I'm an introvert too, but I can get really talkative.
some things that work for me and might help...
do you have female friends? if not, find them or maybe start with girls in
your social circle. Talk with them a lot, the pressure should be lower then
the cold approach and it makes you get more comfortable with talking.
ask female friends out and ask them to take her friends with her. being
surrounded be girls makes the talking to all girls over the evening
more smooth.
listen
listen very careful to people, you'll find many subtleties that are interesting
in what they say you can react on.
advice
ask them for an advice while in conversation. people love to give advice, can be
about anything.
introverts have often very interesting things to say. they thought about stuff.
don't hesitate to talk about stuff you really are interested in. if you miss interesting
stuff in your life, fix that first. if people feel your enthousiasm it pulls them in your world. girls love that.
aaah, now I think of it, I know what you should check out:
Kezia Noble with her: "10 hook lead system" and her "deep connection" video's !!
good luck!
