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OPINION NEEDED: Girl with BF - is she interested?
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Author:  The_Aspiring_Man [ Wed Jun 12, 2013 11:58 pm ]
Post subject:  OPINION NEEDED: Girl with BF - is she interested?

Right so there's this girl with a long term bf (been dating for 4-5 years now) who I kinda vaguely knew but not really until a couple of months ago...met her at a party through a mutual friend and us 3 hung out most of that night and she enjoyed our company.

That night she also started DMing me on twitter (didn't have her no at the time) about the girl I was next to who started chatting some bullshit.

Then by coincidence a week later I suggested to the college netball captain who was organising their social that I should help devise their challenges as a joke - the captain agreed and I suggested a funny challenge for the GF which was taking the piss out of her driving skills (in joke between us)

She then heard about me helping and tweeted me saying 'oh god ____ is doing the forfeits what's mine?'
I told her wait and see ;)

The night of the social she ended up somehow getting my number ( I hadn't given it to her) and texting me like "you're so mean for that hahaha"

Anyway, fastforward a couple of months and she has regularly texted me, tweeted and liked lots of my fb pictures......she also turned to me for help which i was happy to do. She is a lovely, beautiful girl who is really friendly and active socially. But sometimes I see her tweeting complaints/indirects that I'm sure are about her BF and some explicitly mention him.

Oh I've also noticed she has twice texted and contacted me when she has been drunk. Just when I thought maybe I was crazy she did this the other day!

Nevertheless she has been with her BF for ages so this has got me thinking what is she doing?
Is she just dissatisfied and looking for attention? (Ironically how we first started talking at the party was our mutual disgust at someone we knew who was cheating haha)

How should I proceed, if at all?

Cheers

Author:  Psydaddy [ Thu Jun 13, 2013 4:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: OPINION NEEDED: Girl with BF - is she interested?

Maybe she's just boring about her ex and want some wild things to do, that can happen. But she can still be in love with that guy so don't make your self in love for her.

But it's clear (at least for what i read) that she wants something, but what something is i can't tell you, but you don't lose anything to try to understand what it is (if you know what i mean).

About the attention thing, i don't think so, when a woman wants attention from a guy it leans to sex...
Hit on her, do your best! You wouldn't lose anything only your pride, but who cares about pride?!

Best of luck

Author:  LEPRECHAUN [ Thu Jun 13, 2013 4:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: OPINION NEEDED: Girl with BF - is she interested?

Don't hang out with her or reply to any of her texts for a week.

You are almost in the friend zone if you're not already there.

Don't do stuff a friend would do. Start treating her like your bratty little sister. Tease her. Make jokes about her in a mean yet funny way. I'm sure you can see where this is going.

Author:  The_Aspiring_Man [ Thu Jun 13, 2013 9:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: OPINION NEEDED: Girl with BF - is she interested?

Cheers guys for your thoughts.

@psydaddy thanks man will do since got nothing to lose, been hitting on her anyway now a while, so will continue to do so ;)

@leprechaun cheers dude, haha yeah tbh I never really expected this so don't have anything to lose, just feel guilty for her bf as he's a good guy :/ And yeah I'm constantly giving her banter teasing her anyways so I guess I'll just step up the meaness and humour in them and freeze her out a bit :p

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