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| Author: | Adonis_Complex [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 4:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The Asshole Method |
For better or for worse, I get the best results by being an unpologetic asshole I using the following guidelines: -Cracking jokes at the girls expense. Most the time the jokes are plain insulting, yet the humor element is there -Not giving a shit, saying whatever I want or doing whatever I want at a particular moment -Adopting a my way or the highway mentality. We are doing whatever I want to do. If you do not like it you do not have to come or you can leave. -Chronic physical escalation without building comfort. Once again, if you do not like my advances I will get someone else that does. -Blantanly talking about my physical attraction for other women, and discussing sucesses with other women in her prescence. At times this means flirting and making advances on other women that are present. -At all times acting that I am too good for the girl, and if she doesn't like how things are going I firmly state that I can find someone else. -Only in rare circumstances caring about what she says or thinks. I want to emphasize that I belive in being a good human being, yet my track record shows that doing the things above get the best results. The girls I game range in the 18-22 age range typically. It is likely they are insecure and have not found themselves yet, not to mention the hormones and emotions. As for me, I am 20, attractive, and belong to a wide social circle. I am in the know, and am great at accquiring resources and bringing people together. Anyone else reconginze a similiar trend by being an unpologetic asshole? I ask because my typical persona around my friends and girls I am not trying to game is typically very nice and caring. Out in the field, the differances are night and day between the asshole and golden boy persona. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 7:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Asshole Method |
Quote: For better or for worse, I get the best results by being an unpologetic asshole
The principles here are somewhat ok, but right now you are being successful because you are good looking and gaming in a very narrow range of immature and inexperienced women. If you are good looking, you can always be pretty successful by just being aggressive; however, you can do much better if you mix up your game a bit versus just relying on looks and physicality. I was pretty successful with this physical game in college with zero other game whatsoever despite not being super good looking or tall. However, you can do much better by diversifying your approach.
I using the following guidelines: -Cracking jokes at the girls expense. Most the time the jokes are plain insulting, yet the humor element is there -Not giving a shit, saying whatever I want or doing whatever I want at a particular moment -Adopting a my way or the highway mentality. We are doing whatever I want to do. If you do not like it you do not have to come or you can leave. -Chronic physical escalation without building comfort. Once again, if you do not like my advances I will get someone else that does. -Blantanly talking about my physical attraction for other women, and discussing sucesses with other women in her prescence. At times this means flirting and making advances on other women that are present. -At all times acting that I am too good for the girl, and if she doesn't like how things are going I firmly state that I can find someone else. -Only in rare circumstances caring about what she says or thinks. I want to emphasize that I belive in being a good human being, yet my track record shows that doing the things above get the best results. The girls I game range in the 18-22 age range typically. It is likely they are insecure and have not found themselves yet, not to mention the hormones and emotions. As for me, I am 20, attractive, and belong to a wide social circle. I am in the know, and am great at accquiring resources and bringing people together. Anyone else reconginze a similiar trend by being an unpologetic asshole? I ask because my typical persona around my friends and girls I am not trying to game is typically very nice and caring. Out in the field, the differances are night and day between the asshole and golden boy persona. |
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| Author: | Adonis_Complex [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 7:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Asshole Method |
Seeing as you have been down a similar road what do you suggest. I have attempted to branch out in the past, without out too much success. Results are Results, which is why I keep coming back to the well. Girls my age tend to like Assholes. The physical, aggressive, do not give a shit mentality has worked thus far. Although I do heed your warning that it will be less successful down the road in a different environment. What are some small things to work on. Indirect and aloof hasn't really worked for me, perhaps there is an approach that fits me without having to be an asshole. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 8:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Asshole Method |
Quote: Seeing as you have been down a similar road what do you suggest. I have attempted to branch out in the past, without out too much success. Results are Results, which is why I keep coming back to the well. Girls my age tend to like Assholes. The physical, aggressive, do not give a shit mentality has worked thus far. Although I do heed your warning that it will be less successful down the road in a different environment. What are some small things to work on. Indirect and aloof hasn't really worked for me, perhaps there is an approach that fits me without having to be an asshole.
Well, one easy way is to make the jokes a little less mean and focus on the other elements that are working for you that you listed. Those things are not necessarily asshole traits, just traits of good game. Another improvement might be to actually care and listen to what they say. That is an element you can add to your game quite easily. For example, actually listen (even while behaving as if you aren't listening/don't care) but then, if you need, if the set is turned off by the asshole behavior, you show that you actually listened to her etc. which can be quite powerful
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 9:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Asshole Method |
Reward good behaviour instead of punishing her when things don't go your way. I'm 28 and I've been with women aged 18 up to 41 and the asshole game works less and less the older the woman gets. You can still be dominant without being an asshole. I'm still physically aggressive, I still pin them down and pull their hair when we have sex, but try to reward her with a bit of AFC hugging etc. after a good blowjob. Reward her sexual behaviour with specific personalised compliments she won't have heard before. I'm still direct and I still escalate aggressively. Tease more, don't neg. Asshole game is short term. If you want a girl to stick around, it's not the way to keep her, unless she has extremely low self esteem and believes she deserves bad SPAM. Girls who are 18-22 have low self esteem and crave acceptance, so that's why it works. If you continue doing what you're doing, you'll start to see less and less success as your social circle gets older, unless you continue chasing the 18 year olds when you're 30. |
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| Author: | Mattr1984 [ Fri Jun 07, 2013 9:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Asshole Method |
It works sometimes but you can't get way better quality women by just being an awesome guy with a bunch of confidence. You should also actually care about what women say, not what they think but if they are talking to you about themselves they are trying to impress you, reward that. As others have said, being an asshole (actually a douchebag) can get you SOME women to like you. You want ALL women to like you so you can take the pick of what you like. Be confident, laid back, poke fun and be dominant (you are the man for fucks sake) but always be nice and be respectful, unless they are a bit bitchy to you, then all bets are off. Even then, make sure you have a smile on your face when you are putting them in their place. Just an example, I was out with a couple of female friends of mine (one a HB9 ex that I dumped for her mentalness, but the sex is good and we still get along), and they were talking to this girl (like a 9 probably). I walk up to them and this girl that I don't know says "omg, you dumped this girl? You will never get a girl this hot ever again!" I let rip on her, said "excuse me? But who the fuck are you and why are you uglying up this area? I want cute girls here but only you came along!" And it went on like that for a while. One thing I went a little far and basically said "ok ok, I don't mean it, high five me" So I high fived her and gave her a hug. By the end of the night she had melted completely. I had a smile on my face the entire time (you can say anything with a smile on your face, remember that). My point is, this is the ONLY situatation I'd go full asshole. Some girls just need to be taken down a peg, but I always smile at them so I'm STILL being friendly, just in an assholy kind of way. Don't be an asshole, be the man! |
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| Author: | Lionheart9999 [ Sat Jun 08, 2013 12:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Asshole Method |
The method the original poster describes has been the ONLY way I've been able to get attractive women to want me. The recipe for me has been A Healthy Dose of Narcissism (proves to them you have self esteem, worth, value) + Challenging Personality + Passing Simple Shit Tests = Long term ass |
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| Author: | Adonis_Complex [ Sat Jun 08, 2013 12:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Asshole Method |
Lionheart what is the age group of girls that you tend to game? From my perspective it appears that there is an abundance of younger women that like men that treat them like crap. |
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| Author: | Lionheart9999 [ Sat Jun 08, 2013 1:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Asshole Method |
Quote: Lionheart what is the age group of girls that you tend to game? From my perspective it appears that there is an abundance of younger women that like men that treat them like crap.
19-24, as I am 25 myself |
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| Author: | Adonis_Complex [ Sat Jun 08, 2013 9:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Asshole Method |
One of the above posters mentioned being able to get away with most things by having a smile. I am generally a good natured person, and am always smiling. Many girls even comment on how nice my smile is, perhaps that is why I can get away with being insulting. Do women really listen to what you say, or rather pay attention to how you say it? My most bitting insults are delivered with a smile on my face, a twinkle in my eye, and often followed by an arrogant laugh. Based on my experience the way to a woman's heart (or her bed) are snide remarks about her appearance, weight, her being attracted to less than desirable men, or simply insinuating she is a hoe. What I find most interesting is that after hooking up with a girl, the tender nice guy approach works wonders. Before hooking up with her, the caring golden boy doesn't stand a chance. |
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| Author: | slurp812 [ Wed Jun 12, 2013 2:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Asshole Method |
I find it interesting that with some women, its easy to do this. Even some of the HB ones. Its something about their personality. Some women in my age group are way to fucking hard core, tough to crack. They want the "ONE" and unless I am willing to be shit tested to death, next her. It can be tiring... |
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| Author: | Adonis_Complex [ Wed Jun 12, 2013 2:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Asshole Method |
Stay away from "the one" girls, they are crazy |
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