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| Author: | Starttoaster [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 12:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is it too late? |
I've known this girl for several years, and have done my best to not attempt to attract her as she had been in a relationship for the past 2 years. I like to believe there's no brick wall in pickup, and that there's always a way, but I know this past friendship doesn't help my game. My question is, how can I go about attracting her as more than a friend suddenly? I am VERY close to her. She tells me all her secrets and shit. Her and her boyfriend recently broke up, and I want to be next in line. She's fucking cute, guys. Like HB9, if you're into asians. And the thing is, she thwarts all my attempts at kino escalation. I've though about it some, and I don't believe I have oneitis for this girl. She's just somebody I'm interested in. She's kind of out there too, which I like. She asked me today if we could make youtube videos together waving our arms standing next to "whacky waving inflatable arm flailing tube men." |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 1:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is it too late? |
Your so deep in the Friend Zone you can't see straight! Learn how to take a fucking hint. Friend zone guys just don't get it, AT ALL. When a girl isn't interested, she will give you SIGNS, Bro. READ 'EM! SHE DOES NOT LIKE YOU THAT WAY! She will never fuck you! Guys cannot be that stupidly dense that they can't feel a girl's rejection. Persistence is only make it worse, get off her. Unless you're gay, don't be a girl's best friend. I cannot emphasize this enough! Girls just don't want to hurt your feelings. They're usually nice people who like to establish and maintain relationships. HOWEVER, when they have to decide they don't want to establish a relationship with someone they are not attracted to, They friend-zone you. Move on with your sad little life. Stop complaining. She may have placed you in the friend-zone, but that doesn't mean you have to stay there. If you're a good guy and you're stuck in this zone, leave. It'll be her loss. What the hell are you so worried about? There are other females out there. You don't need to stick around, get all ass hurt and complain to the world, just go get one that will fuck you. |
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| Author: | zzzman [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 2:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is it too late? |
Quote: She tells me all her secrets and shit.
I have a close friend who was gay and he had this fag hag that told him all her secrets. She recently found out he is banging chicks now and she flipped her shit, called him and told him off. She had trusted and told him so much, he had seen her naked, because he was gay/non-threatening, so IMO (for the little its worth) that is a really bad sign she lets you in on all that...
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| Author: | Starttoaster [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 2:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is it too late? |
Who the fuck are you? You don't know me. A simple "don't try" would have been fine. I'd get it. I was wondering if anybody had insight on undoing years of friendship in the relationship. Apparently impossible according to you. Got it. But fuck yourself. I understand my position in the friendzone. I'm not lost blindly in it. I'm new, but I'm not that new. And my experience isn't limited by my posts. I don't give a fuck to post every time I go out sarging. Don't judge me as some hopeless guy that doesn't understand just cuz there's tons of them out there. I'm just a guy with a cute female friend. And she's valuable to have as a friend. I should note that I HAVE gotten with her in the past. We've just gotten to be close friends after splitting up for a while. Tl;dr: Fuck you. PS. I'm on my phone. Don't know how to reply to specific people. This is for first guy. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 1:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is it too late? |
Quote: Who the fuck are you? You don't know me. A simple "don't try" would have been fine. I'd get it. I was wondering if anybody had insight on undoing years of friendship in the relationship. Apparently impossible according to you. Got it. But fuck yourself. I understand my position in the friendzone. I'm not lost blindly in it. I'm new, but I'm not that new. And my experience isn't limited by my posts. I don't give a fuck to post every time I go out sarging. Don't judge me as some hopeless guy that doesn't understand just cuz there's tons of them out there. I'm just a guy with a cute female friend. And she's valuable to have as a friend. I should note that I HAVE gotten with her in the past. We've just gotten to be close friends after splitting up for a while.
You are right Toaster, I don't know you. I didn't think a little sand in your panties was going to make you cry.Tl;dr: Fuck you. PS. I'm on my phone. Don't know how to reply to specific people. This is for first guy. I didn't judge you, I judged what the fuck you wrote! Quote: I was wondering if anybody had insight on undoing years of friendship
Yes, stop being her emotional tampon, STOP being her friend.Quote: And she's valuable to have as a friend.
Maybe so, but not if you want to fuck her.Quote: I should note that I HAVE gotten with her in the past.
Yes, you should have noted that.Quote: A simple "don't try" would have been fine.
Now that would have been less than productive, wouldn't it?Quote: I'm just a guy with a cute female friend.
That you really, really, want to fuck.
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| Author: | Starttoaster [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 3:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is it too late? |
You're right, lol. I was in a bad mood because I just woke up or something. Anyway, yeah, I want to fuck her. It's not a big deal to me. I feel like that's our goal most of the time with pickup. It's just, I'm a friend to her. I was looking for more of a field tested strategy that could potentially lead me out of a friendzone. Most of what I've learned is for new acquaintences. I want to fuck my friend now that she's single finally, because she's hot. But I'll have no problem finding some way to move on if it's impossible, yuh know =P haha |
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| Author: | Dexter's Lab [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 4:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is it too late? |
Bro Your friendship will be at stake if you try this but it's worth a try Go out with her. Change venues like you learn from all pua material Ask her if she wants desert. Get her home. Dim lights. Wine Read material from Ross Jeffries for disarming and lowering her bitch shield. Helps a lot I've tried. She will trust you more. Go for the kiss. If she doesn't and stops you. Tell her you felt something special with her and more escalation and blah. Go for the kiss again if she says no then game over Buy if she's hesitant then just go for it. Don't stop Most likely if she's not a bit tipsy she will reject and think its unacceptable for you 2 to hookup So make sure dim light. Smell nice. Confidence. Grow some balls and go for it. Don't over think |
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| Author: | zmbcm1 [ Mon Jun 10, 2013 11:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is it too late? |
Quote: Who the fuck are you? You don't know me. A simple "don't try" would have been fine. I'd get it. I was wondering if anybody had insight on undoing years of friendship in the relationship. Apparently impossible according to you. Got it. But fuck yourself. I understand my position in the friendzone. I'm not lost blindly in it. I'm new, but I'm not that new. And my experience isn't limited by my posts. I don't give a fuck to post every time I go out sarging. Don't judge me as some hopeless guy that doesn't understand just cuz there's tons of them out there. I'm just a guy with a cute female friend. And she's valuable to have as a friend. I should note that I HAVE gotten with her in the past. We've just gotten to be close friends after splitting up for a while.
Tl;dr: Fuck you. PS. I'm on my phone. Don't know how to reply to specific people. This is for first guy. Quote:
Don't judge me as some hopeless guy that doesn't understand just cuz there's tons of them out there.
Bro, you are more hopeless than bum buying a powerball lottery ticket. You were given an accurate assessment and sound advice based on what you wrote, and you flipped the fuck out. Typical beta/AFC behavior. And what the hell does "I've gotten with her" mean? You hugged her? You kissed her? You fucked her seven ways to Sunday? In response to your question, YES IT IS TOO LATE. You are IN THE FRIEND ZONE. The only chance you have of "getting" with this girl again is by stopping chasing after this girl and gaming others. If there is any chance of her desiring you again, it would be from seeing you succeed with other girls. |
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