lets say you guys have this friend that finds you a bit attractive but you dont like that much but would like to manipulate into a little more. she insists in the hugging and the kissing even thou you already told her you just like her as a friend. how do you manipulate her if you are giving in on her demands? i mean if everytime she kisses you you come up with the same lame excuse that you just want her as a friend but you kiss her back how do you keep her intrigued if you are eventually showing her that you like her? i can understand that you can not give in sometimes but when you eventually give in you eventually show her that you like the intimacy with her. i guess my main question is how would you maintain the mystery for her (does he really like me) and give in at the same time?