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Author:  FunDanceMan [ Thu Jun 27, 2013 6:57 pm ]
Post subject:  When they get super cold
Everythings magical...

Then oh shit! They get back with the ex. This chick is in the process of moving in with her ex. And yes probably F*ing casually.

She lives far so Im not THAT upset. Its just I still want that sex from her. Wish it was the way it was before.

Whats the best thing to do? I think putting on your best game, while she's in love mode with her ex is a bad idea. Maybe wait a week? Let him make the mistakes he did in the past? I've always thought that's what I would do in a situation like this, first time it's happened.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jun 27, 2013 7:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When they get super cold
She is not the only girl on planet earth, go get a new one there's a-plenty!

Why the fuck would you want a girl that tastes like her boyfriend's cock?
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Thu Jun 27, 2013 7:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When they get super cold
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Everythings magical...

Then oh shit! They get back with the ex. This chick is in the process of moving in with her ex. And yes probably F*ing casually.

She lives far so Im not THAT upset. Its just I still want that sex from her. Wish it was the way it was before.

Whats the best thing to do? I think putting on your best game, while she's in love mode with her ex is a bad idea. Maybe wait a week? Let him make the mistakes he did in the past? I've always thought that's what I would do in a situation like this, first time it's happened.

Fuck that dude. Let her stay with her ex. You go get someone better than her.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Jun 27, 2013 8:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When they get super cold
When a chick is still emotionally invested into another guy when you meet them you will never fully get them unless you show your strength. You're the rebound - accept that. Don't go falling in love with some girl who still has attachments to someone else. What does that say about you? Pardon my french but unless you have the attitude that says " This is just a sex thing, don't go getting attached to me. We're just fucking, nothing more. I can't take girls serious that have emotional hang ups".

The trick to getting her is to be HAPPY that she is GONE. You no longer have to put her with her nonsense, you can focus more on your own goals, other women etc. She could of dragged you into her drama and that could of gotten ugly so thank god! When you learn to rejoice when a girl leaves, they'll always come back. You dodged a bullet dude, be happy! ;)
Author:  FunDanceMan [ Thu Jun 27, 2013 10:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When they get super cold
Yeah I realize I was the rebound. I admit I was getting attached, but now I see her faults (WAY sluttier than I prefer.) Still want to hit it one last time. I am gaming other women and theres more success. But holy hell, when you know the one you want/ed isnt feeling you anymore, that kills the hype.


It sucks pulling your best game and seeing it have no effect. Should I take some time away from her (freeze out) or just keep things short + sweet + talking about other girls (escaping friendzone style stuff.)

I cant see her for a month anyway because of my job trip. I know she's young emotion and like a yoyo. So she might lose those lovey dovey feelings for him within that time. But if I wait too long, they might just do the relationship thing and be official bf + gf.

Not sure. I dont want feelings anymore, just to get in and keep her on the side.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Jun 27, 2013 11:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When they get super cold
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Yeah I realize I was the rebound. I admit I was getting attached, but now I see her faults (WAY sluttier than I prefer.) Still want to hit it one last time.


I am gaming other women and theres more success. More numbers and dates. But holy hell, when you know the one you want/ed isnt feeling you anymore, that kills the hype.


It sucks pulling your best game and seeing it have no effect. I cant see her for another month anyway. Should I take some time away from her (freeze out) or just keep things short + sweet + talking about other girls (escaping friendzone style stuff.)

I cant see her for a month. If I wait, knowing how emotional and yo-yo-ish she is, she might lose those lovey dovey feelings for him. But if I wait too long they might just do the relationship thing again. Not sure. I dont want feelings anymore, just to get in and keep her on the side.

You're trying to have your cake and eat it. If you really had another girl worth your time you wouldn't give two shits about this chick. And as long as you're holding on with hope of one last fuck that might not even happen, you will not project the energy that is going to attract the type of women in your life that'll make you forget about her.
Author:  FunDanceMan [ Fri Jun 28, 2013 3:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: When they get super cold
She wants to do a weekend together. But if she pretty much ties the knot, and the guard is up, I dont wanna have to work for sex.

And I have definitely NOT found a girl I know well enough to replace her. Only phone numbers, dates ,etc. Im just wondering the best course of action. She still texts me, but I feel like getting space might make her miss me. It could also blow up in my face.
Author:  Moscow [ Fri Jun 28, 2013 5:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: When they get super cold
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She wants to do a weekend together. But if she pretty much ties the knot, and the guard is up, I dont wanna have to work for sex.

And I have definitely NOT found a girl I know well enough to replace her. Only phone numbers, dates ,etc. Im just wondering the best course of action. She still texts me, but I feel like getting space might make her miss me. It could also blow up in my face.

Just occasionally ping with her.
Dont want to work for sex? Then quit PUA now. Hangout with her. A few of these guys have replied to my threads too and they will agree sex is something you must work for. Even when girls say they want sex from you, you will have to work for it when the time comes.

Like a Ferrari, you want it? go out and get it, work for it.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Fri Jun 28, 2013 1:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When they get super cold
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She wants to do a weekend together. But if she pretty much ties the knot, and the guard is up, I dont wanna have to work for sex.

And I have definitely NOT found a girl I know well enough to replace her. Only phone numbers, dates ,etc. Im just wondering the best course of action. She still texts me, but I feel like getting space might make her miss me. It could also blow up in my face.

Just occasionally ping with her.
Dont want to work for sex? Then quit PUA now. Hangout with her. A few of these guys have replied to my threads too and they will agree sex is something you must work for. Even when girls say they want sex from you, you will have to work for it when the time comes.

Like a Ferrari, you want it? go out and get it, work for it.

Haha It's just a piece of wet skin dude. Work for it.. Why? You can't compare a pussy to a ferrari; because EVERY single girl has one! lol Nothing special about it. Ferrai's are actually rare and special, you don't seem them everyday.

Pussy comes easily and frequently to all who share that mentality. Why do you think 20% of men sleep with 80% of the women? Are we individually working for every one? No dude.. With the right mentality it just falls into our lap.
Author:  Moscow [ Fri Jun 28, 2013 4:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When they get super cold
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She wants to do a weekend together. But if she pretty much ties the knot, and the guard is up, I dont wanna have to work for sex.

And I have definitely NOT found a girl I know well enough to replace her. Only phone numbers, dates ,etc. Im just wondering the best course of action. She still texts me, but I feel like getting space might make her miss me. It could also blow up in my face.

Just occasionally ping with her.
Dont want to work for sex? Then quit PUA now. Hangout with her. A few of these guys have replied to my threads too and they will agree sex is something you must work for. Even when girls say they want sex from you, you will have to work for it when the time comes.

Like a Ferrari, you want it? go out and get it, work for it.
Haha It's just a piece of wet skin dude. Work for it.. Why? You can't compare a pussy to a ferrari; because EVERY single girl has one! lol Nothing special about it. Ferrai's are actually rare and special, you don't seem them everyday.

Pussy comes easily and frequently to all who share that mentality. Why do you think 20% of men sleep with 80% of the women? Are we individually working for every one? No dude.. With the right mentality it just falls into our lap.
I agree with the mentality, but i wouldnt cross out working for pusy completely, anything weve ever wanted we mist work for, a toy a shirt, a sticker, a ar we work for most of it is never girn on a silver platter.

I mean the reason you are succesfuk with girls probably derives from the act that you spent time stdying the art of seduction, getting out if your comfort zone. I believe tthis to be work, although fun, but it is work.

But the mindset i defintley agree with, i just dont want ppl thinking they will be "put on" eerything anyone wants must e earned in some way
Author:  FunDanceMan [ Fri Jun 28, 2013 5:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When they get super cold
I do have the mentality that pussy shouldnt be THAT hard to get.


The reason why Im not into working for it, is because she pretty much shelved me as #2 (or even less.) I think if I was first meeting her and she had a bf / open ex, I'd totally be in for the work. It's like a slap in the face, to have to "wonder" if youre going to get it after she's shelved you.

Today I she sent me a bunch of messages on SPAM, since we dont live near each other. I didnt get back to her right away. Then I tried to call her and she immediately hung up. Childish. That is why if its an easy lay, sure. If you have to work, its like not only did you step on me, you want me to work for it.
Author:  Moscow [ Fri Jun 28, 2013 6:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When they get super cold
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I do have the mentality that pussy shouldnt be THAT hard to get.


The reason why Im not into working for it, is because she pretty much shelved me as #2 (or even less.) I think if I was first meeting her and she had a bf / open ex, I'd totally be in for the work. It's like a slap in the face, to have to "wonder" if youre going to get it after she's shelved you.

Today I she sent me a bunch of messages on SPAM, since we dont live near each other. I didnt get back to her right away. Then I tried to call her and she immediately hung up. Childish. That is why if its an easy lay, sure. If you have to work, its like not only did you step on me, you want me to work for it.

I feel you man, listen i'd call her out on being childish, I'd still try and hangout on the weeknd, you never know what may happen. Worth a try. Try and text her instead of calling maybe shes afraid face to face or some shit who knows, girls get nervous about that stuff.
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