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Author:  s0lex [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 9:41 am ]
Post subject:  Stop women to "fall in love"?
Hi guys!
I have a bit of a problem. The girls i pick up usually "falls in love" and search for something more than just the physical part. If anyone out there had encounter the same problem, and solved it. Please share you experience!
Author:  SpaceSnake [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 10:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop women to "fall in love"?
I have the same problem. For me the problem is that my skills in the game aren't good enough. I'm too much a "nice guy", a chump, an average man or whatever you want to call it. This either leads to the "fall in love" case or the "you're a great guy- let's be friends" case. It rarely leads to "let's have hot, steamy sex" case.

So no easy answers here, just wanted to say I share the pain :D
Practice more.
Author:  s0lex [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 11:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop women to "fall in love"?
Oh I might help you a bit on your problem!
According to Style, a women seek for a man who can protect her. the point is following: you can get a girl when you are nice, but you have to show her that you are confident and can pass her shit tests.
I have read "the game" and "the sylelife challange" and those books helped me improve my game (mostly the second one) Read them!
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 1:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop women to "fall in love"?
With men, "I love you" means 'I love you'. With women, "I love you" is girlie speake for "I wanna fuck your cock every freaking day and night".

What women say usually means a different thing like, "I'm fine. Whatever." or "Yeah, I'm okay. Don't bother." or "It's okay if you won't fetch me at the party." or "I'm not easy to get." or "I'm not that kind of girl."

If you want to cut clean with a girl who said, "I love you" then the easiest way out is to act needy and AFC. Keep up the fun. When a girl says "I love you" it basically means "I'm so horny for you."

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Author:  TheFury [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 2:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop women to "fall in love"?
I'm not sure I understand the problem. If she loves you, she is hooking up with you so what is the problem?
Author:  SpaceSnake [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 2:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop women to "fall in love"?
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I'm not sure I understand the problem. If she loves you, she is hooking up with you so what is the problem?
He would like to fuck her, have a FWB relation or one night stand. She would like to get a boyfriend and introduce him to her parents.

The problem comes when you don't want to pretend to "love" her back, but would just like to have sex and fun with her. At least that's how I saw it because I've experienced the same. Of course, you can play along but my style is not to pretend I'm dating someone or interested in finding a girlfriend while I just want to have sex with them.
Author:  TheFury [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 2:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop women to "fall in love"?
Makes sense. I've found honesty works well. Just tell her that you aren't at that emotional level yet. She isn't just going to want to break it off.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 4:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop women to "fall in love"?
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He would like to fuck her, have a FWB relation or one night stand. She would like to get a boyfriend and introduce him to her parents.

The problem comes when you don't want to pretend to "love" her back, but would just like to have sex and fun with her. At least that's how I saw it because I've experienced the same. Of course, you can play along but my style is not to pretend I'm dating someone or interested in finding a girlfriend while I just want to have sex with them.
That is assuming too much. Never underestimate (or overestimate) girlie speake. Most girls who said 'I love you' to me these past few months never introduced me to their parents.

But I agree that 'Honesty is the best policy.'

When she says "I love you," don't be a douchebag and say 'I love you' back. Whisper in her ear something like, "I love banging your pussy real hard." She'll moan louder and grind harder, if you're direct and honest about your intentions.

Keep your gentlemanly values and chivalrous attitude and she'll be riding your cock like a horse.

Another good reply to 'I love you' is something like: "Can you help me? I've got a deadline to make but my laundry has piled up this high."

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Author:  SpaceSnake [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 10:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Stop women to "fall in love"?
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He would like to fuck her, have a FWB relation or one night stand. She would like to get a boyfriend and introduce him to her parents.


That is assuming too much. Never underestimate (or overestimate) girlie speake.
True. Then again, the problem of s0lex's (I suppose) and mine isn't about the girl saying she loves you. The problem is about acting so that the girl rwants to go steady with you and not just having sex with you. Or then we choose the girls that just want a real boyfriend. Can't speak on s0lex's behalf but I think I just do something wrong :D

I've had this problem too many times. The sex part isn't very satisfactory after the girl starts saying she would like to go steady with you, while you want nothing more than sex and good time from her.

I might be overinterpreting s0lex's problem by my experiences, but I think we have the same problem: it's hard to keep the girls not wanting more than sex. Big differences work at some level: make it so that you don't have that much common, for example an age difference might work, but it's just circling the real problem.
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