PUA Forum :: Mixed signals from a girl - is she trying to string me along

Hi All,

im getting really mixed signal from this girl and its starting to fuck with my head so i have backed off a bit but would like your advice....

She never texts or calls or messages me, but when ever i txt her message her she responds without fail..

if i ask to meet up and she is free she says yes, we spend days cuddled up play fighting even massaging each other where she is happy to remove items of clothing to make it easier lol...

but she is always telling me about other guys she is seeing or has slept with or who have told her they like her etc!!! if we bump into each other face to face she is playful sorta pokes me and smiles and that while we talk even if i dont in return...

last weekend at mine after a nice massage session where she had removed her trousers went out to get some food came back to mine, chit chatting and lieing on my bed together i went to kiss her and she said no and pulled back! im like WTF!!! but nothing else has changed

we still spent the rest of the day laughing if i message her she still responds but doesnt start the convo, and bumped into her yesturday after saying we should catch up and she was still poking me and touching me playfully while we spoke??? it doesnt make sense me is she just trying to string me along or what???

Author:	N1ck9141 [ Fri May 24, 2013 10:03 am ]
Post subject:	Mixed signals from a girl - is she trying to string me along
Hi All, im getting really mixed signal from this girl and its starting to fuck with my head so i have backed off a bit but would like your advice.... She never texts or calls or messages me, but when ever i txt her message her she responds without fail.. if i ask to meet up and she is free she says yes, we spend days cuddled up play fighting even massaging each other where she is happy to remove items of clothing to make it easier lol... but she is always telling me about other guys she is seeing or has slept with or who have told her they like her etc!!! if we bump into each other face to face she is playful sorta pokes me and smiles and that while we talk even if i dont in return... last weekend at mine after a nice massage session where she had removed her trousers went out to get some food came back to mine, chit chatting and lieing on my bed together i went to kiss her and she said no and pulled back! im like WTF!!! but nothing else has changed we still spent the rest of the day laughing if i message her she still responds but doesnt start the convo, and bumped into her yesturday after saying we should catch up and she was still poking me and touching me playfully while we spoke??? it doesnt make sense me is she just trying to string me along or what???

Author:	Themagicalone [ Fri May 24, 2013 11:54 am ]
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Quote: Hi All, im getting really mixed signal from this girl and its starting to fuck with my head so i have backed off a bit but would like your advice.... She never texts or calls or messages me, but when ever i txt her message her she responds without fail.. if i ask to meet up and she is free she says yes, we spend days cuddled up play fighting even massaging each other where she is happy to remove items of clothing to make it easier lol... but she is always telling me about other guys she is seeing or has slept with or who have told her they like her etc!!! if we bump into each other face to face she is playful sorta pokes me and smiles and that while we talk even if i dont in return... last weekend at mine after a nice massage session where she had removed her trousers went out to get some food came back to mine, chit chatting and lieing on my bed together i went to kiss her and she said no and pulled back! im like WTF!!! but nothing else has changed we still spent the rest of the day laughing if i message her she still responds but doesnt start the convo, and bumped into her yesturday after saying we should catch up and she was still poking me and touching me playfully while we spoke??? it doesnt make sense me is she just trying to string me along or what??? The quick answer is yes. Bottom line you haven't fucked or even made out with her and when you tried she rejected you. Also her telling you about guys she slept with seems like a sign that she put you in the friend zone.

Author:	CharlesFinley [ Fri May 24, 2013 1:24 pm ]
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Quote: The quick answer is yes. Bottom line you haven't fucked or even made out with her and when you tried she rejected you. Also her telling you about guys she slept with seems like a sign that she put you in the friend zone. ^ This. She seems to love the platonic attention also

Author:	Kravous [ Fri May 24, 2013 1:51 pm ]
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Next her, you're just one of those lads that give her all the attention she wants. By not kissing or fucking you she convinces herself she's not a slut. Sounds like the manipulative bitch I was dating a while ago.

Author:	Mr.Bitterness [ Fri May 24, 2013 4:18 pm ]
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Go out. Meet Women. Tell her about YOUR experiences. Don't dedicate all your time to one woman especially if she's telling you nothing will happen. She could just be trying to fucking with your head a bit.

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Author:	N1ck9141 [ Fri May 24, 2013 4:24 pm ]
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Alright shall i act any differently with regards to bumping into her and shit should i just blank her and that?

Author:	Mr.Bitterness [ Fri May 24, 2013 4:34 pm ]
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No, be cool. Don't ignore her, I can't see what that will do. Continue on as normal, (it sounds quite fun what you got going on) but just expand your horizons (women wise) demonstrate to her that she's not tagging you along. She may come to realise what she really wants.

Author:	Tr@veler [ Fri May 24, 2013 4:44 pm ]
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Mr Bitterness is on the right track. Go out and meet other women. This will take up your time and in turn leave less time for her. Sounds like you've got a little bit of oneitis for her. Get rid of it by spending less time with her, be less available, but still be cool. Be fun and don't be pouty. Just be a fun guy. What you are doing here is giving her less attention now, since she thrives off it, and she will soon see what she's missing. What you want is a scenario where she misses you so much but knows she can't get you without also fucking you. This will truly show her interest in you as a man.

Author:	Themagicalone [ Fri May 24, 2013 6:53 pm ]
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Quote: Mr Bitterness is on the right track. Go out and meet other women. This will take up your time and in turn leave less time for her. Sounds like you've got a little bit of oneitis for her. Get rid of it by spending less time with her, be less available, but still be cool. Be fun and don't be pouty. Just be a fun guy. What you are doing here is giving her less attention now, since she thrives off it, and she will soon see what she's missing. What you want is a scenario where she misses you so much but knows she can't get you without also fucking you. This will truly show her interest in you as a man. THIS and when she tries to bring up emotional shit(stuff about other guys) quickly change the subject, act like you don't care or be direct and let her know that you don't care.

Author:	slurp812 [ Fri May 24, 2013 11:10 pm ]
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I'm spending some time a women who is stinging me along. But in my case, she is always telling what she is doing, and who she is with. Never anything about any current men, none at all. In fact she seems to go out of her way to let me know she is available. I believe I am definitely on the B/F ladder. It does sound like friendzone.

Author:	heat2 [ Sat May 25, 2013 1:01 am ]
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I'll tell you the brutal truth... You can never know man.. Girls like all of us, have a lot going on in the love department. One day she likes you becouse she got dumped by an alfa bf and she seeks validation that she's desired, one day she's stone cold cuz her alfa bf came back fucked her brains out, the list goes on and on.. Ofcourse most of the girls genuinely like you, but that's not the case here... You can never know it for sure so just stop overanalysing becouse it doesn't really matter, she's just one lost little girl and ur wasting ur valuable time on her and you miss on millions on other women that really like you. If i could just tell you all my stories similar to yours, hahhaha funny stuff, even girls that i've been with in the past done this kind of things, but i never let it shake my state, it's normal and u should accept it.And one more thing, most of them come back in to your life when you have already forgotten them, and when they do go game man

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