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| Author: | A-Cash [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 12:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help with my first milestone. |
There is this girl I’ve been talking to and she is just impossible, she doesn’t want to let me in, I really want to engage in intercourse with her but, she’s very difficult. At times she shows interest in me, and at other times she ignores me. I know I’m already making a mistake as I text her first almost every time and I over text, but I only do this so she she doesn’t stop talking to me, but usually she keeps the conversation going. So would any one show me techniques and routines that would maybe get her to want me/like me more? This girl is not only a sexual release, but also if I nail this, my first and hopefully wont be my last, so this is more of a milestone to me and I’m determined to do this as a PUA in high school. Your help would be MORE than appreciated. |
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| Author: | ix. [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 1:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with my first milestone. |
Give up. Honestly the way you're playing this is set to failure. You've killed your chances by being over-invested. The only way you'll get this girl is by showing her you've lost interest. Pay her less attention and start dating a different girl. Asking the girl you like "Which shoes will be better for my first date?" will show her you're not interested in her. This makes her question herself and wonder why you're not interested in her. One of the very first rules of pickup is not to chase her but to get her to chase you. You're chasing her, it won't do you any favours because it makes you too easy. Imagine being in a car race, you have a ferrari and your opponent has an old VW Beetle. There's no way you can lose, the race is kind of pointless isn't it? It's not very fun for either of you. How many races like that would you attend before you got totally bored and didn't want to race? You are simply not a challenge for her, you're predictable and like everyone else. It's not at all exciting to her so you're not interesting. |
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| Author: | A-Cash [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 1:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with my first milestone. |
yeah i get what you're saying man, but is there ANYWAY i can still get this girl? ANYWAY at all? Im prepared to change anything. |
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| Author: | ix. [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 1:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with my first milestone. |
"Im prepared to change anything." That sentiment is exactly why you won't get anywhere. The girl will get that vibe from you. It makes you look needy and self-loathing. Obviously these are not good attributes! You need to be less attached, less outcome dependent and you need to be happier with who you are. PUA is, of course, about self-improvement. However, if you have a vibe that shouts "I'm prepared to change!" and you believe you are inadequate that's how you'll come across and it's how other people will treat you because it's how you view yourself. So that's a bit of a contradiction, you can only become better when you realise you don't need to be "improved" to get the girl. That comes through practice, once you've failed enough times and succeeded enough times you get to know what works and that confidence is what lets you value yourself more highly, when you value yourself more highly, other people will value you more highly, it really is that simple and in a nutshell is all PUA teaches you. As for this girl? The best chance you have is to become less predictable. Stop chasing her, she'll wonder what happened. Don't text her first for a change. How frequently do you text her? If it's a couple of times a week then don't talk to her for a week, if she's at all interested she'll message you and see what's up. Imply you've been dating another girl and she'll get jealous. From there you can arrange a date and see her semi-regularly. The other outcome of stopping texting her? She's not that interested in you and she won't message you back. However, if this is the case then you'd never have gotten anywhere anyway! When you take the safe "I want to stay in contact with her" route, there is no risk on your part. If there's no risk there's nothing to play for. |
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| Author: | A-Cash [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 1:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with my first milestone. |
Thanks for that man. I now realise what i have to do. And as for the girl, we talk a few times a week and we go to the same school as well:/ So what happens now? |
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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 2:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Help with my first milestone. |
Quote: Thanks for that man. I now realise what i have to do. And as for the girl, we talk a few times a week and we go to the same school as well:/ So what happens now?
I gave the same advice on another post I think it'll be good for you too. Don't put too much value on this girl you're young and there are plenty of hot girls out there go and meet them. Next time you talk to her preferably after she contacts you be confident and direct if you appeared needy before this will help make a new impression.
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