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Author:  Kravous [ Wed May 22, 2013 8:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Girlfriend says she's not good enough for me.
Been dating this HB8 for 2 months now, I really like her. We're having a bit of a drama lama relationship if you will, we would argue over little things and then have make-up sex. Alot. I don't really mind as long as we can keep the drama level to a minimum?

Anyway...Out of the blue she tells me maybe its better to stay friends? So I'm like.. 'Yup, lets do that, friends..peace'.
What else am I supposed to do? Can't go on my knees & tell her I don't want to be just friends because I would come off as if I need to be in a relationship with her, right?
Suddenly she says that she just said that to see how I felt about that decision.. Like wtf?
I told her I'm sick of these games and that I want to be with her, period.

NOW..She just told me she's not good enough for me? She knows it & I knows it apparently.

How the hell do I react to this? I just told her I'm sick of these games.
I would like a solution in wich I get to stay with her in a relationship, the way I feel about this girl is new to me.
Haven't felt like this in like...ever, this is the first time.

Thanks

-kravous
Author:  hunchbak1982 [ Wed May 22, 2013 9:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girlfriend says she's not good enough for me.
Quote:
Been dating this HB8 for 2 months now, I really like her. We're having a bit of a drama lama relationship if you will, we would argue over little things and then have make-up sex. Alot. I don't really mind as long as we can keep the drama level to a minimum?

Anyway...Out of the blue she tells me maybe its better to stay friends? So I'm like.. 'Yup, lets do that, friends..peace'.
What else am I supposed to do? Can't go on my knees & tell her I don't want to be just friends because I would come off as if I need to be in a relationship with her, right?
Suddenly she says that she just said that to see how I felt about that decision.. Like wtf?
I told her I'm sick of these games and that I want to be with her, period.

NOW..She just told me she's not good enough for me? She knows it & I knows it apparently.

How the hell do I react to this? I just told her I'm sick of these games.
I would like a solution in wich I get to stay with her in a relationship, the way I feel about this girl is new to me.
Haven't felt like this in like...ever, this is the first time.

Thanks


-kravous
bro, this chik is driving you crazy :) sorry bout that. theres no solution to that i think. chicks dig playing games. if you cant handle it. its game over. i have this friend that flirts heavily with me each time we see each other. imagine what would ve happened if i suddenly i took her seriously and told her "look, do you really like me, lets be a couple". its game over. never take women too seriously, whether your banging her or your just her friend. try to be in that frame of mind that you just dont care where the relationship goes, thats the best place to be when you deal with women. then your free from the outcome. and you just simply dont give a shit. but since you already care for the girl which i think is a huge mistake to begin with i suggest you come up front and tell her you want a relatioship, if she doesnt want you the way you are now, she can go fuck herself. and then you next her.
Author:  Kravous [ Wed May 22, 2013 9:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Girlfriend says she's not good enough for me.
I'm not sure if giving her the ultimatum of being with me in a relationship or nothing at all is the right card to play at this point.

None the less your advice is taken to heart and consideration, don't really know what else there is do to honestly.
Author:  slurp812 [ Thu May 23, 2013 3:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girlfriend says she's not good enough for me.
Im a n00b, been lurking for a while.

So she says friends, and he says no problem, then she bounces right back. That ought to tell you something. That I'm OK with it attitude worked! Un-phased. Almost sounds like she was asking you to throw yourself at her (gives her the power). Don't give in. I say don't give her an ultimatum!
Author:  Themagicalone [ Thu May 23, 2013 3:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girlfriend says she's not good enough for me.
Quote:
Been dating this HB8 for 2 months now, I really like her. We're having a bit of a drama lama relationship if you will, we would argue over little things and then have make-up sex. Alot. I don't really mind as long as we can keep the drama level to a minimum?

Anyway...Out of the blue she tells me maybe its better to stay friends? So I'm like.. 'Yup, lets do that, friends..peace'.
What else am I supposed to do? Can't go on my knees & tell her I don't want to be just friends because I would come off as if I need to be in a relationship with her, right?
Suddenly she says that she just said that to see how I felt about that decision.. Like wtf?
I told her I'm sick of these games and that I want to be with her, period.

NOW..She just told me she's not good enough for me? She knows it & I knows it apparently.

How the hell do I react to this? I just told her I'm sick of these games.
I would like a solution in wich I get to stay with her in a relationship, the way I feel about this girl is new to me.
Haven't felt like this in like...ever, this is the first time.

Thanks

-kravous
Not good that your only 2 months in and arguing a lot, its cool because your still in that honeymoon phase your going to get sick of it sooner than later though. My personal opinion I don't like girls that give you a lot of shit tests it gets old quick and shows a lack of immaturity and shows them being insecure. I'd probably enjoy the excitement of this chick and the make up sex while it lasts and when it and she starts to get old(and it will) I'd bail out. She's fucking material but not LTR material
Author:  Kravous [ Thu May 23, 2013 11:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girlfriend says she's not good enough for me.
Update

Alright so I've been thinking..Maybe she's feeling guilty for something she has done? Or is she just being super insecure and pathetic? Do I need to act like prince charming and just let her know I'm there for her and she's perfect for me? That's just gonna delay the problem isn't it?

keep me posted!

thanks

-kravous
Author:  Themagicalone [ Thu May 23, 2013 11:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girlfriend says she's not good enough for me.
Quote:
Update

Alright so I've been thinking..Maybe she's feeling guilty for something she has done? Or is she just being super insecure and pathetic? Do I need to act like prince charming and just let her know I'm there for her and she's perfect for me? That's just gonna delay the problem isn't it?

keep me posted!

thanks

-kravous
She's insecure and no you don't need to be "prince charming" its beta behavior.
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