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| Author: | bartm [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 3:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | why girl wanted to have nothing to do with me? |
hi today I talked to this girl and she acted like she wanted to have nothing to do with me. I am wondering why? I went out not looking the best I could. my face was not shaved, my hair looked all messy. I am near-sighted so when I wear my glasses and I am looking at someone near, I push down the glasses and I look at them without the glasses. that's what i did today. creepy? so I was at this ice cream place and 2 girls came in. one of them called the other one "Nicole" so I figured out her name. so couple of minutes later I told her "hi nicole" she said "sorry, where do I know you from?" I said "how could you not know?" she said "I'm sorry, I am blanking out, I dont know" I said "come on" and she told her friend "he is making fun of me" I said "no, I am not making fun of you" her friend asked me "are you on drugs?" I said "no are you?"* she said "no" so I told the nicole girl "I am your twin brother. we were born together" and then the friend says "did you fuck her?" I said "not yet" then they left the place. I kind of followed them, but pretended I was just going my own way and not following them. They were standing behind a red light and I just pretended like I just noticed them. I said "so are you guys sharing your ice creams?" the friend said to me "she was telling me she likes you" I asked Nicole "do you think I am good looking?" she said "you are alright, but I still dont know where i know you from" then the friend said to me "bye. nice to meet you" I extended my hand and said "bye" she didnt shake it, made some weird gesture with her hand, like 2 finger folded, 2 fingers not? (all this time I was looking at them the way I described my glasses above) then the light turned green and they started walking at a high speed. I said "hey, wait up" they looked back and continued walking. So I ran to catch up to them and told nicole "give me your number and I will tell you where I know you from" she said "stooooop" in a playful way. they walked into this store. I didn't follow them and left. So I am wondering what went wrong? *regarding this drug thing...I realized right after that I should have said "yes, I am on crack" instead of being reactive like that. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 3:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why girl wanted to have nothing to do with me? |
Creepy? Creepy as fuck dude! Like seriously? You basically told a girl who doesn't know you -- in the middle of the day when you're looking like a slob -- I haven't fucked you yet but I will....... Then you followed them when they left like a psychopath and started yelling at them on the street. You know who else behaves like that? Homeless people and actual psychopaths. Yeah. Creepy. Everything about that interaction was creepy. |
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| Author: | Betamax [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 7:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why girl wanted to have nothing to do with me? |
Trolls gonna troll. |
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| Author: | Preston87 [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 7:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why girl wanted to have nothing to do with me? |
No dude, you aren't chasing nearly enough. Them leaving the place quickly, then continuing to walk away from you as you chased was a clear indicator of interest. Next time continue following them, making loud noises, and grab them by the shoulder roughly - this is called kino. Oh and be sure to pass by police officers when you're doing this. |
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| Author: | Rocko the trucker [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 8:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why girl wanted to have nothing to do with me? |
Dude you were stalking them. Read through your original post from a different point of view. You'll see it. You really creeped these girls out. However they looked during this transaction. If you see it with another girl just walk away man. Only makes you look more creepy and them more scared. Nothing positive there. Unless you know them don't call out their first name. This caught her off guard and confused Her. If you would've introduced yourself with "hi I'm Jon" or whatever it may have gone completely differently. It's ok man. Can't say I havn't put myself in awkward situations like this when I was younger. When I learned to spot them early and get away from them I found it usually turns out better for everyone. I'm not really a creep so why act like one. Lol If a girls not interested, she's not interested. Don't try to force yourself on her. She's just not worth your time. Plenty if other girls will appreciate getting it. You look like a creep while fucking up your own self worth doing this. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 8:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why girl wanted to have nothing to do with me? |
IT WAS A SHIT TEST YOU SHOULD OF KEPT FOLLOWING THEM BRO, ALLLLLL THE WAY HOME. just kidding. Very stalker ish, now you have learned to NEVER...EVER...do that again. It's was over the moment after your 2nd line was said.. |
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| Author: | bartm [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 3:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why girl wanted to have nothing to do with me? |
hi guys I dont understand how I was being creepy. the part where I followed them didn't happen like you think. we were both checking out, paying for our shit. they were in front of me. they paid and left, I paid and left. then I pretended like I was just walking home and suddenly noticed them behind the red light. they were acting like i am a rapist or something, so it has to be something I did. But I just dont see how I was being creepy. how was i being creepy? here is how i was hoping it would turn out: I would say "oh really? you dont remember?" make her think and think and then say "I actually dont know you, your friend called your name. lol lol give me your number" how come it didnt turn out like that? |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 3:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why girl wanted to have nothing to do with me? |
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I dont understand how I was being creepy.
THIS PART:Quote: hi
today I talked to this girl and she acted like she wanted to have nothing to do with me. I am wondering why? I went out not looking the best I could. my face was not shaved, my hair looked all messy. I am near-sighted so when I wear my glasses and I am looking at someone near, I push down the glasses and I look at them without the glasses. that's what i did today. creepy? so I was at this ice cream place and 2 girls came in. one of them called the other one "Nicole" so I figured out her name. so couple of minutes later I told her "hi nicole" she said "sorry, where do I know you from?" I said "how could you not know?" she said "I'm sorry, I am blanking out, I dont know" I said "come on" and she told her friend "he is making fun of me" I said "no, I am not making fun of you" her friend asked me "are you on drugs?" I said "no are you?"* she said "no" so I told the nicole girl "I am your twin brother. we were born together" and then the friend says "did you fuck her?" I said "not yet" then they left the place. I kind of followed them, but pretended I was just going my own way and not following them. They were standing behind a red light and I just pretended like I just noticed them. I said "so are you guys sharing your ice creams?" the friend said to me "she was telling me she likes you" I asked Nicole "do you think I am good looking?" she said "you are alright, but I still dont know where i know you from" then the friend said to me "bye. nice to meet you" I extended my hand and said "bye" she didnt shake it, made some weird gesture with her hand, like 2 finger folded, 2 fingers not? (all this time I was looking at them the way I described my glasses above) then the light turned green and they started walking at a high speed. I said "hey, wait up" they looked back and continued walking. So I ran to catch up to them and told nicole "give me your number and I will tell you where I know you from" she said "stooooop" in a playful way. they walked into this store. I didn't follow them and left. So I am wondering what went wrong? *regarding this drug thing...I realized right after that I should have said "yes, I am on crack" instead of being reactive like that. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 3:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why girl wanted to have nothing to do with me? |
Quote: I push down the glasses and I look at them without the glasses. that's what i did today. creepy? Very creepy Quote: so I was at this ice cream place and 2 girls came in. one of them called the other one "Nicole" so I figured out her name. lurking and eaves dropping on a conversation... also very creepy. You're better off confusing her for someone else. I've done this before and it works quite well. "Is that Lauren?!"Quote: so couple of minutes later I told her "hi nicole" she said "sorry, where do I know you from?" I said "how could you not know?" she said "I'm sorry, I am blanking out, I dont know" I said "come on" and she told her friend "he is making fun of me" I said "no, I am not making fun of you" her friend asked me "are you on drugs?" I said "no are you?"* she said "no" I'd think you were on drugs tooQuote: so I told the nicole girl "I am your twin brother. we were born together" and then the friend says "did you fuck her?" I said "not yet" then they left the place. Since you said you are her twin brother, this is incest that you are suggesting will happen in the near future. This is also creepy.Quote: I kind of followed them, but pretended I was just going my own way and not following them. They were standing behind a red light and I just pretended like I just noticed them. I said "so are you guys sharing your ice creams?" This is hella stalkerish. Creepy.Quote: the friend said to me "she was telling me she likes you" They were fucking with you. They were having fun. The girl didn't actually like you. Her friend just wanted to get a reaction out of her. I'll do this with my buddies sometimes... Shout out real loud in the line at Chipotle "Hey bro, are you still dating that dude?" Puts him in an awkward situation. That is what this girl did to her friend.Quote: I asked Nicole "do you think I am good looking?" she said "you are alright, but I still dont know where i know you from" then the friend said to me "bye. nice to meet you" This was her letting you down nicely because she probably was actually a really nice girl that you creeped the fuck out.Quote: I extended my hand and said "bye" she didnt shake it, made some weird gesture with her hand, like 2 finger folded, 2 fingers not? (all this time I was looking at them the way I described my glasses above) You might as well have waved goodbye like E.T... CreepyQuote: then the light turned green and they started walking at a high speed. I said "hey, wait up" they looked back and continued walking. So I ran to catch up to them and told nicole "give me your number and I will tell you where I know you from" why would she give you her number if she knows nothing more about you besides you are some guy who creeped her out? No attraction (clearly) No comfort (actually UN-comfort)Quote: she said "stooooop" in a playful way. they walked into this store. Again, she didn't want to be a bitch and hurt your feelingsQuote: I didn't follow them and left. Probably the best thing you did during the whole interactionQuote: So I am wondering what went wrong?
Anymore brain busters? You need to work on being socially calibrated dude. You have no idea when people are fucking with you and when you are making a situation awkward. Girls love when a guy actually comes up and talks to them... They are hoping to themselves.. "OMG a guy who will actually talk to me! I hope he's cool and fucking NORMAL!!" Which you were not... Work on being socially normal.
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 4:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why girl wanted to have nothing to do with me? |
Quote: hi guys
I dont understand how I was being creepy. the part where I followed them didn't happen like you think. we were both checking out, paying for our shit. they were in front of me. they paid and left, I paid and left. then I pretended like I was just walking home and suddenly noticed them behind the red light. they were acting like i am a rapist or something, so it has to be something I did. But I just dont see how I was being creepy. how was i being creepy? here is how i was hoping it would turn out: I would say "oh really? you dont remember?" make her think and think and then say "I actually dont know you, your friend called your name. lol lol give me your number" how come it didnt turn out like that? You're right. Everyone else is wrong and you behaved perfectly normally. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 4:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why girl wanted to have nothing to do with me? |
Ya Know Bro's, as blatantly retarded as this post is, trolling or not! It almost worked. If anyone is a fan of "Family Guy" you may remember "Peter" discovers he is slightly mentally retarded. He then uses this knowledge as free licence to do, or say anything. All he has to do is play the retard card at the end, and he is excused. He gets points from me for going in FULL BOLD! There are components here that many PUAs strive for; 1. An unusual look. 2. Completely original approach. 3. Un-paralleled level of fuckin CONFIDENCE! NOW everything else was ludicrous. But it did have those three key things. |
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| Author: | fishnwomen [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 7:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why girl wanted to have nothing to do with me? |
So a set blew up in your face... just accept it and move on. The sooner you realize that a rejection isn't a big deal, the better. Some guys are going to beat up on you about it. But you are light years ahead of the guys who aren't approaching so don't give up. There are a few things I take away from this interaction. 1. You weren't looking your best perhaps- always dress and feel your best as much as possible. 2. You don't need to make an opener personal, you just need to get the conversation started, almost anything will do. Just say you need a female opinion on something. 3. Never follow the girls unless they ask you to, especially if they are trying to leave. What you can do is command them to come back for some reason. This takes skill, and can be difficult to do. 4. Lastly, you will probably laugh at this approach a year from now if you keep approaching regularly. I laugh at some of the pathetic attempts I have made in the past. I was afraid to even talk to a girl, any girl. I laugh at the days when I was clueless, but at least I am liberated with the truth about my previous attempts... they sucked. 5. Every time you approach you get .001% better at the game, even if you screw up. |
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