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Author:  salasa [ Fri May 24, 2013 4:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Kissed with a girl, now texts me she's becoming lesbian, wtf
Girl who I've seen 3 times so far, kissed each time but didn't have sex. (Very passionate kissing and getting in her pants though)

We've been mainly communicating through text last 2 weeks since I'm sick and I can't go out, although she did invite me to come watch a movie with her as soon as I get better ('just watch a movie, no sex :P ' she said though)

Anyway, this night around 4am she texts me :

'All men are assholes, I'm becoming lesbian!'

When I asked why she said that she just says : 'They just are assholes, I'm becoming lesbian I mean it!' (obviously something happened while she was going out, maybe with some guy?)

I kinda ignored it and just told her whatever, good luck with that.

Now some hours later she randomly sends me this :

'Buy me a new cell phone! :D It can be a cheap one :P ' (her phone was stolen first time we met and kissed)

I feel like I'm getting friendzoned with this one or losing the sexual attraction.

How would you recommend me to continue gaming this girl and what would be a good answer to her last text, or should I just ignore it altogether?

She's confusing me a lot since 2 days ago she was teasing me about sending nude pics of her and now it seems like she was seeing other guys last night and is treating me like one of her buddies.

Thanks for your time :)
Author:  Mr.Bitterness [ Fri May 24, 2013 4:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Kissed with a girl, now texts me she's becoming lesbian,
She sounds mental, bro. Don't be her puppy.
Author:  Tr@veler [ Fri May 24, 2013 4:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Kissed with a girl, now texts me she's becoming lesbian,
SHIT TEST ALERT! Man this chick likes you and she's just testing you. Girls cannot control their attraction just like you can't control yours. She's not becoming a lesbian anytime soon.

When a girl says something like "just a movie, no sex" what do you think she's thinking about? She have said no sex, but sex is obviously on her mind. Wink wink.

Obviously don't buy her a cellphone here. Lol. That would be funny though if you did. It's just a trap. A little test. Are you man enough to stick to your ground or are you going to be swayed by whatever she says. Play it off, stay cool, stay fun, stay persistent, stay unaffected by these little shit tests and have your fun, be non-reactive to all of it, and go get her, lead the next time you're with her. Tell her where to go to come meet you. Set it up and lead to your bedroom unapologetically, cause that's what you want, right?
Author:  salasa [ Fri May 24, 2013 4:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Kissed with a girl, now texts me she's becoming lesbian,
Thanks for the replies ;)

Obviously I wasn't gonna buy her a cell-phone, I even refused to buy her drinks when she demands them like that :P (she demanded a vodka redbull after knowing me for 10 minutes)

She has been asking me if I miss/like her lately, questions I have trouble answering because I don't wanna blow it by telling her I like her too much. (I responded with 'You wish' when she said 'I know you love me')

You're right, that's what I want, first thing I'll do once I've recovered from my heavy fever :lol:

I'm usually good at dealing with shit tests, I just need someone to tell me it is one sometimes :P

thanks bro.
Author:  Tr@veler [ Fri May 24, 2013 5:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Kissed with a girl, now texts me she's becoming lesbian,
Quote:
Thanks for the replies ;)

Obviously I wasn't gonna buy her a cell-phone, I even refused to buy her drinks when she demands them like that :P (she demanded a vodka redbull after knowing me for 10 minutes)

She has been asking me if I miss/like her lately, questions I have trouble answering because I don't wanna blow it by telling her I like her too much. (I responded with 'You wish' when she said 'I know you love me')

You're right, that's what I want, first thing I'll do once I've recovered from my heavy fever :lol:

I'm usually good at dealing with shit tests, I just need someone to tell me it is one sometimes :P

thanks bro.
Nice. If she asks you the question do you miss me answer playfully. The fact that you like her should be in your intent and actions, not words ;) Good luck man. Report back how it goes.
Author:  kbird [ Sat May 25, 2013 1:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Kissed with a girl, now texts me she's becoming lesbian,
must have been a really really bad kiss for her to turn hahaha

shit test bro
Author:  slurp812 [ Sat May 25, 2013 1:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Kissed with a girl, now texts me she's becoming lesbian,
Quote:
SHIT TEST ALERT! Man this chick likes you and she's just testing you. Girls cannot control their attraction just like you can't control yours. She's not becoming a lesbian anytime soon.

When a girl says something like "just a movie, no sex" what do you think she's thinking about? She have said no sex, but sex is obviously on her mind. Wink wink.

Obviously don't buy her a cellphone here. Lol. That would be funny though if you did. It's just a trap. A little test. Are you man enough to stick to your ground or are you going to be swayed by whatever she says. Play it off, stay cool, stay fun, stay persistent, stay unaffected by these little shit tests and have your fun, be non-reactive to all of it, and go get her, lead the next time you're with her. Tell her where to go to come meet you. Set it up and lead to your bedroom unapologetically, cause that's what you want, right?
Yea, I like this! This chick is shit testing me, kinda suggested I hook up with some young chick that likes some thing I like all out of the blue? I was thinking to myself WTF, but it all makes sense now! So when she says she wants to become a lesbian, she wants you to show her why she doesnt!
Author:  neo87 [ Sat May 25, 2013 2:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Kissed with a girl, now texts me she's becoming lesbian,
I think shit test has become a term used whenever a girl doesn't show straight forward interest or she doesn't outright reject you. Girl doesn't text for 3 days? Shit test! Girl has a condom on her bedroom floor? Shit test!

IT'S NOT A SHIT TEST. She isn't crazy over you, things with another guy fell through so she vented to you. She liked the other guy way more, he messed up or fucked and left her, and now she is trying to downgrade your dating to buddy territory because you don't compare to what she lost. She's sending you random texts because she's friendzoning you. Invite her out, and make a major move for sex before it stalls completely.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Sat May 25, 2013 3:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Kissed with a girl, now texts me she's becoming lesbian,
She got rejected in some way by a guy she liked, so she's displacing her anger towards all men onto you.

Move on, she sounds a bit loopy. Find somebody with a healthier more positive attitude.
Author:  GKS [ Sat May 25, 2013 4:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Kissed with a girl, now texts me she's becoming lesbian,
That wasn't much of a shit test. She was just riding her emotional coaster and vented. However, the cell phone part was indeed a test if she wasn't so squishy washy about her mood. She seems to be emotionally unstable. Personally I think this chick is a nutcase.
Author:  salasa [ Sat May 25, 2013 6:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Kissed with a girl, now texts me she's becoming lesbian,
Some different opinions :P I don't know what to think really. She has been giving me several IoI's (she even agreed on having a threesome if I found a 3th girl for it lol) but on the other hand when I try to set a sexual tone texting she kinda ignores it. (always responds to the text, just sometimes ignores the sexual part)

She always texts good night last couple of days and right now she texted me 4 random things in a row ( saying she's starting to get sick, she doesn't like her current phone... just random buddy stuff ), I ignored them but she just keeps texting telling me to stop ignoring her lol.

I'm gaming some other women at the moment so I won't be too bothered if this one doesn't work out, just need to fix a date asap once I'm no longer sick I think :lol:
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