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Author:  TheUnsocialBear [ Sun May 05, 2013 4:31 pm ]
Post subject:  How do I deal with "Are you trying to pick me up?"

I've been going out with friends consistently for a couple of weeks now and I can feel my game is getting better. I've approached quite a few sets now and feel comfortable just going up to girls and talking to them (the 3-second rule is practically my religion now).

Although I am having much more success than I used to (k-closed and number closed last night), I often run into sets where one of the girls will ask if I'm trying to pick them up or something along those lines. Last night, a girl told me that my line was the worst she'd ever heard (to be honest, I agree with her: it was a spur-of-the-moment kind of line).

I'm certain this is a shit-test and I'm not sure how to deal with it, so I brush it off by smirking and saying “Oh someone's a bit eager” and change the topic. How do I deal with this effectively? What could I say to the girl who shit testing me? What body language could I use?

Note: I've also noticed that it's almost always the most attractive one of the group (which are the girls I go for). I would appreciate help on this since it always trips me up, even when I'm expecting it.

The Unsocial Bear

Author:  MrMatt [ Sun May 05, 2013 5:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I deal with "Are you trying to pick me up?"

"yes"

Author:  TheUnsocialBear [ Sun May 05, 2013 10:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I deal with "Are you trying to pick me up?"

Quote:
"yes"
I know that but I mean for indirect approaches or for when I'm still deciding if the girls I'm talking to are alright or not. Anyone else got any suggestions?

Author:  Rough Operator [ Sun May 05, 2013 10:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I deal with "Are you trying to pick me up?"

"I haven't made up my mind just yet"

But I prefer direct approaches, there is no real question of whether I am trying to pick a girl up or not.

Author:  coolday [ Sun May 05, 2013 11:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I deal with "Are you trying to pick me up?"

Yes! Why not?(Reverse Psychology)
Sorta! But I'm not really sure you are type anyway.(Neg)
Oh Please... That is not my pickup line. "Insert lame pickup line" This is a real pickup line. (Denial)

Again, girls don't really care what you say but how you deliver.It's all presentation and confident.

Author:  .Sage. [ Mon May 06, 2013 2:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I deal with "Are you trying to pick me up?"

1.You seemed interesting, but now that you mention it....*Step back and look at her* Well -Insert Neg here- :D

2. *Shot gun neg to friends* Is she always like this? :D *Ignore the question and change the topic*

Author:  dvjackson [ Mon May 06, 2013 2:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I deal with "Are you trying to pick me up?"

"Well sure, you look light enough"

And then put one hand on her back and the other under her thighs and physically pick her up

Author:  zmbcm1 [ Mon May 06, 2013 7:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I deal with "Are you trying to pick me up?"

Quote:
"I haven't made up my mind just yet"
That is brilliant. I'm shamelessly using this one in daygame now.

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