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I'm having a house party next weekend and there's a girl I want to come over, but can't figure out how to get her over. We have a lot of common interests and are quite compatible.

I got her number last week and only texted her once or twice. I told her (in person) she should come over and that she wouldn't be the only girl there if she was worried about that, but I was nervous saying that so I don't know how that message conveyed.

It's difficult to read this girl and I am horrible at escalating sexually.

Any ideas?

Author:	The Mellow [ Tue May 07, 2013 7:58 am ]
Post subject:	How would you get her over?
I'm having a house party next weekend and there's a girl I want to come over, but can't figure out how to get her over. We have a lot of common interests and are quite compatible. I got her number last week and only texted her once or twice. I told her (in person) she should come over and that she wouldn't be the only girl there if she was worried about that, but I was nervous saying that so I don't know how that message conveyed. It's difficult to read this girl and I am horrible at escalating sexually. Any ideas?

Author:	zmbcm1 [ Tue May 07, 2013 8:17 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How would you get her over?
Quote: I'm having a house party next weekend and there's a girl I want to come over, but can't figure out how to get her over. We have a lot of common interests and are quite compatible. I got her number last week and only texted her once or twice. I told her (in person) she should come over and that she wouldn't be the only girl there if she was worried about that, but I was nervous saying that so I don't know how that message conveyed. It's difficult to read this girl and I am horrible at escalating sexually. Any ideas? Unless you are the central hub connecting all the people at your house party, and will have an easy time playing host/amog, then invite her to coffee 1 on 1. "we should get coffee sometime. What's your week look like?".

Author:	Betamax [ Tue May 07, 2013 9:12 am ]
Post subject:	Re: How would you get her over?
Well, you only texted her once or twice... And you nervously and probably awkwardly asked her to come over. And when people say they have a hard time reading others, it's not a good sign. So, from the sounds of it, you're off to a bad start. Try lowering your expectations and consider her practice. Personally, I would try texting her more and see what happens.

Author:	Snarg [ Tue May 07, 2013 1:02 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How would you get her over?
I'm struggling to find a genuine problem here. There are no difficult hurdles to overcome. Text her and say (in your own words) something to the effect of, "Hey, you know that party I was telling you about? It's at 8 pm. My address is 6969 Fuck Rd." You have absolutely, positively nothing to lose.

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