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| Author: | Paramount21 [ Tue Jun 04, 2013 4:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Americans: How do you do college without Greek Life? |
How do you become the guy who gets laid a lot in college without being involved with a fraternity? I am going on to my 4th year of college (3 more semesters left) and I am too far along to join a frat (don't worry, I already tried, it hasn't worked out). So how do I do college without Greek Life? Going back to my university (where I had a miserable spring semester) in a few days... |
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Tue Jun 04, 2013 5:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Americans: How do you do college without Greek Life? |
My school never had frats or sororities. It's all about just meeting people. There will always be parties. You get along with someone, ask them to come kick it, they'll invite you to some party. If we're talking about specifically getting laid, you don't even need to go to parties. Meet girls in class, cafeteria, school clubs. I've partied at some big Greek life schools though (Lehigh, UCSB, Penn State, Bucknell, WV) and it's not even about how good you are with girls. If you have a penis, don't look like a dumbass, and have a small percentage of confidence, you'll get laid. I've seen most average guys with no confidence (but alcohol in their system) pull makeouts left and right. I have a good friend who plays baseball at one of the above mentioned schools. I came to party with their frat, and just to fuck with people we told everyone I'm a nationally ranked prospie. One of his buddies grabbed a girl and told her to convince me to commit there. Few minutes later, she was taking my pants off. Do you really want it to be that easy? |
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| Author: | Paramount21 [ Sat Jun 08, 2013 4:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Americans: How do you do college without Greek Life? |
Well, I am back in college now, and it is summer time. I have no idea how you make it seem like it is that easy for college students when in my experience it rarely is. |
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Sat Jun 08, 2013 6:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Americans: How do you do college without Greek Life? |
What do you do on your daily basis? If you just sit back in your room and then go straight to class, and then back to your room, then yeah, it's difficult. If you just expand places you go: library, coffee shops, stores, join clubs, take random classes, go to the gym, it's hard to not meet people. After that, use your natural powers. |
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| Author: | alanwak3 [ Sat Jun 08, 2013 7:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Americans: How do you do college without Greek Life? |
My brand of college game is the exact same as my day game, I've noticed no functional difference except you have more fallback topics for fluff talk. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Sun Jun 09, 2013 1:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Americans: How do you do college without Greek Life? |
Quote: How do you become the guy who gets laid a lot in college without being involved with a fraternity?
Frats are for the socially retarded who have to pay for friends.
I am going on to my 4th year of college (3 more semesters left) and I am too far along to join a frat (don't worry, I already tried, it hasn't worked out). So how do I do college without Greek Life? Going back to my university (where I had a miserable spring semester) in a few days... |
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| Author: | Paramount21 [ Sun Jun 09, 2013 1:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Americans: How do you do college without Greek Life? |
Quote: What do you do on your daily basis? If you just sit back in your room and then go straight to class, and then back to your room, then yeah, it's difficult. If you just expand places you go: library, coffee shops, stores, join clubs, take random classes, go to the gym, it's hard to not meet people. After that, use your natural powers.
I do expand to different places. Like here is the thing, back in my old town I got laid a few times but in college it is like my magic just goes away for some reason. I am back to my college town now so will update with results, in fact I am even posting a field report, you are free to comment.
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Sun Jun 09, 2013 6:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Americans: How do you do college without Greek Life? |
^Then I wouldn't consider college to be the problem, but I would search within yourself young grasshopper. |
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| Author: | Paramount21 [ Sun Jun 09, 2013 5:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Americans: How do you do college without Greek Life? |
Seeing that I had no problems back in my old town, I would say something about my university is the issue, something that I am not noticing. Some adjustment college takes that I am not making. |
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Sun Jun 09, 2013 6:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Americans: How do you do college without Greek Life? |
Quote: Some adjustment college takes that I am not making.
Exactly- that YOU'RE not making.I bet it's approach anxiety, however. If you have some social freedom, you should be doing much better in college, considering college has a social construct of meeting new people, going out, and getting fucked. |
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| Author: | Paramount21 [ Sun Jun 09, 2013 6:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Americans: How do you do college without Greek Life? |
It is not approach anxiety, I talk to girls out of the blue no issue. I just feel that since so many sources say college game is based on social circle, I am not breaking into those social circles and I am not forming them and that is limiting me there. While in the real world you don't need it to get laid, in college it seems like all advice on here and RSD points towards telling you to turn to that method to get laid. Just arrived in my college town though so I will update you on results. |
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| Author: | DeducibleLyric [ Sun Jun 09, 2013 7:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Americans: How do you do college without Greek Life? |
Quote: It is not approach anxiety, I talk to girls out of the blue no issue. I just feel that since so many sources say college game is based on social circle, I am not breaking into those social circles and I am not forming them and that is limiting me there. While in the real world you don't need it to get laid, in college it seems like all advice on here and RSD points towards telling you to turn to that method to get laid.
Hey there Paramount21, I don't believe we've met before so please do ask any questions about anything that might not come across well in my following post. I'm really happy that you're looking into college game as it's such a fantastic opportunity to expand your skills and quickly! I'm actually slightly jealous of your position.Just arrived in my college town though so I will update you on results. You have a great point in what you've said. The nature of University (or College) is heavily social based. I'm sure you'll agree with me, that achieving great things at University (sex wise) is much much harder if you're socially inept. There is a reason that many products endorse the whole social aspect as key to College game. It would be unwise to simply disregard it and/or find a better way to get girls. I'm sure you know that though. Let's be honest, most people in College except people to be social etc. There are some exceptions of course but the ones that arn't usually have far deeper issues that College. My alternative for you is, to concentrate on increasing your social/conversational skills. Perhaps even taking a step back from PUA and getting to meet new people just for friendship sake. Now, I'm not sure what level you're at but if you feel you're able to hold a conversation with just about anyone then please do ignore the above as it does not relate to you. Instead, take the opportunity to talk to everyone, yes everyone, at your college, both male & female. From personal experience, I achieved greater things at University when I expoited this one factor. Concurrently I used the time to also increase other contributing factors that could sway the decision between just friends and more. These included, my dress sense, being confortable with women, knowing how to escalate and read social queue's to progress (only experience will help with that one), my bodylanguage etc. To answer your question more directly, talking to almost everyone you meet in college will aid you in many ways from potential good friend, lay, experience which in turn leads to more opportunities such as invites to events, house parties, introductions to new people etc. Essentially, you can call it networking. A fraternity only increases your chances for sex with social conditioning. The parties are meant to be crazy, with hookups to beer pong to getting soo wasted, last night was a blur etc. However you can achieve a lot of great things from one night stands to fuck buddies to threesomes just by putting yourself out there and taking opportunities. In College, you are responsible for how others react to you. If you're finding it difficult to get similiar results at home, take a step back and observe why. The variables are endless. Perhaps you're coming across too strongly, girls in College expect to experiment, try new experiences, be crazy etc. Though the question being, are you being the guy she can do that with? |
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