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Author:  The_Aspiring_Man [ Mon May 27, 2013 2:50 pm ]
Post subject:  How long 'should' you last in bed?
I was just wondering what is 'normal' for how long a dude goes on having sex before ejaculating?

Seeing as I'm a youth and us youths tend to have a bigger libido than older more mature guys, would you say that lasting 25 minutes before cumming is good or bad in bed?

If it is bad, how can you make yourself last longer?

Please no ridiculous replies like you should last 5 hours cos it feels awesome, since no one actually has that amount of time to dedicate to sex...

Cheers ;)
Author:  slurp812 [ Mon May 27, 2013 3:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How long 'should' you last in bed?
I think a half hour is plenty of time. seriously. When I was a teenager, girls would run after the first time we slept together, because I was a two pump chump!
Author:  The_Aspiring_Man [ Mon May 27, 2013 3:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How long 'should' you last in bed?
haha thanks mate :)

I mean sometimes I feel ready to blow much sooner like 10 minutes, and most girls I know don't orgasm themselves in that space of time so was wondering if there's anything you've learnt to increase your stamina?

Quote:
I was a two pump chump!
And what do you mean by this man haha? :lol:
Author:  JRBobDobbs [ Mon May 27, 2013 3:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How long 'should' you last in bed?
its not about the intercourse, or the foreplay it's about the entire thing from start to finish. Women can achieve orgasm from many other means than just intercourse. a good thing to remember would be build her up and make the entire experience last as long as possible, foreplay included. You give a woman an hour of sheer pleasure and devotion before you even go for intercourse she will be yours forever. this is a woman you may have never seen naked before...take your time and explore every inch of her.
"if you build it they will cum" (LOL)
Author:  The_Aspiring_Man [ Mon May 27, 2013 3:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How long 'should' you last in bed?
Quote:
its not about the intercourse, or the foreplay it's about the entire thing from start to finish. Women can achieve orgasm from many other means than just intercourse. a good thing to remember would be build her up and make the entire experience last as long as possible, foreplay included. You give a woman an hour of sheer pleasure and devotion before you even go for intercourse she will be yours forever. this is a woman you may have never seen naked before...take your time and explore every inch of her.
"if you build it they will cum" (LOL)

Thanks for the advice man, appreciate it.

Yeah that is a very good point about using foreplay to develop the intimacy of a very special act.

Have you got any things that you've learnt work particularly well?

Cheers
Author:  Pickwick [ Mon May 27, 2013 4:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How long 'should' you last in bed?
Quote:
what is 'normal' for how long a dude goes on having sex before ejaculating?
There isn't a "normal" time. Everyone is different since it depends on a number of things. Different studies found different things, but most agree that the average time is somewhere between 10-20 minutes.
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how can you make yourself last longer?
There are different things you can do. Number one is look up kegel exercises. It's something you can do anywhere anytime and nobody will know. Number two thing I would suggest is, as JRBobDobbs said, treat the whole sexual act as sex. If you're worried about pleasing your girl, know that women orgasm more often from clitoral stimulation, not the actual penetration. Put a lot of emphasis on your foreplay and less on actually fucking her. It's easy to make her orgasm within minutes with your hands if you just know what you're doing. Look up the book "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner. Once you learn how to use your dick less, you can vary- when you're about to bust, pull out and use your hands. Treat it like an artist who actually puts thought into what he's doing, not a dog who's just trying to bang it out.

If you're worried about just getting your own pleasure, don't give a fuck how long you last.
Author:  slurp812 [ Mon May 27, 2013 9:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How long 'should' you last in bed?
Quote:
haha thanks mate :)

I mean sometimes I feel ready to blow much sooner like 10 minutes, and most girls I know don't orgasm themselves in that space of time so was wondering if there's anything you've learnt to increase your stamina?

Quote:
I was a two pump chump!
And what do you mean by this man haha? :lol:
I was only able to last a few minutes at best.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Tue May 28, 2013 4:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How long 'should' you last in bed?
6:35
Author:  PurePlaya [ Tue May 28, 2013 4:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How long 'should' you last in bed?
Long enough to make her cum at least once.

That's it.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Tue May 28, 2013 8:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How long 'should' you last in bed?
Quote:
Long enough to make her cum at least once.

That's it.
In your dreams fruitcake.
Author:  The_Aspiring_Man [ Sun Jun 02, 2013 6:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How long 'should' you last in bed?
Awesome cheers pickwick et al, appreciate it :)
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