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| Author: | BRP [ Thu Jun 27, 2013 8:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Got ditched on the way to the club, what went wrong? |
Im only 18 so im still learning the game, but a friend and I picked up 2 girls at the bar. Problem was only one of em was cute, and my buddy and I wanted to see who could end up pulling the cute one. Ininsisted its a bad idea but his huge ego convinced him otherwise lol. Anyways I ended up getting her, we chatted a lot, and I was definitely impressing her. She told me that usually she was a good girl but after I made the first move, making out with her, she whispers in my ear "maybe if you're lucky you'll get to meet the bad girl in me tonight". So obviously I am thinking im set for the night but my friend is still stuck with the less desirable one. At this point he pretty much refuses to kiss her or try to seduce her. This is the point where im not sure what went wrong, and this is the first time ive been ditched. After she whispers that in my ear she goes over and talks to her friend, leaving me. I assume she's doing thay annoying push pull game so I go along and just enjoy myself at the bar, talking to my friend relieving him often his unpleasant date lol. A few minutes later I try to ask her if just her and I should go to the club, (im trying to remove my friend and his girl from the situation so if they dont work out mine doesnt ditch me), but I guess she didnt hear me and told everyone else that were all going clubbing. On the way to the club we see a mechanical bull thing and she told me if I last longer on it than her I can get whatever I want, so I ask for a kiss longer than last time. I end up going a lot longer obviousoy, but she insisted I didnt. I was gonna go in for kiss 2 anyways when I see my friend getting some stupid henna tattoo on his back. I go up and talk to him telling him not to when I see in the corner of my eye the 2 girls walking away, not even looking back. I thought at that point they arent down anymore so I let em walk away, had a cigarette, went to the club with no luck, went home alone. Sorry for the novel here, but this is the first time something like this has happened to me where ive been ditched. Usually girls I talk to are chasing me but this one (older was 21) wanted me to chase her, which I have no experience in. Was it something I did, was it my friend withher friend, did I not chase her enough? I didnt want to come across as desperate so I tried , y best not to come across as it, but maybe too much? Oh before she left she also asked for my name so she could add me on facebook innthe morning, but its almost 12 and no request so I can forget about that too I guess haha |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Thu Jun 27, 2013 9:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Got ditched on the way to the club, what went wrong? |
Quote: So obviously I am thinking im set for the night but my friend is still stuck with the less desirable one. At this point he pretty much refuses to kiss her or try to seduce her. You envisioned success but didn't realize that you still had work to do before you became successful. In this case, the friend needed handling because your wingman wouldn't take the less desirable one away for a bit so you could atleast pull her. Your wing was actually the one to fuck it up for you. You recognized it. You didn't handle the situation. You could have pulled both the girls for yourself lol or atleast entertained them enough so both your target and her friend were comfortable with you. Most of the time... if a girl is just there with her one friend, she is not going to leave her friend there alone to go fuck you... again... most of the time lol you just didn't see the right play to be made. You learned for next time. |
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| Author: | Themagicalone [ Fri Jun 28, 2013 1:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Got ditched on the way to the club, what went wrong? |
Quote: Quote: So obviously I am thinking im set for the night but my friend is still stuck with the less desirable one. At this point he pretty much refuses to kiss her or try to seduce her. You envisioned success but didn't realize that you still had work to do before you became successful. In this case, the friend needed handling because your wingman wouldn't take the less desirable one away for a bit so you could atleast pull her. Your wing was actually the one to fuck it up for you. You recognized it. You didn't handle the situation. You could have pulled both the girls for yourself lol or atleast entertained them enough so both your target and her friend were comfortable with you. Most of the time... if a girl is just there with her one friend, she is not going to leave her friend there alone to go fuck you... again... most of the time lol you just didn't see the right play to be made. You learned for next time. |
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