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Author:  Struxure [ Thu Jul 04, 2013 4:53 am ]
Post subject:  quick advice needed re: meeting up with cougar
been texting this coug that i met 2 weeks ago to try and firm a meetup. She said i was too young for her and i used mystery's response to which she responded positively to.

last text she sends me went along the lines of "ok we'll meet up for a drink sometime soon but only to find a young girl for you *winky smile*"

if it weren't for that shit test at the end there i think it would have been a done deal. i was thinking of ignoring it and just baiting to firm plans up but it might come off as too needy.

i need to address the shit test without coming off beta/needy but at the same time to be playful and confirming the meetup.

maybe something like "sounds like a plan as long as you dont try and get me drunk to buy one of your "XYZ"" (she's in sales)

any input would be much appreciated
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Jul 04, 2013 7:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: quick advice needed re: meeting up with cougar
She's an older woman and because you are younger she is going to test you extra hard because she doesn't think you qualify. But take it from me, cougars are easy. They're are in there sexual prime, and they don't waste too much time before taking you home.

Now ignoring her test aren't going to get you anywhere, that young guy stuff and you are only proving her correct. You can't be serious man when you say " I'm just going to ignore her and pressure her to meet up" is that really your attitude? lol In what world is that going to work? Man up and show her you can handle a woman of any age. If she gives you shit, give her shit right back, put her in her place and take charge.

If she says " "ok we'll meet up for a drink sometime soon but only to find a young girl for you *winky smile*"
"
You say " Alright cool, then I'll just have to take you both home :P "

She'll eat it up; grab the bull by the horns.

Joey
Author:  UmpteenDee [ Fri Jul 05, 2013 4:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: quick advice needed re: meeting up with cougar
Depending on whether or not she has a playful personality, another reply you might try is,

"another girl for me? I like that you're trying to talk me into a 3-some already, but I rather just have you ;)"


Anytime she shit tests you like that, just keep playing with it and making a joke out of it, ignoring it is better done once you already have her hooked and you've escalated with her. In the early stages it's best to use shit tests to your advantage by passing them in different ways than other guys would.
Author:  Pickwick [ Fri Jul 05, 2013 6:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: quick advice needed re: meeting up with cougar
Quote:
been texting this coug that i met 2 weeks ago to try and firm a meetup. She said i was too young for her and i used mystery's response to which she responded positively to.

last text she sends me went along the lines of "ok we'll meet up for a drink sometime soon but only to find a young girl for you *winky smile*"

if it weren't for that shit test at the end there i think it would have been a done deal. i was thinking of ignoring it and just baiting to firm plans up but it might come off as too needy.

i need to address the shit test without coming off beta/needy but at the same time to be playful and confirming the meetup.

maybe something like "sounds like a plan as long as you dont try and get me drunk to buy one of your "XYZ"" (she's in sales)

any input would be much appreciated

It's a done deal WITH the shit test, not without. I would rather have had that text than just "ok we'll meet up for a drink sometime soon"

All of my responses would be similar to what Joey said, and I would suggest rolling with what he wrote, but I wanted to say that you're way overthinking it. If you're in a similar position when the girl is obviously into you, texts you that, and you're trying to impress her with your masterful texting wit, just respond with a time and place. She's not going to tease you and then pull back by rejecting you.
Author:  Struxure [ Fri Jul 12, 2013 6:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: quick advice needed re: meeting up with cougar
thanks for the responses. definitely gonna keep them in mind for future reference.

I ended up just texting her back something rather boring, and we ended up meeting for a drink and going back to her place afterwards and f-closed. That was friday night. and then sat. i ended up f-closing a 22 y/o hb8 that I've been sexting for 2 months. It was a good weekend needless to say.

I've seen the cougar 2 times now and she wants to meet up again tonight. Been meeting a lot of women lately actually. i guess when it rains it pours...
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