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Author:  17yrold [ Mon May 27, 2013 2:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Getting out of the Friendzone?
For years during high school I've been constantly friend zoned by every girl I've ever spoken to. I'm not bad looking but I'm not bad looking either. There's this one girl who I was friends with during high school. I text her after a year of no contact and arranged a meet with her friends to come over to my house. My boys were there too. We smoked weed and got drunk etc. she showed me some ioi like laying on my chest and a deep hug at the end by the hips. I arranged another meet for her to come over on her own and she did. However it was quite boring and I didn't even touch her once. I feel like I got friend zoned again.
How do I escape this prison? People tell me I should be more ballsy but I'm not sure.
Author:  supmag [ Mon May 27, 2013 2:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting out of the Friendzone?
Touch her. Touch her. Touch her. when it gets awkward, kiss her. I have learnt my lessons.

Call her, like, right now, do it now....stop thinking just do it. Ask her out, touch her.

Ps: TOUCH HER
Author:  17yrold [ Mon May 27, 2013 5:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting out of the Friendzone?
I don't know man
Author:  supmag [ Tue May 28, 2013 2:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting out of the Friendzone?
Then you have lost already, give up and move on.
Author:  TheFury [ Tue May 28, 2013 5:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting out of the Friendzone?
Like supman said ..TOUCH, along with CONFIDENCE and EYE CONTACT are pretty much the keys here. Don't be afraid to make it abundantly clear what your interest is. Touching her, (not in a sexual harassment type way obviously!!), making eye contact, and being confident will accomplish just that. If you are too afraid to do it, good luck.
Author:  stripe66506 [ Thu May 30, 2013 7:03 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting out of the Friendzone?
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For years during high school I've been constantly friend zoned by every girl I've ever spoken to. I'm not bad looking but I'm not bad looking either. There's this one girl who I was friends with during high school. I text her after a year of no contact and arranged a meet with her friends to come over to my house. My boys were there too. We smoked weed and got drunk etc. she showed me some ioi like laying on my chest and a deep hug at the end by the hips. I arranged another meet for her to come over on her own and she did. However it was quite boring and I didn't even touch her once. I feel like I got friend zoned again.
How do I escape this prison? People tell me I should be more ballsy but I'm not sure.
If she's showing ioi you may not be fully in the fz yet....

I bet you were more relaxed when you hung out with her that first time. If weed and alcohol was involved then I bet she felt less inhibition as well. (The drunk man speaks what the sober man thinks.) I'd try to get with her in a similar setting and up the ante if she shows ioi. Then I'd straight up ask her out and none of that "let's hang out" bs either, let her know exactly what my intentions were.

If she gives you the "friend" speech, charge it to the game and move on.
Author:  Betamax [ Thu May 30, 2013 7:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting out of the Friendzone?
You seem to be suffering from a serious case of lackingballsus.

Brought on by: fear of escalating, not performing KINO, and inability to judge appropriate times to touch and kiss.

Symptoms include: sudden loss of interest from HBs, being friendzoned, and permanent freeze-outs from HBs.

Remedy: get some fucking balls.

Relevant literature: DiCarlo Escalation Ladder.
Author:  N1ck9141 [ Thu May 30, 2013 11:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting out of the Friendzone?
WHY ARE YOU EVEN ASKING THE QUESTION WHEN YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT YOU NEED TO DO!!!
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I arranged another meet for her to come over on her own and she did. However it was quite boring and I didn't even touch her once. I feel like I got friend zoned again.
1: She gave you IOI's the first time cause your place your mates and you arranged you where the ALPHA GREAT MOVE on your part, and she was the ALPHA female cause she brought her friends to the place so ALPHA HOOKS WITH ALPHA thats normal mate wouldnt look into it to much tbh

2:Arrange a meet again outside the house go to town do something get out friends in public always cause trouble and have a laugh what better way to show your not boring and dont worry about embarrissing yrself just mess about a bit.... then come home and put on a good movie you both enjoy the relax after, it goes from a boring sat around with tv on to a relaxed sat around with tv on...

and 3: as stated above BY YOU and the REST TTTOOOUUUCCCHHH HHHEEERRR are you not man do you not want to touch her!!!! HINT: Some people dont no how to start touching thats fine, so do this just lean back a little if she leans away or towards it doesnt matter just rase your arm a bit and say come here, she will most likely lean into you and you put you are around her, once around her leave it a few minates then squeeze a little like pull her closer just a little see if she snuggles in, if she does great if she doesnt say im getting a drink and back off a little again then come back raise your arm again give it a few minates squeeze again this time she will probably come in a little closer...

then and this is my fav move say wow your uncomfortable your shoulders are so stiff tell her to lean forward a bit and move yourself so she is sat between you legs facing away then rub her shoulders a little gental massage them, as you do this for a few minates pull her back so she leans on you but facing away tilt her head back so it kinda falls to your should on one side and rub VERY GENTALLY up n down her neck a little if you use the very tips of your fingers it will get her going ;) , and then move your hands down her SIDES not over her boobs just yet rub around her belly, a little and waist very softly (LOOK AT HER EYES) if there shut your doing well *say in a quiet tone almost a whisper* "you like that" She will most likely nod or let out a little moan to say yes if her head is still tilted back which it should be, u then say here, and with your hand turn her to face you, tilt your head a little keep rubbing her stomach all the time tell her to close her eyes, kiss her cheek if she doesnt pull back kiss the other and ran your hand through her hair and hold it a little shows power but NOT force then kiss her lips gentally at first kiss pull back and then kiss a little longer and then kiss fully...and make out!!! but keep rubbing the belly / top of leg and waist (imagine a ripper six pack where the V below would be just trace your hand up and down there do it to yourself if u dont believe me it feels nice ) because while making out u can move your hand lower and lower until ;) well you can guess the rest lol GOOD LUCK GET BACK TO US!!!!!!!!!
Author:  RJHandsome [ Thu May 30, 2013 12:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting out of the Friendzone?
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Like supman said ..TOUCH, along with CONFIDENCE and EYE CONTACT are pretty much the keys here. Don't be afraid to make it abundantly clear what your interest is. Touching her, (not in a sexual harassment type way obviously!!), making eye contact, and being confident will accomplish just that. If you are too afraid to do it, good luck.
I second that! You must touch her. Easy KINO which always works well for me on my dates:

- Teasing shoulder punch
- Gentle tickling "Tickle punishment because you're so...."
- Check if kept her wedding ring at home - Check for marks on her finger
- Compare skin color on arms
- Touch her ears to check if she got ear rings
- Check her neck if she got a tattoo hidden there.

Also another crucial thing is to make the decisions for her (which bar, restaurant, food, ...)
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