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Author:  tonystark88 [ Wed May 01, 2013 3:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Advice with this flakey girl
I'm curious to deal with this flake situation. I was chatting with a girl then we exchanged numbers a couple weeks ago. this was mostly for an ongoing hookup type of situation. Seems like she had wanted to hang out that night but I told her I had plans that day. I said how about this weekend sunday, she said she wasn't busy. Texted her the next couple days nothing. Deleted her moved on, forgot.

Two weeks later (this monday). I get a text, "hey sorry I lost my phone its been kind of nice not having one want to get a drink tomorrow?"

I told her i had a class but if she wanted to go after that was ok. We flirted a little bit re: she told me she was good at giving massages,etc,etc. I told her ok since I was sore and she was good at massages it was a good reason to skip class, and we could meet at 8.

It was late so maybe she fell asleep. I followed up the next day no response. This girl does seem very busy and chill. She did take the time to reengage with me, but wtf is up with this deal.

I don't want to appear needy as I really am not , but this girl seemed super chill.

Advice, anything besides delete lol
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed May 01, 2013 4:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice with this flakey girl
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I'm curious to deal with this flake situation. I was chatting with a girl then we exchanged numbers a couple weeks ago. this was mostly for an ongoing hookup type of situation. Seems like she had wanted to hang out that night but I told her I had plans that day. I said how about this weekend sunday, she said she wasn't busy. Texted her the next couple days nothing. Deleted her moved on, forgot.

Two weeks later (this monday). I get a text, "hey sorry I lost my phone its been kind of nice not having one want to get a drink tomorrow?"

I told her i had a class but if she wanted to go after that was ok. We flirted a little bit re: she told me she was good at giving massages,etc,etc. I told her ok since I was sore and she was good at massages it was a good reason to skip class, and we could meet at 8.

It was late so maybe she fell asleep. I followed up the next day no response. This girl does seem very busy and chill. She did take the time to reengage with me, but wtf is up with this deal.

I don't want to appear needy as I really am not , but this girl seemed super chill.

Advice, anything besides delete lol

1st off;
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hey sorry I lost my phone its been kind of nice not having one
Complete utter BULLSHIT!

Seriously, what sane girl, that retains any fiber of hotness do you know of that can go two weeks without her fucking phone, unless hospitalized! Maybe she loaned it to the Easter Bunny.
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she said she wasn't busy. Texted her the next couple days nothing.
Reads; She doesn't know you or give a shit about you, only remembers you as "that cute guy I talked to."
Got a better offer that day.
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Two weeks later (this monday). I get a text, "hey sorry I lost my phone its been kind of nice not having one want to get a drink tomorrow?"
Reads: I'm having a slump (likely only about 8 hours worth) I bet if I text this guy I'll at least get a free drink.

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I told her i had a class but if she wanted to go after that was ok. We flirted a little bit re: she told me she was good at giving massages,etc,etc. I told her ok since I was sore and she was good at massages it was a good reason to skip class, and we could meet at 8.
The reply she expected.
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It was late so maybe she fell asleep. I followed up the next day no response. This girl does seem very busy and chill.
If she's hot I'm sure she is! It's very difficult to text reply with a big fat cock in your face.

Yeah, move on, but why delete? Re-open here and there with something flirty/sexual.

Example the pantie check. "It's Wednesday pantie check, no lying!" SMS.

Definitely not a "front burner girl". But a good one for that little black book you call an iPhone!
Author:  tonystark88 [ Wed May 01, 2013 5:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice with this flakey girl
I agree. She is in this industry where she is busy that's why we initially talked about looking for fwb. But no response to even say anything is pretty shitty. I'm ok with rejection but just being flirty doesn't it reenforce this bad behavior? Should I call her out?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed May 01, 2013 5:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice with this flakey girl
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I agree. She is in this industry where she is busy that's why we initially talked about looking for fwb. But no response to even say anything is pretty shitty. I'm ok with rejection but just being flirty doesn't it reinforce this bad behavior? Should I call her out?
Do you still want to fuck her?

When I say flirty, I mean in a sexual frame, nothing more.

Express no other interest.
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Should I call her out?
Knowing they are a tramp (useful), and calling them a tramp (not useful) are two totally different things. NO.
Author:  tonystark88 [ Wed May 01, 2013 5:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice with this flakey girl
Thanks for the advice . I meant more along the lines of do you wanna meet and if so let's schedule a time and not flake. I wouldn't say that , not a rant or anything
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed May 01, 2013 5:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice with this flakey girl
I would rebuild a little comfort 1st to reestablish a "connection."

And give yourself some time to set your goal parameters for this girl.

You need to remember, she barley knows you, therefore you are not very high on HER priority list.
Author:  tonystark88 [ Wed May 01, 2013 5:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice with this flakey girl
I agree. She was more like I work 80 hours a week sometimes don't get a day off for a month so I think she just wants a f buddy. We have same taste in music and it all isn't sex talk either. She is foreign and chill.

I thought I'd just see what she is up to Friday. She is more no sense lets meet .

Or does that come off as too soon
Author:  tonystark88 [ Fri May 03, 2013 4:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice with this flakey girl
Ok well she kind of friendzoned me so I thought the idea was to play to cool and be charming and all that but not give her that type of attention to get her to want me.

Invited her to a party Sunday she works she had off sat and agreed to go to a movie but I almost want to try during the week instead of being available the day she happens to be available

I have nothing to lose cause there is another girl who really wants me except I'm more into the first girl .
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri May 03, 2013 1:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice with this flakey girl
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Ok well she kind of friendzoned me so I thought the idea was to play to cool and be charming and all that but not give her that type of attention to get her to want me.

Invited her to a party Sunday she works she had off sat and agreed to go to a movie but I almost want to try during the week instead of being available the day she happens to be available

I have nothing to lose cause there is another girl who really wants me except I'm more into the first girl .
That's backward ass thinking Bro. That is HOW you get INTO the Friend Zone!

1. Chasing relentlessly is needy.

2. Never give up a sure thing for a maybe.

3. Going with the sure thing will make the maybe want you more.

4. Going to a movie is like paying for a chick to not hang out with you for two hours.
Author:  tonystark88 [ Fri May 03, 2013 2:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Advice with this flakey girl
Haha true but I was already in it so I'm climbing out of trying . Gaming about 4 other girls but this is the one I'd rather have
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