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Author:  boyakasha [ Sun May 19, 2013 3:43 pm ]
Post subject:  HUUGE blow to my confidence
i havent gone out for a while, last night me and 2 m8s got really drunk, and literally the first girl in the club that i approached, without me even being able to say shit screamed "FUCK OFF". I didnt do shit i just said "heyy whats going on here".

I think alot of people around me saw it, i just laughed at her continued to the bar. But at the bar i saw another girl, and just said "hi, whats up, im (my name) and you" while holding my hand to shake hers. She gave me a disgusted look and turned around to her friends. I was soo down man i told my m8s i want to switch club. i switched, i dont remember alot other than me switching 5-6 clubs (know some guards at the clubs so get free entrance). finally i threw up and felt better, didnt feel as drunk, we said fuck it and went to a strip club. At the strip club i wasnt approached by strippers (made me feel maybe cuz im ugly). As i was leaving i saw hot waitress and started talking to her, told her im studying medicine etc, got her to open up a bit, she had to go fix drinks or something. So b4 i left i just went and asked for the number and she said no...

man i had i think the biggest fail night ever i dno wtf went wrong. and i got too drunk in middle made huge embarrasement of my self at some clubs i go to often (this was after rejecting for first 2-3 girls).

now im starting to think im too ugly, thoughts i never had b4 i dno wtf is going on with me.... just simply depressed over this.

wtf can i do
Author:  #tag [ Sun May 19, 2013 3:55 pm ]
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Dont try and game when your so drunk you need to be sick. No matter your looks or chat if you stagger up to a girl reeking of booze and your blind drunk your going to fail.

Also going for a hired gun in a strippers and getting shot down isnt really a fail they are harder to get if your having a bad night dont aim so high
Author:  StinkyApple [ Sun May 19, 2013 4:07 pm ]
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Work on your body langauge and attitude. After the first rejection, you changed your attitude and BL. It happends for everyone once in while, all you need to do is to fight against your emotions, when you feel like this. And yes, its hard, but it helps to remember, that your entire night will be bad, if you dont change your BL and suck it up. Those girls are not your friends or flirts, so whatever the reaction they give you, do not care. Why would you, they dont matter.

My teacher once said "Its easier to remember 1 bad episode, compared to 10 good episodes". Stand up dude, you do it better next time.:)
Author:  Flex007 [ Sun May 19, 2013 4:23 pm ]
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Light hearted relationship questions, opinion openers, use good body language, have a willingness to walk away and only hit on them when you get ioi's and you'll never get rejected.

I had a mate who was a natural, one night he got rejected 7 times in a row, and he was a good looking guy, it happens.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun May 19, 2013 5:19 pm ]
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You're drunk, what'd you expect. So the first you go to is your vanity because you turned off several girls due to your public drunkenness? Give your head a shake, really.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Sun May 19, 2013 8:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HUUGE blow to my confidence
Quote:
i havent gone out for a while, last night me and 2 m8s got really drunk, and literally the first girl in the club that i approached, without me even being able to say shit screamed "FUCK OFF". I didnt do shit i just said "heyy whats going on here".

I think alot of people around me saw it, i just laughed at her continued to the bar. But at the bar i saw another girl, and just said "hi, whats up, im (my name) and you" while holding my hand to shake hers. She gave me a disgusted look and turned around to her friends. I was soo down man i told my m8s i want to switch club. i switched, i dont remember alot other than me switching 5-6 clubs (know some guards at the clubs so get free entrance). finally i threw up and felt better, didnt feel as drunk, we said fuck it and went to a strip club. At the strip club i wasnt approached by strippers (made me feel maybe cuz im ugly). As i was leaving i saw hot waitress and started talking to her, told her im studying medicine etc, got her to open up a bit, she had to go fix drinks or something. So b4 i left i just went and asked for the number and she said no...

man i had i think the biggest fail night ever i dno wtf went wrong. and i got too drunk in middle made huge embarrasement of my self at some clubs i go to often (this was after rejecting for first 2-3 girls).

now im starting to think im too ugly, thoughts i never had b4 i dno wtf is going on with me.... just simply depressed over this.

wtf can i do

Stop fuckin drinking. It makes you creepy and it makes you smell like booze. The alpha male doesn't get hammered drunk. That's what little kids do.
Author:  Amadieus [ Sun May 19, 2013 9:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HUUGE blow to my confidence
Just clear your mind for a few days about that night. Sooner or later u will be pumped for the clubs again and this will be just a bad night and u will laugh about it.
Author:  Pickwick [ Sun May 19, 2013 9:48 pm ]
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Gotta know what the lowest of the lows feel like to move closer to the top. Take it as a learning step. Mentally label May 18th, 2013 as "Lesson 8: Rejection." and move on to lesson 9.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Sun May 19, 2013 9:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HUUGE blow to my confidence
Stop blowing your confidence, and START blowing your LOAD!
Author:  boyakasha [ Mon May 20, 2013 5:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HUUGE blow to my confidence
thanks for everyones advice, its the last time i drink and make a public humiliation of myself. I think ill just take some time off cause this made me really depressed and i have never been rejected by someone screaming out "FUCK OFF" infront of so many people before. i was soo embaraced...

i really hope i can get back on my saddle
Author:  n2thevoid [ Mon May 20, 2013 6:57 pm ]
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Quote:
thanks for everyones advice, its the last time i drink and make a public humiliation of myself. I think ill just take some time off cause this made me really depressed and i have never been rejected by someone screaming out "FUCK OFF" infront of so many people before. i was soo embaraced...

i really hope i can get back on my saddle
Maybe she's menstruating, remember things are only as big a deal as you make them out to be. Brush it off and move forward, no point letting it gain momentum and sapping your confidence. Her attitude was more a personal statement about her than anything else. You're a bigger person than that.
Author:  Melodical [ Mon May 20, 2013 7:18 pm ]
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It was an invitation to knock back your confidence and an invitation that you can screw up and throw in the bin. This happens very rarely I've found and takes a unique set of circumstances to occur but it can be hard on the newbie if he lucks out. Your best bet if it happens is to remain totally unaffected and just reply "have a good night" and walk off. This implies that you approached her because you found her attractive and were going to screen her and she automatically disqualified herself with her remark: You rejected her.

On a personal anecdote; the first time I ever saw this happen the guy she said it too broke her jaw. Bit extreme but remember newbies: Even if you creep a girl out she doesn't know if your a psycho or not and will think long and hard before doing this.
Author:  kasabi [ Mon May 20, 2013 11:19 pm ]
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Author:  hunchbak1982 [ Tue May 21, 2013 12:58 am ]
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dude your all over the place desperate to get some female attention. why in th hell of the world would you tell a waitress your life story and ask for her number. something is not right but i really dont know how to fix that. other than that i would say sorry for a horrible night.
Author:  boucaneer [ Tue May 21, 2013 1:29 am ]
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Get back on that horse son! The booze is probably making you feel a little depressed.
Imagine a life of having good game and enjoying loads of female company who enjoy you when your sober and fun.

I used to booze but now I use game to keep me sober, especialy after my last friday. To kinda replace it in a way. It's more fun.

Good luck kid and don't give up.
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