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Author:  haquel [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 12:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Can I take contact to see if she wants again ?
Hello,

so this is my first post, I hope I'm in the good section !

As I said in my presentation, I'm french, so sorry for the mistakes !!

I met a girl with online dating. She must travel through France because she works for TV. On the web and on my phone, she asked me many questions per day. I reply just one time per day. They were a good attraction. We saw us a frist time in a little japanese restaurant. This were very good, good attraction for her. After we went to my house. We spent a good time, "all the light were green", but I don't want to precipitate. She said me "I want to see you again !".

The second date was in my house too. I kiss her, we spent in my room, do some "bad things". But we said each other that was too quick for a relationship. So we stopped. She quit my house in the night after a very good date.

After, she sent me less messages (In France we say "SMS", what is the word in english ?). And she must go 3 weeks for her job. The day before the last day, she spent me a message

"Sorry, I can't see you tomorrow I have already something. I must go 3 weeks, and I am not ready to begin a new story. I prefer to say it to you, don't hope somthing, I prefer to stay like that..." (sorry it is difficult to translate...)

I answered that is just 3 week, blablabla, a bad message...

She answered
"I want you respect my choice. I try to to attach but I can't"

I answered that I prefered this idea. I was despite, it is the woman who is the most interesting that I met... In 2 weeks, she must return, and I would like to try to take contact with her, to see...

Do you think it is a good idea ? and what kind of message I can send ?

Thank you ! :)
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 12:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I take contact to see if she wants again ?
If I'm reading your translation correctly, she said she doesn't want to be involved with you and that she hopes you can respect her decision (I think, anyway)...

Almost sounded like you were being dumped via text!

Sounds like you're out, to me. Move on.
Author:  TheFury [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 3:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I take contact to see if she wants again ?
It's over. Move on. and for the future, there is no such thing as "too fast" for a relationship. Let me repeat: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS MOVING TOO FAST FOR A RELATIONSHIP.
Author:  haquel [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 9:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I take contact to see if she wants again ?
Yes, on the moment, I think that have sex, stop and say "we go too fast" (and she rely, yes it's too fast"), make me more attractive. But now, I will not do the same mistake. It is what we learn in french community (with field report). It is the reason I quit.

I thought I can send her a text, because I find her behavior strange... She was charmed, and finally, she said "non".
I'm probably see her when she will recome (she live "near" me), I would see how she reacts...

Thank you for your answer, and how is my english ? It's comprehensible ?
Author:  TheFury [ Thu Jun 06, 2013 9:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I take contact to see if she wants again ?
Quote:
Yes, on the moment, I think that have sex, stop and say "we go too fast" (and she rely, yes it's too fast"), make me more attractive. But now, I will not do the same mistake. It is what we learn in french community (with field report). It is the reason I quit.

I thought I can send her a text, because I find her behavior strange... She was charmed, and finally, she said "non".
I'm probably see her when she will recome (she live "near" me), I would see how she reacts...

Thank you for your answer, and how is my english ? It's comprehensible ?
Your english is ok. I can understand what you are saying. Yes, you don't need to make yourself more attractive if she is already ready to have sex with you! :)
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