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Author:  ScottEA [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 10:03 pm ]
Post subject:  1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
Hey guys, I think I got a shit test for the first time today by sms. A bit of context: I met this girl got her number we hung out at her place on monday night, we got on really well, . I used lot's of kino and comfort building even tried mystery's compliance test, it worked kiss-closed :) Eventually she put the kid to bed we went and sat on the sofa to watch TV for a little while, we cuddled for a while and I tried escalating into f close but it was late and she was really tired almost falling asleep in my arms, so I thought "fuck it this is going nowhere, I'll call a taxi". I went home and left her to sleep.
We kept in contact by text but then wednesday she got ill so I called her to see how she was, it wasn't BS and I used the situation to try and build comfort. Anyway tonight we have this exchange of texts:

her: Sorry can't do tonight still not well n falling asleep on my feet [19:27](we hadn't exactly planned anything definite anyway, so it's no biggie)
her: U ok with that? [19:48]
her: ? [20:13]
me: Yeah, Im at my aunties anyway. I'll ring you tomorrow :) [20:41]
her: KK [20:43]
her: Why did you keep trying to take me to bed the other night? What was ur intentions? and be honest please x [20:55]

Is this a shit test? And how do I respond? My instinct was just to ignore it like it never happened, is that the right thing to do?

Thanks for any advice PUA's!
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 10:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
Quote:
Hey guys, I think I got a shit test for the first time today by sms. A bit of context: I met this girl got her number we hung out at her place on monday night, we got on really well, . I used lot's of kino and comfort building even tried mystery's compliance test, it worked kiss-closed :) Eventually she put the kid to bed we went and sat on the sofa to watch TV for a little while, we cuddled for a while and I tried escalating into f close but it was late and she was really tired almost falling asleep in my arms, so I thought "fuck it this is going nowhere, I'll call a taxi". I went home and left her to sleep.
We kept in contact by text but then wednesday she got ill so I called her to see how she was, it wasn't BS and I used the situation to try and build comfort. Anyway tonight we have this exchange of texts:

her: Sorry can't do tonight still not well n falling asleep on my feet [19:27](we hadn't exactly planned anything definite anyway, so it's no biggie)
her: U ok with that? [19:48]
her: ? [20:13]
me: Yeah, Im at my aunties anyway. I'll ring you tomorrow :) [20:41]
her: KK [20:43]
her: Why did you keep trying to take me to bed the other night? What was ur intentions? and be honest please x [20:55]

Is this a shit test? And how do I respond? My instinct was just to ignore it like it never happened, is that the right thing to do?

Thanks for any advice PUA's!
Throw it back at her lol ask her "What do you think my intentions were? Be honest ;)"
Author:  ScottEA [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 10:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
Thanks for quick reply mate :) I was also thinking... if I ignore it, what if she brings it up again in tomorrows call? Should I just reply and nip it in the bud now?
Author:  ScottEA [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 10:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
I sent what Majikal said and she sent back:
her: U cant answer a question with a question. I dont know that's why I'm asking you

For fuck's sake woman! How do you guys manage to deal with this BS?!?
Author:  PurePlaya [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 11:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
It's a comfort test. Tell her "To be honest, I was a little caught up in the moment. My overall intentions are to just organically see what happens."

You'll probably get a "K" response. Act as usual after.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 11:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
Quote:
I sent what Majikal said and she sent back:
her: U cant answer a question with a question. I dont know that's why I'm asking you

For fuck's sake woman! How do you guys manage to deal with this BS?!?
"Well I just did. Use your imagination and tell me what you come up with! ;)"

It's all playing the game dude. Don't ever answer a question a girl asks you with a direct answer.. Remain mysterious and keep her guessing.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 11:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
Quote:
Quote:
I sent what Majikal said and she sent back:
her: U cant answer a question with a question. I dont know that's why I'm asking you

For fuck's sake woman! How do you guys manage to deal with this BS?!?
"Well I just did. Use your imagination and tell me what you come up with! ;)"

It's all playing the game dude. Don't ever answer a question a girl asks you with a direct answer.. Remain mysterious and keep her guessing.
Or you could say "well, my alter ego is Superman so I can do alot of things that other people can't. Be nice and maybe you will see some more crazy shit"

There's tons of responses you could give her. It comes down to controlling the interaction to get the outcome you want
Author:  PurePlaya [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 11:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
Quote:
Quote:
Quote:
I sent what Majikal said and she sent back:
her: U cant answer a question with a question. I dont know that's why I'm asking you

For fuck's sake woman! How do you guys manage to deal with this BS?!?
"Well I just did. Use your imagination and tell me what you come up with! ;)"

It's all playing the game dude. Don't ever answer a question a girl asks you with a direct answer.. Remain mysterious and keep her guessing.
Or you could say "well, my alter ego is Superman so I can do alot of things that other people can't. Be nice and maybe you will see some more crazy shit"

There's tons of responses you could give her. It comes down to controlling the interaction to get the outcome you want
For real? There comes a point when you have to stop giving floaty, mysterious, and especially weird answers and just speak like an adult. She asked you a direct question, give a direct answer. Just answer like a politician. The earlier response I posted doesn't necessarily lean towards any specific intention and it leaves the door open for her to answer with anything.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 11:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
Quote:

For real? There comes a point when you have to stop giving floaty, mysterious, and especially weird answers and just speak like an adult. She asked you a direct question, give a direct answer. Just answer like a politician. The earlier response I posted doesn't necessarily lean towards any specific intention and it leaves the door open for her to answer with anything.
Yeah... after she sleeps with you.
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 12:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
Shes a woman, your a man, she knows what the fuck your intentions were. Nows shes just testing you to see if you are man enough, and confident enough to be congruent with it.

'To give you many orgasms of course" would have been the bets answer.
Author:  neo87 [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 4:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
You tried to take her to the bed in an unsmooth way. Now she thinks you just want sex from her.
Author:  AFCToTheMax [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 8:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
Quote:
I sent what Majikal said and she sent back:
her: U cant answer a question with a question. I dont know that's why I'm asking you

For fuck's sake woman! How do you guys manage to deal with this BS?!?
Sad to see that this forum is turning to something where every question a girl asks is a shit test. Like "She asked me my name, is it a shit test" it's almost to that level.

Man she asked you a normal question. She wants to know if you just use her for sex or not. Especially you mentioned she has a kid, so she will be more cautious.
You simply could have said that "See you are an attractive woman and I was following my instincts." You can also confort her that you are not just after the sex, but won't apologize for getting excited by her presence.
Be direct, congruent and act as an adult.
Author:  neo87 [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 12:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
Double agreed with the above.Truth is, it's a tricky situation as it's over text and if she interprets your answer as you wanting to sleep with her she's gone.
Author:  ScottEA [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 2:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
Well I did what PurePlaya suggested and sent back: "To be honest, I was a little caught up in the moment. My overall intentions are to just organically see what happens."
No response so I just carried on as normal and called her today, she said something I couldn't make out then the line went dead, I thought "ok, maybe I pressed 'end call' with my cheek ". Called her again 5 minutes later and someone(I think it was her) said something like(she was talking quietly and I have bad ears from too loud headphones) like "you think you're so special" and definitely hung up haha.

So I sent her a text saying "What? Was that the kid or you?" [14:02]
She sent back "When?" [14:10]

I have no idea what's going on now, and wondering if I should just ignore it and let her re-initiate or reply with something completely off-topic like "Haven't you heard?" and attaching that 'being a dickheads cool' song. :lol:
Author:  ScottEA [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 3:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 1st Ever shit test(I think it's one anyway)
I just waited a couple of hours and sent "You calmed down yet? :p"
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