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| Author: | manofprogress [ Wed Jul 03, 2013 6:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | new guy, could use some advice/help |
sup guys! fairly new to the world of pickup. i lurk a lot, but finally had a real situation that i could use some solid advice on. I'm 19 years old, have had a few girlfriends. Not a pickup-artist by any means. But to cut to the chase, i have a girlfriend right now. Her names Ana and i do like her. However, i just had my ex over. My ex of about 1 yr just got back from college. Next fall (2 months away) we are attending the same college. She went a yr before me because i went to CC to save $$. Anyways, we used to have crazy sex, amazing, and we really loved each other. But we were young, we decided rather than go through the annoyance of a long distance relationship we would breakup and explore other things. In short, we had a mutual breakup because she was going away. It still hurt like hell. We stayed in contact and banged a couple times after we broke up. Then after 2 months i stopped answering her calls/txts, i was just too fucked up over this girl. it had to end. Took me like 6 more months to get over this girl, and evidently i'm still extremely attracted to her. like very very attracted. So recently she started contacting me alot. I ignored it for a few days then finally gave in and answered one of her calls. I told her that she could come over tonight because she wanted to see me again. She came here at around 11pm, just left, it's almost 3am. She has a boyfriend, and i have a girlfriend. We first laid down, i told myself i was ABSOLUTELY NOT going to touch her or anything. Well that failed. within 20min i was laying on her, playing with her hair, she was touching me all over. We made out for a while then stopped, agreeing that we shouldn't have sex because we are both in relationships. Then we just laid together for a good hour and a half, caressing, yada yada the whole nine yards. Honestly I would have banged her tonight, fuck i have less willpower than i thought, but she said no. I didn't push too hard, just was playful about it. She looked so damn good! like her tits and ass were absolutely perfect! i really don't feel bad about having her over, and im probably not gunna tell Ana, and i doubt she's going to mention it to her bf either. The thing is, now im thinking about this chick. Like should we get back together? should i pursue her? should i just ignore her from now on if she tries again? i thought i was 100% over her, i banged 2 other chicks since we broke up, but i still have some feelings left for this girl. FUCK MAN, i think i fucked up having her over! lol idk what to do. should i just forget about her now? im definitely more attracted to my ex than my current gf. not because she's hotter, they're both just about the same on the hotness scale, but damn there's something about this girl that gets to me... any/all help is greatly appreciated friends, sorry for the long ass 1st post!! |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Jul 03, 2013 6:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: new guy, could use some advice/help |
The only thing getting to you is the fact that you can't have her. We always want what we can't have and many of us foolishly don't know its just our subconcious fucking with us. You don't actually want her as much as you think; if she were to suddenly become needy; texting you every other minute; begging you to see her everyday, you would lose all attraction for her. Don't make the immature mistake of thinking you want someone just because they don't want you. Let it go man. |
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