PUA Forum :: Everything was good, 1 year, freindzoned. I'm crying.

^^ I do not agree completely with what you said.

You only have one choice which is to give her an ultimatum. Tell her directly something like this "We can't be friends if nothing is going to happen, I do not want us just to be friends. I know this may have across as a surprise but I just had to get it out. So if you do not feel the same way about me, the best thing to do not is not to speak to each other. Because it will be easier for me to move on"

But be prepared to move. Be prepared to get a negative response! Whatever you do not contact her after this. She may contact you after this do not blow her off at that time. Just be friendly.

Nope not a virgin, but I get exactly where you are coming from....I guess I could play this off as some amazing life experience but still....If I ginored her all summer, if I ignored her in uni.....and then one day jut brought her outside and....at this point she already knows how I feel....and just telll her to gtfo,.....might work? I mean your all players there ha......nevermind, I onlt have her on my mind at the moment and all I can think about is..adfpsamspodifmsdpoig

I need help on this, we start the second year of uni in 4 months, long time I know, she wont be in the same class any-more either so that's good, I can ignore her easier. HOW DA FUCK DO I GET OUT OF THIS FRIEND ZONE AND GET HER TO SEE ME AS A SEXUAL ENTITY! seriously guys, I depended on you before and you helped allot, and this right here is my last request, so please....help me out. I deleted her of face-book, her number, threw her shit out of my room, talked to other chicks, but I can't forget her atall. I really do want her, so please don't come-out with shit like, oh just go date other girls she'll come to you. I know she liked me, I know this, there is no fucking way she thinks of me as a friend, she's just scared of a relation ship and her "advice giving friends" are fucking it up for me. So what do I do? between now and next year of uni and/or when uni starts.

If you start off saying "first off I'm no AFC" you're probably AFC.

Game more women brah.

Author:	supmag [ Tue Apr 30, 2013 8:02 pm ]
Post subject:	Everything was good, 1 year, freindzoned. I'm crying.
OK to start of, I'm no AFC I have been gaming for a while, I know how most of this works, and that's why I fucked up. I have been on and off girls for a while, but this one was special, I completely fell in love, like deep, really deep without lube. Now You have to know the whole story to be able to to help me out here. She got put in my group for film, I instantly was interested in her, so from the beginning I didn't talk to her much, and when I did, I wasn't the nicest person in the world...I didn't do any kino...well because I really liked her and didn't want to play games, a year went by I dated other girls and had sex...yet near the end of the year I got really close to her, talking more, calling, going out, at this point I was completely in love. At some-point we went out to the club(before this I was going to tell her at another time, but the words didn't come-out) so she kept nagging me to tell her what I wanted to say the other day, so I thought she liked me as-well, she also kept asking if I would miss her over the holidays, and I always replied no in a nice way. So in the club I told her, and she was so confused, she kept saying to me I thought you didn't like me, I thought I was just someone you spoke to when you're friends weren't around. She hugged me, bit my shoulder gently and so I got my hopes up high, very high. So I told her, lets go outside and talk, she got up and said let me go to the toilet first, she was in there for one-hour, most likely talking to her best friend about it, she came out and started giving me the col-shoulder. We went home, oh BTW the biggest thing here is, there is my guy friend Jake who was always with us, all the time, trying to help me, giving me opportunities to talk to her alone( I know, big mistake) so we came to my place, and it was awkward as fuck, she talked to me normally, no difference, I felt friend zone, but my hopes were to high to give a shit. I thought fuck it im going to tell her again properly tomorrow in uni, and so I grabbes her hand and took her outside sat her down, looked in her eyes told her everything, went to kiss her. She pushed me away gently and said, but I only like you as a friend.....WHA DA FUCK! ok I completely deduced how this happened, but whatever the case, I really do love this girl and can't even think of anyone else right now, all those girls who I was talking to before are getting ignored, I cba, I really cba with anyone else right now, I just want her. I need help on this, we start the second year of uni in 4 months, long time I know, she wont be in the same class any-more either so that's good, I can ignore her easier. HOW DA FUCK DO I GET OUT OF THIS FRIEND ZONE AND GET HER TO SEE ME AS A SEXUAL ENTITY! seriously guys, I depended on you before and you helped allot, and this right here is my last request, so please....help me out. I deleted her of face-book, her number, threw her shit out of my room, talked to other chicks, but I can't forget her atall. I really do want her, so please don't come-out with shit like, oh just go date other girls she'll come to you. I know she liked me, I know this, there is no fucking way she thinks of me as a friend, she's just scared of a relation ship and her "advice giving friends" are fucking it up for me. So what do I do? between now and next year of uni and/or when uni starts.

Author:	FlexBrah [ Tue Apr 30, 2013 10:44 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Everything was good, 1 year, freindzoned. I'm crying.
If you start off saying "first off I'm no AFC" you're probably AFC. Game more women brah.

Author:	supmag [ Wed May 01, 2013 1:40 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Everything was good, 1 year, freindzoned. I'm crying.
But I want this one! If this is a game then she's the last boss......wow so queer like. Still I don't believe its impossible to still get her, and if someone is good enough to tell me how to do so is obviously....good..dem bribes

Author:	ChrisGrimbles [ Wed May 01, 2013 5:14 am ]
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Hang out with her and be treat her completely as if she were only a friend. Start giving IOI's attractive women and game them while you are with her. Show that you have many other possibilities and that your "love" is not subjective to the whims of her emotions. Obviously you have to be successful at doing this for it really attract the girl you currently like, but after a while of observing that you can easily get girls much more attractive then her, she'll begin to ask herself "Why doesn't he want me?" Ignore any advances she has at this point and it will only develop further.

Author:	speed26 [ Wed May 01, 2013 6:39 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Everything was good, 1 year, freindzoned. I'm crying.
^^ I do not agree completely with what you said. You only have one choice which is to give her an ultimatum. Tell her directly something like this "We can't be friends if nothing is going to happen, I do not want us just to be friends. I know this may have across as a surprise but I just had to get it out. So if you do not feel the same way about me, the best thing to do not is not to speak to each other. Because it will be easier for me to move on" But be prepared to move. Be prepared to get a negative response! Whatever you do not contact her after this. She may contact you after this do not blow her off at that time. Just be friendly.

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Author:	ChrisGrimbles [ Wed May 01, 2013 8:16 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Everything was good, 1 year, freindzoned. I'm crying.
Quote: ^^ I do not agree completely with what you said. You only have one choice which is to give her an ultimatum. Tell her directly something like this "We can't be friends if nothing is going to happen, I do not want us just to be friends. I know this may have across as a surprise but I just had to get it out. So if you do not feel the same way about me, the best thing to do not is not to speak to each other. Because it will be easier for me to move on" But be prepared to move. Be prepared to get a negative response! Whatever you do not contact her after this. She may contact you after this do not blow her off at that time. Just be friendly. In direct reference to what the OP stated, he wishes to become a "SEXUAL ENTITY" to this particular girl. Doing an ultimatum that gives him the appearance of a coward who cannot suppress his emotional feelings around her would likely do the opposite. Coming from my own personal experiences at least with trying ultimatums, they have a small success potential unless he was in an LTR or really dependent FWB situation. Plus, attempting to break the friend zone with the way I described would likely limit his oneitis mindset that's bothering him so badly.

Author:	AFCToTheMax [ Wed May 01, 2013 9:33 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Everything was good, 1 year, freindzoned. I'm crying.
Ok mate I'll be honest. You are AFC. Don't worry though everyone was at some point. I'm guessing you are young. Are you a virgin ? With this girl you have no chance at all. You probably didn't have any to start with. You made a mistake of not trying to escalate asap. Instead you tricked yourself into thinking that she likes you. If you made your intentions clear from the beginning you would have saved a lot of grief (emotional investment on your part). You fell for her badly without having sex with her, dating her etc. The biggest mistake you made was telling her your feelings without the two of you having any physical contact. You didn't even kiss her for fuck sake. She wants to be your friend that's it. Tell her that you can't be friends. Please don't be friends with her in order to hopefully in the future at some point she gets to like you. Let her go and find someone who is interested in you not just being friends. And learn from this that you shouldn't give away your feelings in hope to get someone. Tell her you love her, when she earned it. You will learn this, but it's going to hurt.

Author:	supmag [ Wed May 01, 2013 2:27 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Everything was good, 1 year, freindzoned. I'm crying.
Nope not a virgin, but I get exactly where you are coming from....I guess I could play this off as some amazing life experience but still....If I ginored her all summer, if I ignored her in uni.....and then one day jut brought her outside and....at this point she already knows how I feel....and just telll her to gtfo,.....might work? I mean your all players there ha......nevermind, I onlt have her on my mind at the moment and all I can think about is..adfpsamspodifmsdpoig

Author:	skills360 [ Wed May 01, 2013 2:42 pm ]
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http://www.theskillsmethod.com/how-to-g ... al-tampon/

Author:	AFCToTheMax [ Thu May 02, 2013 1:05 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Everything was good, 1 year, freindzoned. I'm crying.
Quote: Nope not a virgin, but I get exactly where you are coming from....I guess I could play this off as some amazing life experience but still....If I ginored her all summer, if I ignored her in uni.....and then one day jut brought her outside and....at this point she already knows how I feel....and just telll her to gtfo,.....might work? I mean your all players there ha......nevermind, I onlt have her on my mind at the moment and all I can think about is..adfpsamspodifmsdpoig Mate this is fine. You feel this way it's ok. Can't change how you feel. You can change how you act though. Tell her to gtfo if that's what you want. BUT. Don't expect her to fall into your arms because of that. What will happen is she will be happy not to deal with your needyness anymore. Cut all contact with this girl. You WILL get better if you do that. If you keep in touch it'll only get worse trust me. Anyway doesn't matter how many players are in this forum. You lost this. Period. I'm not trying to be mean to you but I've been through the same so I know what you need to hear. You'll be fine eventually, but only if you cut all contact. skills post is also very good especially step 1 "Accept that you will never be with her" - keep this in mind.

Author:	supmag [ Fri May 03, 2013 12:43 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Everything was good, 1 year, freindzoned. I'm crying.
I am feeling allot better now to be honest, but apparently that day she came to my friends and was upset about it or some-shit, "I don't know weather I have made the right decision" or some bullshit, Im fine now but that tiny hope needs to be extinguished. KILL MA HOPE!

Author:	zmbcm1 [ Mon May 06, 2013 8:42 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Everything was good, 1 year, freindzoned. I'm crying.
Quote: I need help on this, we start the second year of uni in 4 months, long time I know, she wont be in the same class any-more either so that's good, I can ignore her easier. HOW DA FUCK DO I GET OUT OF THIS FRIEND ZONE AND GET HER TO SEE ME AS A SEXUAL ENTITY! seriously guys, I depended on you before and you helped allot, and this right here is my last request, so please....help me out. I deleted her of face-book, her number, threw her shit out of my room, talked to other chicks, but I can't forget her atall. I really do want her, so please don't come-out with shit like, oh just go date other girls she'll come to you. I know she liked me, I know this, there is no fucking way she thinks of me as a friend, she's just scared of a relation ship and her "advice giving friends" are fucking it up for me. So what do I do? between now and next year of uni and/or when uni starts. I hate to sound mean, but everything before this is textbook AFC/friendzoning. Terrible game. As bad as it sounds. You're not going to get this girl now, period. Your only chance is if you move on and let her see you with others, preferably more attractive than her, and then you'll have your chance. Personally, I'd just NEXT. Trust me it gets easier with time. It's the serious relationships that are a bitch to move on from. You have to learn to deal with these early breaks, or when your first big breakup comes, you'll be a total wreck.

Author:	Warped Mindless [ Mon May 06, 2013 12:04 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Everything was good, 1 year, freindzoned. I'm crying.
Quote: If you start off saying "first off I'm no AFC" you're probably AFC. Game more women brah. Quoted for truth.

Author:	johnchangmai [ Mon May 06, 2013 12:06 pm ]
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A real measure of success is how you deal with disappointment.

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Author:	supmag [ Mon May 06, 2013 10:52 pm ]
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One week has passed, I guess I can move on now....erm how do I say this, there is like a party tomorrow, which the 3 of us planned and after this whole FAIL happened, I decided not to go, but I dunno now, I mean there will be other chicks thee aswelll and she is going to be there to? so I guess I can go and get with other chicks that night? I mean at the moment its still pretty fresh, its only been like a week....or no?