Quote: Hey, I'll stress out that I did thought a lot before talking to my friends, actually showed them some youtube videos from the famous pua and tried to explain that although if one ends up with a girlfriend (which is awesome), just making new friends is not bad at all. But the way I could understand from their feedback, even if the goal is to make a friend, they would only do it through their circle of friends, school, work place ... which is good, but I tried to convince them that street game should be as good as any other way to make new friends. Simple as that.
But now imagine the scenario: I meet this wonderful girl that may become my girlfriend or wife, them her parents, friends, etc ask us how did we met. Well, I'm man enough to say the truth and only the truth, but it doesn't mean I'll get a good feedback. That's our society or 99% of it. Sad but true!
I definitely know what you're saying. Maverick is right in the way that it shouldn't be their business- you should do whatever makes you happy. It's the same as if I lived in Eastern Europe and married an African American. I would get the same reactions. I am saying though, don't push it on them. It's hard to break preconceived cultural beliefs. You want to keep your friend base but you should also do what makes you happy. Just let them believe what the believe, and you do what you do. I would also be careful approaching girls if your culture is how you explain it. You might want to do it as safely as possible.
Quote: Hey Pickwick,
Do those sound like Men to you? Guys who call you names for wanting to have sex with women?
Or do they sound like indoctrinated losers who DENY THEIR OWN NATURES because Feminism told them they should be ashamed?
Any person who tells another person that wanting to have a lot of sex is bad, is denying Him or Herself.
Shaming people who express their true desires is what PUSSIES do.
Deep down every single normal person on this planet loves sex, loves to fuck, because that is literally the only thing we're designed to do (besides eat and die). Evolution made really damn sure that sex feels really good so we'd have an incentive to do it.
Feminism tells us this is something to be ashamed of, we should cater to false purity and deny ourselves.
I feel you, but nobody said anything of name calling. Somebody expressed their beliefs, just like OP expressed his. As we saw in OP's most recent post, it's not feminism but rather his culture is more collectivist than our culture.
The feminism you're referring to is first wave feminism with the "Angel in the House" notion. It actually died in the 1920s. If you go into an actual present day feminist society, the new feminist movement embraces sex more than men in our society typically do.
The problem you're referring to isn't because of feminism but because we live in a civilized society. If you get the desire to fuck, you're not going to have sex with the first woman you see. As much as you want to refer to pussies who say sex is bad, following your logic, you're that pussy or you're a sociopath. You can go into the whole Hobbsian notion that sociopath is a cultural made term and blahblahblah, which I agree with you, but we are under a government and we do what the laws tell us. (being an anarchist, saying this shit was pretty tough)
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