I won't get into the long version, but girl I have been dating / fking for 2 months was a bit flaky and what I perceived as disrespectful, so I froze her out for about 2 days by not responding, then she wrote me a long apology - I went over to her place ltr that night and told her that I would not tolerate it and that I was done. She was very upset and emotionally asked me to reconsider and that while she knows she was wrong it was a bit severe and rash to throw everything away. I told her I would think about it for a few days and I would contact her when I am ready.

I think this is effectively getting my point across that I won't put up w being disrespected and that I am not afraid to walk away. Is this effective freeze out when she knows that she is being frozen out? I said I would decide and contact her when I am ready...