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Author:  PUA_ [ Fri Jul 05, 2013 12:49 am ]
Post subject:  Quick escalation but no sex

There is this girl that is supposed to be enjoying going with things really fast. I've met her recently, everything escalated rally quickly but we didn't have sex. Since then we met several times. Every time we did all the things but never crossed the line. She is defintely not friendzoning me but also for some reason she does not want to go for it. Any ideas why and what should I do about it? I admit that I did a mistake by giving too much pressure on it on the first meeting (on all our meetings actually), so maybe that is why she does not want to do it, because she wants it on her terms. Second idea is that maybe she really likes something more with me and she does not want to move things too fast, because she is afraid that I will run away (she does not want to treat me like all the one night stand guys). Or mayby I was just informed wrong and it is not her style to have fun that way, but I seriously doubt it.

Author:  Betamax [ Fri Jul 05, 2013 1:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Quick escalation but no sex

Or maybe you just weren't push/pulling enough. I can imagine you've been pulling a lot because in your mind she's "easy." Problem is that if all you're doing is pulling, then she'll see you as easy as well (DLV). Start doing some pushing by keeping her guessing as to whether you like her or not.

Author:  PUA_ [ Fri Jul 05, 2013 7:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Quick escalation but no sex

Good idea! I might have been too confident about this one and did some mistakes. I will try, however it might be hard to create believable push/pull at this point, because I quite clearly established the situation.

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