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| Author: | Pinkfloyd123 [ Wed Jul 03, 2013 11:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I keep ruining opportunity *Urgent* |
So, here's my biggest issue in game, that I'm going to outline as meticulously as possible; I ask that you guys would comment on each phase of my issue. Essentially: my problem is making a good first impression. (1) I'd open, she'd smile, giving good vibes (there's potential she's interested, you can tell) THEN I'd ruin it and she'll instantly lose attravtion for me. If say something stupid like, just talking too casual, or complete nonsense and not actually build any attraction. (Because idk how) 2) Secondly, imagine I see a girl next to me, I have no idea what to say to her to open the conversation (I know it doesn't matter) but I still don't know what to say. After this point, WHERE DO I DIRECT THE CONVO TO MAKE HER ATTRACTED? If you guys can answer this question(s) it would totally change my game forever. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Jul 03, 2013 11:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I keep ruining opportunity *Urgent* |
Open ended questions and creativity. And open ended question is a question that calls for a elaborate answer. There complete opposite of a close ended question. Open Ended: What was it like growing up in new york city? Close Ended: Did you like growing up in new york city? One calls for more investment, the other just requires a yes or no - If I'm sitting next to a hottie somewhere, I'll usually open up just by saying " Hey " but if I'm feeling a bit introverted at the moment I'll just rely on my creativity by pulling out my iphone, going to the connnect 4 app, and handing it to her; gesturing for her to join me in a game. If they bite, there yours, just go to the " Enter a contact app after the first game and hand it to her. She'll put her number in 9 out of 10 times. Be creative man; we all have it in us. |
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| Author: | Pinkfloyd123 [ Thu Jul 04, 2013 12:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I keep ruining opportunity *Urgent* |
Thanks for your response, But I don't think that would work for me, I can't go up to strangers and play games with them lol. That's not the answer I was looking for. I mean I already have tons of gimmicks, I'm really interested in magic tricks and psychology routines and etc. I just need to know what I listed above. |
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| Author: | Pinkfloyd123 [ Thu Jul 04, 2013 2:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I keep ruining opportunity *Urgent* |
Anyone? |
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| Author: | Alexleonardo [ Thu Jul 04, 2013 2:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I keep ruining opportunity *Urgent* |
Dude the first answer is quite helpful, for me anyway Be more creative and ask open end questions How's it like to work here ? What kinda Music u into ? so if you were to anywhere around the world right now where would you go ? etc.... i just came up with that Sh** as i was typing xD and i totally sucks at picking up just like you lol |
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| Author: | Pinkfloyd123 [ Thu Jul 04, 2013 9:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I keep ruining opportunity *Urgent* |
*sigh* seriously? Girls get asked these questions everyday - didn't you read the proper connect of the situation. It's about opening and attraction, not comfort. Can't walk up to girl and be like, "ughhhh what's your favorite type of music?" Not unless there's a point to it (obviously). But just in itself, it doesn't help. I'm great with girls... I'm just perfecting my game. Thanks for trying to help though. However, is there any other PUA's that can shed done light in this. |
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| Author: | Ises [ Sat Jul 06, 2013 2:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I keep ruining opportunity *Urgent* |
Quote: *sigh* seriously?
I'm not close to a pua by any means. You say your great with girls, can i ask how? Do you just need to be more comfortable? Try to look at what is blocking you when having a conversation.Girls get asked these questions everyday - didn't you read the proper connect of the situation. It's about opening and attraction, not comfort. Can't walk up to girl and be like, "ughhhh what's your favorite type of music?" Not unless there's a point to it (obviously). But just in itself, it doesn't help. I'm great with girls... I'm just perfecting my game. Thanks for trying to help though. However, is there any other PUA's that can shed done light in this. Go with the flow, ask her questions about where she grew up, find hooks to lead the conversation. Be intuitive and flirty and things she talks about. It's all about control and throwing in flirty sensible humor. Never worry about the outcome of the convo, just go with the flow of the convo and read the girl. |
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