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Author:  Hunter9 [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 10:25 pm ]
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Hey guys so I'm texting a girl I've been speaking to for a while and she is attracted to me.
We're talking about me spanking her as punishment and I said that she'd probably enjoy it, her response was
":O what are you trying to say!?!?"

I'm 90% sure she's kidding around and obviously isn't really annoyed and thinking I'm Calling her a whore. I've been using cocky funny a lot and I'm looking to see if there's any good responses you guys can think up and any possibly any general flirting tips too as I'm clueless haha

Thanks

Ps the only response I can think is something like "I have lovely, soft hands and you'd love to feel them; regardless of with which body part? ;)"
Author:  AmazingArt [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 11:31 pm ]
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It's a shit test just reply exactly what you mean. She is testing you if you will try to hide your intent or not. Also, right now if you're talking about these kind of stuff it means she is interested in you. Sieze the moment and go to her place and fuck her. Prolonging the sexual dialogue by texts will just make her lose interest in you.
Author:  Hunter9 [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 11:47 pm ]
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Thanks for the advice man, We were matched together by a mutual friend because she liked me so i know shes interested. I'm hoping to meet up with her soon and I've already replied with what I've put above haha.
She's still denying she would love me spanking her so I don't really know what else to put its just me saying she would love it and her sort of playing hard to get and not admitting it (we're just having a laugh). Any advice?


Any advice on general flirting as I'm not great at it haha?
Author:  AmazingArt [ Sun Jun 09, 2013 1:57 am ]
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Just change the topic. Lead the conversation. As for flirting, you can create a role playing theme. Just say something like we going to hawaii on a boat tmrw, bring some bananas and pinaples" or something like that. Just use your imagination for roleplaying.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun Jun 09, 2013 2:10 am ]
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"that bad girls need to be disciplined"

She wants you to take the sexual frame, just don't over do it and be creepy

Continue being playful sexy, tease her a little keep her wondering a bit something to wet her appetite but then hold back, get her roused up and a little frustratred;) don't give in

Have fun man!
Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun Jun 09, 2013 2:12 am ]
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Quote:
Just change the topic. Lead the conversation. As for flirting, you can create a role playing theme. Just say something like we going to hawaii on a boat tmrw, bring some bananas and pinaples" or something like that. Just use your imagination for roleplaying.
Having him drop the sexual frame = Fail.

There's some sexual tension being bourn out of this, keep stocking the flame here and there.
Author:  Hunter9 [ Sun Jun 09, 2013 3:24 pm ]
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Thanks guys lots of great advice here and AmazingArt we have roleplayed a bit I was talking about us having a house and a blind dog named stevie and a hot tub in the yard that we'd sit in and get the full hot tub experience after dark. Think that's any good?

And n2thevoid I feel like I always sound creepy haha I'm not great at flirting. How do you suppose I wet her appetite and stock the flame? I would love to have her hanging on my every word and have the power to get her fired up then just leave her there to get frustrated but I'm pretty useless at this haha.

Anything else you guys can think of that may help?
Author:  n2thevoid [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 6:00 pm ]
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Quote:
Thanks guys lots of great advice here and AmazingArt we have roleplayed a bit I was talking about us having a house and a blind dog named stevie and a hot tub in the yard that we'd sit in and get the full hot tub experience after dark. Think that's any good?

And n2thevoid I feel like I always sound creepy haha I'm not great at flirting. How do you suppose I wet her appetite and stock the flame? I would love to have her hanging on my every word and have the power to get her fired up then just leave her there to get frustrated but I'm pretty useless at this haha.

Anything else you guys can think of that may help?
Be willing to take some risks. Nothing is ever gained by staying in the comfort some. Stick her neck out a bit
Author:  Hunter9 [ Thu Jun 20, 2013 4:43 pm ]
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(Sorry for slow reply, been busy)

I know I have to get out the comfort zone a bit to keep it exciting but I'm unsure on the line between fun and sexual to creepy and Perverted haha, what do you do?
Author:  Hot-Shot [ Thu Jun 20, 2013 5:04 pm ]
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Quote:
Thanks guys lots of great advice here and AmazingArt we have roleplayed a bit I was talking about us having a house and a blind dog named stevie and a hot tub in the yard that we'd sit in and get the full hot tub experience after dark. Think that's any good?

And n2thevoid I feel like I always sound creepy haha I'm not great at flirting. How do you suppose I wet her appetite and stock the flame? I would love to have her hanging on my every word and have the power to get her fired up then just leave her there to get frustrated but I'm pretty useless at this haha.

Anything else you guys can think of that may help?
Keep mentioning that you're not great at flirting and you'll be even worse than before. From now on tell yourself you're great at flirting. Even if you don't think you are, between you and your sub conscious, convince yourself that you're good at flirting and your subconscious will do the rest for ya. Just make sure your conscious mind knows not to go over board
Author:  Hunter9 [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 7:15 pm ]
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I don't think I'm necessarily bad at it just very unexperienced lol. I understand girls get more arroused through text and imagination but I just feel stupid haha. I feel as if I'm just not arousing her, heating her up or getting her wet or anything, I feel I'm trying to be sexual and she's just sitting there like "what the hell is he doing? Weirdo!". She doesn't really get flirty back and I think she is possibly slightly uncomfortable with her saying stuff to me because she's quite innocent. How do I open her up and make her comfortable to tell me all the naughty, kinky things she wants to do?
Also any examples of some great texts/ lines you've used?
Many thanks again man!
Author:  n2thevoid [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 7:46 pm ]
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Lead
Author:  Hunter9 [ Fri Jun 21, 2013 8:25 pm ]
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What? Haha
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