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Author:  Ultron [ Sat Jul 06, 2013 12:12 am ]
Post subject:  Unable to score any girl when having a Girlfriend, any tips?
hello!, new to the forums :)
i've been practicing PUA skills since 2008 under the training of David Deangelo and Mystery so i know my way around the game

Ive come here cause i need help with a specific issue

I have a GF and im happy with her, but still would like to hit on some other girls from time to time...man stuff i imagine most of you can relate to the feeling

i meet girls here and there and i run game successfully most of the time, i get IOIs no problem, but my giant roadblock is the fact that i dont like to hide the fact that i have a girlfriend, and it completely stops my targets on their tracks, a girl may be giggling with me non stop, giving me tons of IOI but if i attempt to go for the kiss i get a wall of rejection
i honestly dont have good answers to questions like "but you have a girlfriend, how can you like me?", "how can you do this to her?" its quite weird, the girl is totally into me but i just cant make her go over her image of being "the other girl" and not "the official"
pretty much any girl thats attracted to me in any level see me as BF material, i cant manage to make them want just an adventure with me

i know there are morality issues at play here and if you dont agree with what i plan to do it's ok and i respect your opinion, but still would like some tips on this
Thanks Guys!
Author:  Preston87 [ Sat Jul 06, 2013 12:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Unable to score any girl when having a Girlfriend, any t
You might not have morality/reputation issues, and it doesn't matter if we do- but it does matter that the other chicks you're talking to do.
Author:  Psych3r [ Sat Jul 06, 2013 2:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Unable to score any girl when having a Girlfriend, any t
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hello!, new to the forums :)
i've been practicing PUA skills since 2008 under the training of David Deangelo and Mystery so i know my way around the game

Ive come here cause i need help with a specific issue

I have a GF and im happy with her, but still would like to hit on some other girls from time to time...man stuff i imagine most of you can relate to the feeling

i meet girls here and there and i run game successfully most of the time, i get IOIs no problem, but my giant roadblock is the fact that i dont like to hide the fact that i have a girlfriend, and it completely stops my targets on their tracks, a girl may be giggling with me non stop, giving me tons of IOI but if i attempt to go for the kiss i get a wall of rejection
i honestly dont have good answers to questions like "but you have a girlfriend, how can you like me?", "how can you do this to her?" its quite weird, the girl is totally into me but i just cant make her go over her image of being "the other girl" and not "the official"
pretty much any girl thats attracted to me in any level see me as BF material, i cant manage to make them want just an adventure with me

i know there are morality issues at play here and if you dont agree with what i plan to do it's ok and i respect your opinion, but still would like some tips on this
Thanks Guys!
Sry bro, but the whole tone of this post seems "needy", which is what any girl you are hitting on when you are not technically on the market is going to pick up vibe wise from you. If you have a girl are "happy with" getting attention from random chicks is just trying to fill a void. Fix your inner game son.
Author:  musclepua [ Sat Jul 06, 2013 2:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Unable to score any girl when having a Girlfriend, any t
It's cool if you want to have some fun running game on random girls while you're in a relationship with others, but I would keep it playful and don't go past talking / light touching, or you'll open a whole can of worms.

That said, the issue you're having here is that you're telling them straight up that you have a girlfriend and expecting them to not put their foot down, so that the responsibility for playing you're gf is diffused among both of you. Most girls you just meet will not be complicit in doing this since you have so clearly and at an early point established you have a girlfriend.

If you want to pull this off, you will have to keep the fact that you have a girlfriend concealed, but in doing so the full responsibility of possibly hurting your girlfriend rest on your shoulders.

Cheers
Author:  Mystery Man [ Sat Jul 06, 2013 2:47 am ]
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you're ... expecting them to not put their foot down, so that the responsibility for playing you're gf is diffused among both of you...
This. You have to accept full responsibility for your actions.
Author:  Pickwick [ Sat Jul 06, 2013 5:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Unable to score any girl when having a Girlfriend, any t
Dishonest to your girl about other girls, and honest to other girls about your girl?

Pick a side and stick with it. If you want to be honest, don't worry about other girls and be happy with what you have. If you want to be dishonest, lie to other girls.

I don't agree with what you're doing, but I don't get why you bring up that you have a girlfriend. If you're doing that to satisfy your little ego, then you're a fool.
Author:  Ultron [ Mon Jul 08, 2013 1:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Unable to score any girl when having a Girlfriend, any t
well, the thing is that i sometimes casually meet a girl and i am asked whether i have a GF and i say yes, then days after that i get a chance to run game and the girls like me, she wants to talk with me all the time or go out, throwing a good bunch of IOI's down the way

it's quite weird! some invite me to their appartments at night or accept to come to mine, its all great to that point, running good game, BUT, i just cant manage to kiss close, this dumbfounds me, she has had a ton of opportunities to reject me before but no, she enjoys being gamed but will not past that barrier (not all the time, some of them do accept)
my question is any idea on making them not care that i have a gf, stop being just BF material for most girls

i understand that many do not approve, i do like my GF, we get along real nice, better than with any other girl. It's just that i get a bit bored sometimes, what can i do, i just love to chase girls :(
Author:  Ultron [ Mon Jul 08, 2013 1:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Unable to score any girl when having a Girlfriend, any t
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Pick a side and stick with it. If you want to be honest, don't worry about other girls and be happy with what you have. If you want to be dishonest, lie to other girls.
actually yeah, im being a pussy about it i admit
if i wanted to have more than one i should outright lie about having a gf and thats it
the issue is that i just KNOW that these targets instantly want me as BF and start calling and want to go out twice as much than before, thats the problem
Author:  Ultron [ Mon Jul 08, 2013 1:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Unable to score any girl when having a Girlfriend, any t
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Sry bro, but the whole tone of this post seems "needy", which is what any girl you are hitting on when you are not technically on the market is going to pick up vibe wise from you. If you have a girl are "happy with" getting attention from random chicks is just trying to fill a void. Fix your inner game son.
actually just reading myself i realize how needy it sounds, you are right, i must come across as that
i've lost some of my inner confidence lately
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