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| Author: | ix. [ Sun Jun 30, 2013 2:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | She likes me but we've hung out as friends |
Ok, this is kinda a friend zone topic but not really because the girl does like me, we've just never gone anywhere. A couple of years ago, while I was in a club with my ex (A stunning HB10) she introduced me to a friend of hers, this pretty HB9. Since I was in a relationship we chatted for a bit and that was that. I didn't really think much of it. Anyway, fast forward a year and a half, I'm at the club and this girl sits down next to me and says "Aren't you ****'s ex?" We get chatting, this time she's quite flirty but again, I'm just there hanging out with some friends but I'm in a relationship with a different girl so again, nothing happens. We hung out infrequently as friends after that, she knows a few people I know and it was never like a "date". Last time I saw her was New Year's Eve (Again, I wasn't single and was actually there with my GF at the time). Fast forward 6 months to now, I broke up with my GF back in January and talk to the girl occasionally online. She's invited me to see a band next week- IOI galore, she messaged me out of the blue even though I haven't spoken to her in about 3 months and invited me out. She's clearly interested. I'm not quite sure how to play it. I'm not used to going from a non-sexual frame to a sexual one. She's clearly interested but I'm not sure how to progress things without it seeming awkward? As I say, it's kinda like a friend zone problem where we have been out a few times as friends but with a difference, she is interested. I mean it's pretty much mine to screw up but any tips would be welcome! |
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| Author: | Psydaddy [ Mon Jul 01, 2013 3:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She likes me but we've hung out as friends |
Well let me tell you something, it's not her problem, it's yours! if she's really interested then nothing awkward is going to happen, just play cool and things will work out! Flirt with her, see how she reacts and go step by step escalating for the kiss. Don't get stupid ideas on your mind, i was like you thinking all the time, i used to plan all the things in my mind to become prepared on it, but when i went there, the script (that i had on my mind) changes and i stoop using my brain. So less thinking, more acting |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Mon Jul 01, 2013 7:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She likes me but we've hung out as friends |
Treat her how you want her to treat you. If you want her to be a girlfriend, treat like she is already your girlfriend. Mentally tell yourself, you're just going to meet up with your girlfriend. If you just want to get a nut, then you have to be a nut. This simple stuff and it already sounds like you have this under control. Take her down man, and then write about it. |
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