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Author:  Strangerj2013 [ Tue Jun 04, 2013 5:40 am ]
Post subject:  Making a good choice in freeZing her out?
Ok we met at a bar, had a passionate conversation about traveling it was fun. I got her number then i left. 30 minutes later she text me an address talking about a bon fire. I was always home with the boys and nobody wanted to drive so I told her I'm sitting this one out and said dont worry we will see each other again ;). Then I text her the next day :::


Me: if you had to choose would you rather spend a few days in Spain teaching kids arts and crafts or 1 day in Spain learning how to speak español?

Her: ohh that's tough

Her: probably arts and crafts

Me: Yeah I can see you getting a little wild with the hand painting I know I would

Her: why so you ask?

Me: You can learn a lot about a person by the answers they give you haha , what are you up to?

I didn't get a reply , so I was just like whatever kept jamming and decided to wait a this week out and maybe run into her in town, if so great if not then ok. I've got other things to do anyways. Now when I texted I was just being natural. Should I freeze her out? Why, why not??! We get along real well when were in person and I can get creative. So drop some advice.
Author:  RJHandsome [ Tue Jun 04, 2013 7:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Making a good choice in freeZing her out?
In experience you have to wait a few days in order to spike new interest. If you follow up again right after you last message, you'll appear a little bit too needy in her eyes.

To re-initiate contact I'd ignore past SMS history and tease her a little bit with something like: "Hey, sorry i missed our anniversary ;-) how’s things?" and if she responds positively you can follow up with something to set up a date like: "We are going to the cafe WhatEver, you and your friends should stop by."

What do you think?

RJH
Author:  Strangerj2013 [ Tue Jun 04, 2013 1:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Making a good choice in freeZing her out?
Quote:
In experience you have to wait a few days in order to spike new interest. If you follow up again right after you last message, you'll appear a little bit too needy in her eyes.

To re-initiate contact I'd ignore past SMS history and tease her a little bit with something like: "Hey, sorry i missed our anniversary ;-) how’s things?" and if she responds positively you can follow up with something to set up a date like: "We are going to the cafe WhatEver, you and your friends should stop by."

What do you think?

RJH
yeah I haven't texted back in couple days, how do I ask her to pick me up without it being dlv? I have a job and ga money, won't get my license back till September.
Author:  hunchbak1982 [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 3:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Making a good choice in freeZing her out?
Quote:
Ok we met at a bar, had a passionate conversation about traveling it was fun. I got her number then i left. 30 minutes later she text me an address talking about a bon fire. I was always home with the boys and nobody wanted to drive so I told her I'm sitting this one out and said dont worry we will see each other again ;). Then I text her the next day :::


Me: if you had to choose would you rather spend a few days in Spain teaching kids arts and crafts or 1 day in Spain learning how to speak español?

Her: ohh that's tough

Her: probably arts and crafts

Me: Yeah I can see you getting a little wild with the hand painting I know I would

Her: why so you ask?

Me: You can learn a lot about a person by the answers they give you haha , what are you up to?

I didn't get a reply , so I was just like whatever kept jamming and decided to wait a this week out and maybe run into her in town, if so great if not then ok. I've got other things to do anyways. Now when I texted I was just being natural. Should I freeze her out? Why, why not??! We get along real well when were in person and I can get creative. So drop some advice.
it was really good (challenge) that you sat out the bonfire, but
why would you text her the next day? :? and
why would you text her that? :?
Author:  Strangerj2013 [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 1:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Making a good choice in freeZing her out?
Quote:
Quote:
Ok we met at a bar, had a passionate conversation about traveling it was fun. I got her number then i left. 30 minutes later she text me an address talking about a bon fire. I was always home with the boys and nobody wanted to drive so I told her I'm sitting this one out and said dont worry we will see each other again ;). Then I text her the next day :::


Me: if you had to choose would you rather spend a few days in Spain teaching kids arts and crafts or 1 day in Spain learning how to speak español?

Her: ohh that's tough

Her: probably arts and crafts

Me: Yeah I can see you getting a little wild with the hand painting I know I would

Her: why so you ask?

Me: You can learn a lot about a person by the answers they give you haha , what are you up to?

I didn't get a reply , so I was just like whatever kept jamming and decided to wait a this week out and maybe run into her in town, if so great if not then ok. I've got other things to do anyways. Now when I texted I was just being natural. Should I freeze her out? Why, why not??! We get along real well when were in person and I can get creative. So drop some advice.
it was really good (challenge) that you sat out the bonfire, but
why would you text her the next day? :? and
why would you text her that? :?
i text her the next day so a woman keeps thinking about you, but I don't text twice if they do t answer I just have t texted bak yet. No big deal, as for what to text yeah I could've texted something simpler which I will next time.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 4:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Making a good choice in freeZing her out?
I like freezing out people who clearly aren't all that interested in me too, especially when I want to convince them how I'm not even worth getting to know. You should freeze-out women every chance you get, even if you've only gotten to a "hello" with them, drives them wild.
Author:  TheFury [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 4:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Making a good choice in freeZing her out?
What you did was a classic example of "over-gaming". Not every text, word, etc. out of your mouth has to be game, nor do all of your actions.
Author:  Strangerj2013 [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 5:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Making a good choice in freeZing her out?
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I like freezing out people who clearly aren't all that interested in me too, especially when I want to convince them how I'm not even worth getting to know. You should freeze-out women every chance you get, even if you've only gotten to a "hello" with them, drives them wild.
Yeah It does, when we first met when ha an engaging conversation for about 10 minutes , then I destroyed her friends shit test and her male friends cock block and then I walked away and mingled. Then I saw her later and let her know I was interested. She was so into me even more so after that.
Author:  Strangerj2013 [ Wed Jun 05, 2013 6:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Making a good choice in freeZing her out?
Quote:
What you did was a classic example of "over-gaming". Not every text, word, etc. out of your mouth has to be game, nor do all of your actions.
yeah that's what I meant about a keeping it simple, well atleast now I know there is a name for that. Thanks for the comment.
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