PUA Forum :: Messed up, can I salvage this?

Hi there, this is my first post and I've just started learning about PUA and the skillset needed. A month ago or so I banged this really pretty girl a few times, and it turns out she has a long distance relationship with her boyfriend. She was all over me, and kept on wanting to see me. I started becoming too clingy at one point, because I started to like her, and this is where I screwed up.

She told me that she never had any feelings for me, and was just horny and in "a hazy phase" of her life. Also mentioned that she regretted everything. While it hurt for me, I've now decided that I will use this as an experiment to see if I can sleep with her again and overcome this wall. We still talk quite often, and we get along well even to this day. I never invite her anywhere, or talk to her online unless she starts talking first though.

I am pretty damn sure I can turn this one around, but I'd like to ask you experienced guys how I can get her horny again. Any advice is appreciated, honestly.

Do you have her # still?

You need to amp up the sexual aspect.

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Do you have her # still?

You need to amp up the sexual aspect.

Yeah, I still have her number and we still talk very often. She is the one who keeps on making contact, as I swore to myself to calm down and not act clingy/tilt. I've noticed our talk about sex and such in general has dropped a bit, but it still happens now and then. I've noticed that whenever we have met up after this incident, she keeps on being picky about stuff I do, or how I act, and keeps on mentioning it.

I suppose I should just start bringing more of it into our talk again. Is there anything more I can do to amp up the sexual aspect again? Thanks for your input man.

she keeps on being picky about stuff I do, or how I act, and keeps on mentioning it.

I suppose I should just start bringing more of it into our talk again. Is there anything more I can do to amp up the sexual aspect again?

Author:	nobodyknows [ Tue Jun 25, 2013 1:12 pm ]
Post subject:	Messed up, can I salvage this?
Hi there, this is my first post and I've just started learning about PUA and the skillset needed. A month ago or so I banged this really pretty girl a few times, and it turns out she has a long distance relationship with her boyfriend. She was all over me, and kept on wanting to see me. I started becoming too clingy at one point, because I started to like her, and this is where I screwed up. She told me that she never had any feelings for me, and was just horny and in "a hazy phase" of her life. Also mentioned that she regretted everything. While it hurt for me, I've now decided that I will use this as an experiment to see if I can sleep with her again and overcome this wall. We still talk quite often, and we get along well even to this day. I never invite her anywhere, or talk to her online unless she starts talking first though. I am pretty damn sure I can turn this one around, but I'd like to ask you experienced guys how I can get her horny again. Any advice is appreciated, honestly.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jun 25, 2013 2:17 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Messed up, can I salvage this?
Quote: Hi there, this is my first post and I've just started learning about PUA and the skillset needed. A month ago or so I banged this really pretty girl a few times, and it turns out she has a long distance relationship with her boyfriend. She was all over me, and kept on wanting to see me. I started becoming too clingy at one point, because I started to like her, and this is where I screwed up. She told me that she never had any feelings for me, and was just horny and in "a hazy phase" of her life. Also mentioned that she regretted everything. While it hurt for me, I've now decided that I will use this as an experiment to see if I can sleep with her again and overcome this wall. We still talk quite often, and we get along well even to this day. I never invite her anywhere, or talk to her online unless she starts talking first though. I am pretty damn sure I can turn this one around, but I'd like to ask you experienced guys how I can get her horny again. Any advice is appreciated, honestly. Do you have her # still? You need to amp up the sexual aspect.

Author:	nobodyknows [ Tue Jun 25, 2013 2:28 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Messed up, can I salvage this?
Quote: Do you have her # still? You need to amp up the sexual aspect. Yeah, I still have her number and we still talk very often. She is the one who keeps on making contact, as I swore to myself to calm down and not act clingy/tilt. I've noticed our talk about sex and such in general has dropped a bit, but it still happens now and then. I've noticed that whenever we have met up after this incident, she keeps on being picky about stuff I do, or how I act, and keeps on mentioning it. I suppose I should just start bringing more of it into our talk again. Is there anything more I can do to amp up the sexual aspect again? Thanks for your input man.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Jun 25, 2013 3:16 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Messed up, can I salvage this?
Quote: Quote: Do you have her # still? You need to amp up the sexual aspect. Yeah, I still have her number and we still talk very often. She is the one who keeps on making contact, as I swore to myself to calm down and not act clingy/tilt. I've noticed our talk about sex and such in general has dropped a bit, but it still happens now and then. I've noticed that whenever we have met up after this incident, she keeps on being picky about stuff I do, or how I act, and keeps on mentioning it. I suppose I should just start bringing more of it into our talk again. Is there anything more I can do to amp up the sexual aspect again? Thanks for your input man. Quote: she keeps on being picky about stuff I do, or how I act, and keeps on mentioning it. These are small shit tests. Throw that shit back in her face, by making fun of her criticisms. "Know wonder you can't find a man!" "Your such a Debbie downer, I don't know why we hang out!" "you'd be a good catch for someone if you weren't so critical!" "How long have you been bleaching your mustache?" In a humorous teasing way. Quote: I suppose I should just start bringing more of it into our talk again. Is there anything more I can do to amp up the sexual aspect again? Have you tried "sexting" with her? Have you tried escalating while with her? She fucked you before, she is comfortable enough that a little push/pull kino, isolation, should be easy enough. by escalating things, then backing off, then escalating further, then backing off again. The anticipation and arousal this creates will drive her INSANE. Don’t say I didn't warn you.

Author:	TheFury [ Tue Jun 25, 2013 3:22 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Messed up, can I salvage this?
What heywood said pretty much. Once you've f-closed a girl it should be pretty easy to do it again. Just be more sexual.

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Author:	nobodyknows [ Tue Jun 25, 2013 4:35 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Messed up, can I salvage this?
I just amped it up a bit, and she is saying silly things like "I hate you, because I hate myself, you should probably stop saying stuff like that" (yet she keeps on talking) I'll just keep at it and if she really says super no at one point, I'll do a freeze out to show that I wont put up with the bullshit. Thanks guys.

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