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| Author: | SE23 [ Sun May 12, 2013 12:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Why do we pander to shit tests and flakes ? |
I don't understand why certain pick up artists, teach us that we should be dancing monkeys for women, simply because we want to have sex with them. Cmon with all seriousness, if a woman wasn't hot and say an unattractive man, would you really have to take on the shit tests, what right does she have giving you shit ? This attitude of bowing down and seeking validation from women, is demeaning and not worth it. I suppose this goes down to a direct/indirect game argument, the point is, women are pretty much experts at playing mind games, they are MPUA's because of this pretty much, as female power has always been subtle, and they can seek plausble deniability in being receptive for attractive men to hit on them, in case they do get rejected, which will be rare. What i am trying to say, is why stoop down to the little details of mind games, as they are inherently going to be experts in this field. Developing inner game, confidence, a strong frame and using direct game is how it works in nature, and how ultimately it should work now. Just a few thoughts |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Mon May 13, 2013 8:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why do we pander to shit tests and flakes ? |
MOST PUA is insecurities-based. If it weren't why would there be so much emphasis on 'techniques' such as negging, peacocking, or framing? The whole idea is to lower the woman's value so, relatively speaking, she perceives you as being more worthy then her (subjective value) and subsequently deem you as an object to be desired, something to behold. For those looking for legitimate relationships, would you want to be with somebody who pedestalizes you? Maybe a minority of you would answer yes, but I'll hazard a guess in assuming that the vast majority of you would loathe being put upon an ivory tower (unless of course you're a narcissist). They key to being an attractive person is working on you, empowering yourself, feeding whatever it is that feeds your soul (through intrinsic motivators, and NOT external validation). Be the best you can be, and part of this entails, among other things becoming a better communicator, taking better care of your physical health and other things which actually fit into the scheme of wellbeing. If you are doing all these things for the sole object of attracting women, then you won't ever have prolonged periods of joy because there will always be somebody healthier/more fit, more communicative etc.. Do things for YOU (in a selfless manner) and others will find attraction and value in that. |
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