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Author:  Advice [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 4:15 am ]
Post subject:  Question about social proof
Whats up fellas.... I've recently become single after a 2 year relationship and have very few female friends and all my boys are married with kids.... I do have a group of 4 girls that are all single and would be considered anywhere from thick to fat but all are pretty and fun to go out with. I'm a relatively good looking guy and in good shape and all the girls I've dated have been about 8s to 9s and in shape... I don't really have any wingmen to go out with but the thick girls love to go out every weekend and always invite me and wouldn't hesitate to wing for me if I asked them.... My question is would I be better off going out to bars and clubs with them or by myself? I can't decide if they lower my social value or raise it, on one hand i'm walking in with 4 girls that are very flirtatious with me and we always have a good time and I feel like this may motivate more attractive girls to try and game me or if it lowers my social proof because they're thicker girls.... What you fellas think?
Author:  Betamax [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 4:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Question about social proof
Much better than going out alone, without a doubt. Plus they're willing to be pivots? Done deal.

When you look at a popular athlete, do you tell yourself "wow only losers like him, therefore he must be a damn loser too"?
Author:  Wrath* [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 4:34 am ]
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Go with the girls. It's almost like walking a little old lady across the street in front of a bunch of girls. A guy that confident will not only attract the attention of new girls but scare away competition.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 4:40 am ]
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Go with the girls. They will help you. Trust me.
Author:  Pickwick [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 4:42 am ]
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Going out with them or going out alone mainly depends on what you feel comfortable with. There are many guys who rather go out alone and do much better than with people. If you feel like you need to grab some girls to go out, do it.
Author:  Advice [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 6:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Question about social proof
Thanks for the feedback gentlemen, i was kind of leaning towards it being a good thing but just wanted some outside input on it.... I hate going out alone, its tough to get in a social mood being by myself and these girls usually drive, are fun, don't mind letting me crash in their bed and also have a pool at their new house which will be a great after party spot... I think it might make other big girls think I'm a chubby chaser or something, when we went out Friday night i had a girl come up to me and tell me her friend thought i was hot and this beast was 220 easy.....and that was the second night in a row where i've had a girl approach me about 10 mins before the bar closed to let me know their nasty friend wanted me....lol
Author:  Betamax [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 6:32 am ]
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Girls won't necessarily think you're a chubby chaser just because you're surrounded by fatties. But then you can use that as a disqualifier/neg for skinny or average girls: "nah, I like girls with meat on their bones."
Author:  Themagicalone [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 7:36 pm ]
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Thanks for the feedback gentlemen, i was kind of leaning towards it being a good thing but just wanted some outside input on it.... I hate going out alone, its tough to get in a social mood being by myself and these girls usually drive, are fun, don't mind letting me crash in their bed and also have a pool at their new house which will be a great after party spot... I think it might make other big girls think I'm a chubby chaser or something, when we went out Friday night i had a girl come up to me and tell me her friend thought i was hot and this beast was 220 easy.....and that was the second night in a row where i've had a girl approach me about 10 mins before the bar closed to let me know their nasty friend wanted me....lol
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA I'm crying right now
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Tue Jun 11, 2013 8:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Question about social proof
What happens on field is what it is. Don't let some theory that looks good on paper (in this case in digital form) fool you. Meanwhile, some theories that appear will not work actually work when you field test them.

You can team up with your big girls for the day 2s and setting up the f-close (it's still social proof) but for approaching new girls, you'll have to build propinquity with a few hot girls that you can team up or wing to f-close hot girls with the same or better quality.

Building propinquity with beautiful hired guns can be easy. Just go to a target rich environment, friend zone the hot girls (usually the hired guns) for 2 to 3 weeks and then use the social proof from your propinquity build up to cold approach new girls who see that the hot girls are comfortable around you.

Of course, there are many ways to do it and this is just one way.

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