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| Author: | joestylez [ Fri Feb 08, 2008 3:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Negs hurt |
Tonight on MSN someone told me they sometimes can't take my honesty. I replied with, "Where have I been honest?" And she said, "With all the things you have said, I dunno" Me: "You are too fragile, relax" (trying to keep negging while being understanding) her: I'm just self-conscious, I don't know when you are being serious or not Me: Lmao, do you need a hug? XD (sarcastic) I think I messed up there. What should I have done? |
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| Author: | Financialwar [ Fri Feb 08, 2008 4:56 am ] |
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was she a hb 9 or 10?? ur not suppose to use too much neg unless she's super hot or arrogant. if she tells you that she's hurt, you obviously went overboard. lol. the point of a neg is to get to as close to the line as possible without crossing it. but i guess you've crossed it. |
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| Author: | Roads [ Fri Feb 08, 2008 6:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Negs hurt |
Quote: Tonight on MSN someone told me they sometimes can't take my honesty.
How did she respond to the sarcastic comment?I replied with, "Where have I been honest?" And she said, "With all the things you have said, I dunno" Me: "You are too fragile, relax" (trying to keep negging while being understanding) her: I'm just self-conscious, I don't know when you are being serious or not Me: Lmao, do you need a hug? XD (sarcastic) I think I messed up there. What should I have done? It's really hard to respond to this because we don't know the flow of the conversation. Usually you can tell if you offend someone even on IM's, but it's got to be real time. Anyway, like Hobbit said, if you just met her then sarcasm and disqualification is good. If you're trying to find things in common (build rapport), then cut the sarcasm and let her know a little bit about the real you. |
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| Author: | Flipz [ Sat Feb 09, 2008 3:23 am ] |
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you need to calibrate the situation better...if she has low confidence dont neg, it backfires on you. Negs are designed for any girl who has HB9-10 mentality...using negs on lower categories is risky as youve seen...neg with caution |
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| Author: | nebuer [ Sat Feb 09, 2008 9:54 am ] |
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Why do you neg at all? The alpha shouldn't need to bring ANY girl down to his level. He should already be above her. |
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| Author: | Flipz [ Sat Feb 09, 2008 2:20 pm ] |
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Quote: Why do you neg at all? The alpha shouldn't need to bring ANY girl down to his level. He should already be above her
Negs dont brg her down to yor level, theyre too belittle her so she seems below you so she works for your interests...its not about brging her down to ur level....youre alrdy ABOVE her level if you present yourself ALPHA[/quote]
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| Author: | Efrahim [ Sat Feb 09, 2008 6:33 pm ] |
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You should feel if she is feeling bad about her self. I you think she does, just make her feel better. This could have 2 possible outcomes 1) She feels good about herself and gets attracted to you 2) She feels good about herself and doesn't get attracted to you If you try to continue the negging 1) She feels bad about herself If it feels wrong it is wrong... Don't hurt the girls |
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