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| Author: | JaceRiot [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 5:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | What to do when the attraction is lost? |
When C + F isnt working? Whats the best thing to do? Just dont talk to them for a while? Learn new push pull? I dont know if I pushed too hard or maybe it's just a genuine loss of attraction. Meh. Not good. |
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| Author: | Psydaddy [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 12:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when the attraction is lost? |
Quote: When C + F isnt working? Whats the best thing to do? Just dont talk to them for a while? Learn new push pull?
"C" = comfort , "F" =? Did you mean "S" = seduction? I guess you are talking about Mystery Method.I dont know if I pushed too hard or maybe it's just a genuine loss of attraction. Meh. Not good. Comfort it's like the main goal, if she's not comfortable then you have to make it happen, otherwise you are screw! Try again from the beginning: http://www.seductionbase.com/mysterymethod.htm If you fail don't do it again! Or you'll become a loser with no self-steam! Best of luck |
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| Author: | JaceRiot [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 7:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when the attraction is lost? |
I meant cocky + funny. Do you just learn new cocky funny lines? |
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| Author: | AFCToTheMax [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 9:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when the attraction is lost? |
I suggest you forget cocky funny lines as quick as possible. It's got nothing to do with attraction, but most of all it doesn't create any. Talk to the girls like she is a normal human being. |
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| Author: | JaceRiot [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 10:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when the attraction is lost? |
So just talk to her normally and you'll get the attraction back? Do you stop talking to her for a bit? I feel like before she was initiating all the contact. Now it's me. And she replies very briefly with me. |
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| Author: | Psydaddy [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 10:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when the attraction is lost? |
Quote: I suggest you forget cocky funny lines as quick as possible. It's got nothing to do with attraction, but most of all it doesn't create any. Talk to the girls like she is a normal human being.
This guy told you all!If you are funny all the time you will not be able to be taken serious when you must need it. And funny guys usually start to become boring after awhile. Oh and btw, name me 5 comedians that has a awesome girlfriends? See, "oh you are so funny ahah, you should totally be my friend and be with me to make me laugh when i'm feeling bad". You should make jokes, it creates good vibe (and would make her comfortable), but they should be as slight as possible and with brains in it... you shouldn't make stand-up comedy in front of a girl... So you have to calibrate emotions, you must do just a few jokes (like a maximum of 3 in a row) and then talk serious about something for awhile. The main goal is to just make a joke once in awhile!!! I usually joke when i'm teasing her, i don't do jokes about something that I've heard or something that I'm seeing at the time, that's lame and she might don't understand it! |
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| Author: | Tr@veler [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 11:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when the attraction is lost? |
Hold up guys, Cocky and Funny is a legitimate way of flirting with a girl. If C&F is a way for you to HAVE FUN then sure thing, go ahead and do just that. It's a great little technique to use, and it came out of just having fun and flirting with girls. As for the OP's question, if you have lost attraction it's because you've done something or DIDN'T do something when she wanted you to, i.e make a move. Now that you've actually lost attraction you can work on building it back up. How? The same way you started out. By having fun with her and building her buying temperature again, which then allows you to build more compliance and so on and so forth. However, you have not provided much detail, and so it is hard to truly answer your question. Is she just uninterested, is she cold, is she mean? What happened? If she's just not as interested as before just build it back up again by being self-amusing and having fun with her. If she doesn't feel like having fun with you, don't try anything. You be you, she either comes around or she doesn't. |
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| Author: | JaceRiot [ Wed Jun 12, 2013 4:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What to do when the attraction is lost? |
Thanks for all the help, so much I havent thought of. I realized theres that thing of being the dancing monkey which can create attraction early on and but kill it later. -- Well her conversations on the phone and her texts all of a sudden lack that spark. She used to text liek paragraphs and now its 3 -5 words. I'd like to say because it's been a busy week for her, but cmon we have to be honest here. Thats just a loss of attraction. Sure it may be other guys, maybe I said something wrong, was too easy, etc. But Im pretty sure theres a loss of attraction and I dont know how to pump it up again. The same stuff I say to other girls makes them crack up and talk naughty with me. When I say similar things to this girl its just a small haha, nothing like it was before. I told her I'd call her maybe I should keep it short and remind her Im a busy catch-worthy guy? |
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