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Author:  ezeaa [ Wed May 22, 2013 10:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Already 3 dates with her, still not FC ...
Hey guys, i met a girl in a club a week ago, she did the "first step", we spent the night kissclosing, we could go for a FC but it wasn't possible, we both live with our parents.

First Date: We did a bowling, it was great, lot of kinos, laugh, kisses, went perfectly.

Second Date : We spent some hours together in the town, visiting some stuff, we talked/kissed a lot.

Third date : We went to the cinema, it was pretty hot, lot of sexual tension, we didn't even watched the movie lol, i had my car for FC but too much ppl around us :/

She told me a couple of times that she doesn't "fall in love" really fast because of his previous relationships and stuff like that.

My parents aren't at home this weekend, this is an opportunity for the FC but if i ask her to come at my home, she may think that things are going too fast ?

Thank you :)
Author:  PurePlaya [ Wed May 22, 2013 10:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Already 3 dates with her, still not FC ...
First off, how old are you? Easiest way to transition into it if you don't want to scare her is to ask her out. Take her to dinner or something and on the date mention you got the house to yourself. Say "we can grab a movie and some drinks and go hang out." If she says "ok," you're pretty much in. She'll pick up on the undertones of what you're communicating, so I'd take it as a green light that you're going to FC. Good luck.
Author:  ChitownMaverick [ Wed May 22, 2013 11:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Already 3 dates with her, still not FC ...
Going on dates frames you solidly in Boyfriend Provider land, which means she'll withhold sex with a whole litany of excuses. She has all the power here. Go for the close ASAP, good luck and no dates with the next one if this doesn't work out.

Check out Teevster's explanation of lover vs provider frame, pure gold.
Author:  hunchbak1982 [ Thu May 23, 2013 12:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Already 3 dates with her, still not FC ...
Quote:
Hey guys, i met a girl in a club a week ago, she did the "first step", we spent the night kissclosing, we could go for a FC but it wasn't possible, we both live with our parents.

First Date: We did a bowling, it was great, lot of kinos, laugh, kisses, went perfectly.

Second Date : We spent some hours together in the town, visiting some stuff, we talked/kissed a lot.

Third date : We went to the cinema, it was pretty hot, lot of sexual tension, we didn't even watched the movie lol, i had my car for FC but too much ppl around us :/

She told me a couple of times that she doesn't "fall in love" really fast because of his previous relationships and stuff like that.

My parents aren't at home this weekend, this is an opportunity for the FC but if i ask her to come at my home, she may think that things are going too fast ?

Thank you :)
in my opinion i think its quite time for a more intimate date between you two fellas. if she doesnt want to join you home shell simply say no. no harm done. i feel you dont risk anything. i say go for it. good luck
Author:  ezeaa [ Thu May 23, 2013 12:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Already 3 dates with her, still not FC ...
Is it fine to say something like "Hey, my parents aren't at home this week-end, you should come, we could watch a movie or something :p" ?
Author:  hunchbak1982 [ Thu May 23, 2013 12:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Already 3 dates with her, still not FC ...
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Is it fine to say something like "Hey, my parents aren't at home this week-end, you should come, we could watch a movie or something :p" ?
no, dont tell her your parents arent home, although i understand what you want to imply to her hehe :). we really dont know how she will act if you imply this because we dont know what type of girl she is. well at least i dont. let her have a surprise, once shes home watch the movie and escalate.
Author:  ezeaa [ Thu May 23, 2013 8:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Already 3 dates with her, still not FC ...
thanks guys
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