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Author:  startinglife [ Sat Jun 22, 2013 12:27 am ]
Post subject:  What does this mean?

There is a girl in my social circle that I want to get with, but she is "with" some guy right now. She goes out on dates and hooks up with him occasionally, but makes it clear that they are not exclusive and he is not her boyfriend. Bunch of us got drunk one night and she said "emotionally, he is a 10, but physically...not so much."

What is this guy to her? You think this means she's available? To me it sounds like "I'm keeping him around until someone better comes along...leaving my options open." what do you guys think?

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Sat Jun 22, 2013 3:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What does this mean?

Ignore 99.9% of what any girl SAYS.
Make your move, and you will find the answer.

Author:  startinglife [ Sat Jun 22, 2013 12:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What does this mean?

I agree making a move is the best way to get my answer. However she is in my social circle and if I make a move on a girl who is "with" a guy, it might hurt my chances with her friends and other girls in our social circle.

I actually ran into this problem in the past before...girls who are "just talking" with a guy, "just friendly" but not exclusive... I just want to know what it imeans when girls are "kinda" with someone... doesn't this mean they are leaving options open because they know they can do better but in the meantime keeping a guy around?

Author:  Dragula [ Sat Jun 22, 2013 12:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What does this mean?

This is the massive bad thing about social circle's, a lot of time you have to repress your true desires for the sake of the group where as cold approach , you don't need to give a shit because there are no reprecussions.

If it was me, id leave it, just assume she is sucking this guy's dick.

Just be cool, still flirt with her and hopefully she will make a signal that will give you the green light to mac on her.

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