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Went out to dinner with a girl last night, this is the first time we have organised to do something...After dinner we went back to her house and watched a couple movies...It was late, and we both fell asleep, which resulted in me staying there the night...She wanted to kiss me so we did a few times and then in the morning, woke up, i drove home and she went to work...What should I do now? I'm pretty interested in her, so should I wait for her to contact me now or what? How would you go about this...

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You have confidence issues. If a girl wants to kiss you your job is to escalate it further NOT SETTLE. You most likely had the green light for other things but you were a beta and were to afraid to even try. But back to the questions you asked, me personally I'd wait a day or two and set something up 1 on 1. Its obvious she's into you, all you have to do is take charge and knock it down,

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Actually I don't have confidence issues, I did try to take it further then a kiss, went for the move but she wasn't keen to go any further, so i backed off...but yeah I think waiting a day or two and then arranging to meet up again will be the best idea!

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what were you thinking? hanging out with a girl for 4 hours and staying over. were you hoping for sex to happen? CLINGY!

Author:	j_mayne [ Mon May 27, 2013 3:30 am ]
Post subject:	Interested in her What next?
Went out to dinner with a girl last night, this is the first time we have organised to do something...After dinner we went back to her house and watched a couple movies...It was late, and we both fell asleep, which resulted in me staying there the night...She wanted to kiss me so we did a few times and then in the morning, woke up, i drove home and she went to work...What should I do now? I'm pretty interested in her, so should I wait for her to contact me now or what? How would you go about this... Cheers

Author:	CharlesFinley [ Mon May 27, 2013 3:44 am ]
Post subject:	Re: What next?
If you're interested, don't wait -- take the lead. Tell her you're going to X place on X day at X time and she should join you.

Author:	Themagicalone [ Mon May 27, 2013 6:01 am ]
Post subject:	Re: What next?
Quote: Went out to dinner with a girl last night, this is the first time we have organised to do something...After dinner we went back to her house and watched a couple movies...It was late, and we both fell asleep, which resulted in me staying there the night...She wanted to kiss me so we did a few times and then in the morning, woke up, i drove home and she went to work...What should I do now? I'm pretty interested in her, so should I wait for her to contact me now or what? How would you go about this... Cheers You have confidence issues. If a girl wants to kiss you your job is to escalate it further NOT SETTLE. You most likely had the green light for other things but you were a beta and were to afraid to even try. But back to the questions you asked, me personally I'd wait a day or two and set something up 1 on 1. Its obvious she's into you, all you have to do is take charge and knock it down,

Author:	j_mayne [ Mon May 27, 2013 6:11 am ]
Post subject:	Re: What next?
Quote: Quote: Went out to dinner with a girl last night, this is the first time we have organised to do something...After dinner we went back to her house and watched a couple movies...It was late, and we both fell asleep, which resulted in me staying there the night...She wanted to kiss me so we did a few times and then in the morning, woke up, i drove home and she went to work...What should I do now? I'm pretty interested in her, so should I wait for her to contact me now or what? How would you go about this... Cheers You have confidence issues. If a girl wants to kiss you your job is to escalate it further NOT SETTLE. You most likely had the green light for other things but you were a beta and were to afraid to even try. But back to the questions you asked, me personally I'd wait a day or two and set something up 1 on 1. Its obvious she's into you, all you have to do is take charge and knock it down, Actually I don't have confidence issues, I did try to take it further then a kiss, went for the move but she wasn't keen to go any further, so i backed off...but yeah I think waiting a day or two and then arranging to meet up again will be the best idea!

Author:	Themagicalone [ Mon May 27, 2013 6:21 am ]
Post subject:	Re: What next?
Quote: Quote: Quote: Went out to dinner with a girl last night, this is the first time we have organised to do something...After dinner we went back to her house and watched a couple movies...It was late, and we both fell asleep, which resulted in me staying there the night...She wanted to kiss me so we did a few times and then in the morning, woke up, i drove home and she went to work...What should I do now? I'm pretty interested in her, so should I wait for her to contact me now or what? How would you go about this... Cheers You have confidence issues. If a girl wants to kiss you your job is to escalate it further NOT SETTLE. You most likely had the green light for other things but you were a beta and were to afraid to even try. But back to the questions you asked, me personally I'd wait a day or two and set something up 1 on 1. Its obvious she's into you, all you have to do is take charge and knock it down, Actually I don't have confidence issues, I did try to take it further then a kiss, went for the move but she wasn't keen to go any further, so i backed off...but yeah I think waiting a day or two and then arranging to meet up again will be the best idea! If she rejects the move, don't get butt hurt and stop, keep trying a little while longer. Some girls just want to see your reaction if they deny you. My guess is that she didn't want to come off a slut to you and was shit testing you or you didn't escalate enough. Either way you got a good plan now, keep following it

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Author:	hunchbak1982 [ Mon May 27, 2013 10:20 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Interested in her What next?
Quote: Went out to dinner with a girl last night, this is the first time we have organised to do something...After dinner we went back to her house and watched a couple movies...It was late, and we both fell asleep, which resulted in me staying there the night...She wanted to kiss me so we did a few times and then in the morning, woke up, i drove home and she went to work...What should I do now? I'm pretty interested in her, so should I wait for her to contact me now or what? How would you go about this... Cheers what were you thinking? hanging out with a girl for 4 hours and staying over. were you hoping for sex to happen? CLINGY!

Author:	j_mayne [ Mon May 27, 2013 10:56 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Interested in her What next?
Quote: Quote: Went out to dinner with a girl last night, this is the first time we have organised to do something...After dinner we went back to her house and watched a couple movies...It was late, and we both fell asleep, which resulted in me staying there the night...She wanted to kiss me so we did a few times and then in the morning, woke up, i drove home and she went to work...What should I do now? I'm pretty interested in her, so should I wait for her to contact me now or what? How would you go about this... Cheers what were you thinking? hanging out with a girl for 4 hours and staying over. were you hoping for sex to happen? CLINGY! nah actually I didn't plan to even kiss her that night, so no I didn't plan to have sex at all...as i said, i told her that i should get going and she told me not to go and just stay because it was so late and we were lying in the bed after the movie and she just started kissing me...and then I got up at 6am and left...I don't really know how that makes me one bit clingy? and also your answer was pointless and didn't help one bit in reference to what I was asking.... So if anyone has actual advice on what I should do next, thanks.

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