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| Author: | Donnie B [ Thu May 16, 2013 9:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | In Need of Help! |
Hi, I have a problem. I awant to know how I can change and what I am doing wrong. I have no problem speaking and talking to people. I tend to talk too much if you ask me. I want to be friendly with everyone so I just talk about anything. I am called weird all the time. I can talk to girls and start conversations but I cant never get them interested. I make jokes alot and tht just makes me seems likea clown to others but I just want to make every interaction a fun and engaging encounter. I make a lot of sarcastic jokes and people usually dont understand tehm and I just stop talking. Can anyone help? |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Thu May 16, 2013 3:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: In Need of Help! |
Quote: Hi,
Stop trying to impress everyone by being friendly. Being friendly will never get you anywhere in life besides walked all over like a door mat. Be memorable. Don't be afraid to put people in their place.
I have a problem. I awant to know how I can change and what I am doing wrong. I have no problem speaking and talking to people. I tend to talk too much if you ask me. I want to be friendly with everyone so I just talk about anything. I am called weird all the time. I can talk to girls and start conversations but I cant never get them interested. I make jokes alot and tht just makes me seems likea clown to others but I just want to make every interaction a fun and engaging encounter. I make a lot of sarcastic jokes and people usually dont understand tehm and I just stop talking. Can anyone help? |
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| Author: | Donnie B [ Thu May 16, 2013 8:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: In Need of Help! |
So how can I go about not being friendly to everyone ? How do I change that . Should I just be stoic and not start conversations? What kind of conversations should I be talking about ? |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Thu May 16, 2013 8:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: In Need of Help! |
Quote: So how can I go about not being friendly to everyone ? How do I change that . Should I just be stoic and not start conversations? What kind of conversations should I be talking about ?
LOL I didn't say that... be sociable. But don't try and appease everyone. Keep the conversations light and fun. Be playful. Acting like a tough guy won't get you anywhere either because it will scare people away.... |
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| Author: | Donnie B [ Thu May 16, 2013 10:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: In Need of Help! |
Haha I am not very good at this . Can you give me some examples if you may? |
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