girlfriend |
I think you should go for it. If she is feeling the same then bam, if not at least you will know. You can't "make" her your gf, just be honest. I'm a total rookie so feel free to completely ignore this. |
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