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| Author: | yapper [ Mon Jul 01, 2013 3:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | New to pua and need some quick advice |
I am just learning about PUA techniques and tactics, so I am quite clueless. Anyhow, I recently met an HB9.5 (no exaggeration), would probably be a 10 if her rack was slightly larger. She approached me oddly enough, initiated the conversation and we exchanged numbers. I was able to keep my thoughts calm and collected because I thought at first that she was just being friendly so I didn't act like a complete dumbfounded boob. I managed to get her number quickly by throwing up a fake time constraint. We have texted back and forth (she is showing a lot of interest) a few times and we arranged a date. Anyhow, I am no more than a 5 or 6 on the looks scale. I am not wealthy either, so I almost wondered if this chick is on medication or something else is off about her. She makes many of the top PUA artists women look like dogs. I have been with my share of women who are in the 5-7 range, but nothing of this woman's caliber. Since it will be a bit of a new experience for me I might be a little bit nervous. The last thing I want to do is start getting tongue tied. Anyone have any tips on staying calm and collected around a woman who is near the top of the genetic pool? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Jul 01, 2013 5:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to pua and need some quick advice |
Gently close you eyes, are they closed? Take a deep breath, relax! NOW! In your minds eye, picture her in the morning without makeup, humped up on the toilet taking a giant SHIT! While simultaneously changing her bloodied tampon. If that doesn't make it real for you I don't know what will! Trust me, she does that. She is not a porcelain goddess, she is just a girl with features that you are attracted to, do not let that cloud your judgment. |
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Mon Jul 01, 2013 5:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to pua and need some quick advice |
Exactly what Heywood said. Option A: Imagine her sweaty, unshaved legs rubbing up against yours under covers, when you look up and see her swollen and slightly flaky face next to yours, snoring the morning away. Option B: Know that we all deal with the same mental shit. She her own insecurities, depressions, anxieties, and feelings of loneliness. You and she are at an equal mental state, but if you realize this, you'll be a step ahead. Listen to her beauty, don't look at it. She always got away with a lot of things because of her looks, not giving her inside world fully develop. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Jul 01, 2013 6:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to pua and need some quick advice |
Its all about knowing who you are dude. There is no guarantee that you're going to go out there and blow her away but what you will gain from this is the experience. I don't know about most guys, but when I'm out with 9's and 10's I naturally just have a lot more charisma that I do when I'm kicking it with a 8, because I know how to absorb their energy and throw it back at them. The main thing you have to realize is she is just a woman, you are a MAN. You are the superior force so if you understand who you are, there is no reason she wouldn't be looking up to you to lead her. In every animal species on the planet the female version of the animal is weaker than the male and humans are no different. There are guys that will take this wrong but realize that no matter what you look like, you are better than her for the simple fact that you are a man. You're looks are more irrelevant than you think; my buddy paul is a 6'1 350 pound security guard and his girlfriends a 9; and I work with many men who would be considered 10's who are too boring to get with any chick. Confidence > Looks |
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| Author: | yapper [ Mon Jul 01, 2013 9:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to pua and need some quick advice |
Good advice guys, thanks. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Mon Jul 01, 2013 10:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to pua and need some quick advice |
I've dated some dime pieces, the girl I'm currently with is a head turner. Most women look quite diff without their makeup (e.g., in the morning, or before bed), stop stressing about how she looks all painted up. You would probably look 'better' too with some makeup on your face, albeit a bit faggy. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Jul 01, 2013 11:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to pua and need some quick advice |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Jul 01, 2013 11:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to pua and need some quick advice |
Hey, you guys encouraging him to picture her being all those unattractive things certainly helps but I have to let you guys know that its is low level thinking. I imagine all my chicks being 10x hotter than they are but I just never forget what their place is. She's beautiful and all but at the end of the day, her place will always be under me. So it doesn't matter how beautiful she is; I can picture her being scarlett johnson hot but it won't make a difference because I know what I am. Why should you have to bring someone down to lift yourself up? You are already up! You guys are way too experienced for that. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 12:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to pua and need some quick advice |
No, I posted it because it was funny. It was a SMS a buddy sent. |
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Tue Jul 02, 2013 2:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: New to pua and need some quick advice |
Quote: Hey,
This is definitely true- I wouldn't encourage putting the girl down in his mind. It seems, though, that his confidence isn't to its potential and he needs a quick fix. That's why I would still suggest to do what I posted as option 1, to know that she is still human on a physical level, but also work at raising his own self-image and knowing his actual worth (option 2).you guys encouraging him to picture her being all those unattractive things certainly helps but I have to let you guys know that its is low level thinking. I imagine all my chicks being 10x hotter than they are but I just never forget what their place is. She's beautiful and all but at the end of the day, her place will always be under me. So it doesn't matter how beautiful she is; I can picture her being scarlett johnson hot but it won't make a difference because I know what I am. Why should you have to bring someone down to lift yourself up? You are already up! You guys are way too experienced for that. 
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