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| Author: | itisme [ Wed May 22, 2013 7:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What I call ODD BEHAVIOUR... |
Hey... so I've gotten to know this girl... We met a couple of times, went to the movies and eventually made out. We then texted back and forth a while. She's currently preparing for a big exam which I could help her with, so I wanted to set up a study date a week ago, to which she agreed. She then told me that she had other stuff to deal with first (not an excuse, she was very concrete about it) but that we could meet after she had dealt with it. Two days later (last Friday) I texted her whether she'd already have plans for the weekend to which she just replied "Studying". I then followed up asking her whether she'd study all weekend and that I was beginning to miss her to which she didn't reply at all. Today (5 days later) I texted her asking her how she's getting along with the stuff she has to deal with. NO. REPLY. I'm confused. Maybe I got too sweet too soon (telling her I'd miss her and that I'd enjoy spending time with her) ... though that was AFTER we'd met three/four times and made out! I would just really like to know what's going on, so do you think it would be ok to try to call her tomorrow (if there's no reply till then) and if she doesn't pick up text her asking her whether everything is ok and what the hell is going on? Or ... what IS there to do in such a situation? Anyone who can possibly make sense of this type of behaviour? Thanks VERY much to anyone who can enlighten me about this, me. |
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| Author: | Pickwick [ Wed May 22, 2013 7:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What I call ODD BEHAVIOUR... |
Dang let the girl breathe. She doesn't depend on you hitting her up first in order to talk to you. If she wants to talk or see you, she will. Even at the point when she is studying, she can still text or call you while she takes a break. Don't you have other things going on in your life? Do them. You should be interesting to the girl- right now you depend on her attention. How interesting is that for her? You guys just made out and hung out a few times; it doesn't mean she is your girlfriend. You're being a clingy fuck. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed May 22, 2013 7:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What I call ODD BEHAVIOUR... |
Quote: Maybe I got too sweet too soon (telling her I'd miss her and that I'd enjoy spending time with her) ... though that was AFTER we'd met three/four times and made out! Girls want a Man, not another girl friend! Not odd behavior at all, it's the most common behavior. |
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| Author: | itisme [ Wed May 22, 2013 7:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What I call ODD BEHAVIOUR... |
I'm afraid that's EXACTLY what happened... So... what you're implying is: the only thing I can do is leave it Though we made out and things were looking not too bad, NEXT her? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed May 22, 2013 7:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What I call ODD BEHAVIOUR... |
She already "NEXT" you. Move on tighten up your game. Don't beat yourself up to bad, you learned a good lesson. |
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| Author: | itisme [ Wed May 22, 2013 9:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What I call ODD BEHAVIOUR... |
Really looks like it. I'm pissed. Even if she did contact me after some time, I can't tolerate a woman ignoring me at will. I can't believe this is happening to me. After it looked pretty good between us, I really thought there was space to let down the defenses... Thanks though for saving me from making a complete idiot of myself trying to mend things where everything lies in ruins. |
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| Author: | Themagicalone [ Wed May 22, 2013 9:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What I call ODD BEHAVIOUR... |
Quote: Really looks like it.
You got good advice, live and learn and maybe one day you'll have another chance to knock this chick down.
I'm pissed. Even if she did contact me after some time, I can't tolerate a woman ignoring me at will. I can't believe this is happening to me. After it looked pretty good between us, I really thought there was space to let down the defenses... Thanks though for saving me from making a complete idiot of myself trying to mend things where everything lies in ruins. |
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