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| Author: | Monophthalmos [ Fri Apr 26, 2013 10:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to loosen up a semi-prudish fuckbuddy |
Hi, I have a fuckbuddy which loves to come over to fuck ant talk. So far, so good. Unfortunately she is somehow prudish, she goes straight from kissing to fucking, I have to more or less guide her hand to even grab my dick. I think she is not beyond hope as I was able to literally hand-tame her - during the first night she even refused to be pussyfingered (but was OK with a fuck), now she loves it and gives good handjobs, even though she still has to be guided there. As a further observation I would like to add that she doesn't like losing control, there's always a glimmer of flight reflexes in her (which is why she's no viable LTR). She's from one of these German noble families of Eastern Prussian descent that are known for a very stiff and distanced (and to my mind: unhealthy) raising of children, so I think her weirdness is not a shittest, but a quirk. She somehow sees anything other than straight sex as something pertaining to a relationship, be it a handjob (wtf?), a blowjob or a cunnilingus. Now this is a slight turndown as I like handjobs, blowjobs and dishing out a well delivered cunnilingus and I don't want to slide into relationship terrain. Any suggestions how I can loosen her up without getting down that slope (as much for her sake as for mine)? |
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| Author: | Mr. Marville [ Fri Apr 26, 2013 11:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to loosen up a semi-prudish fuckbuddy |
She states she doesn't want a relationship? She states that 1 pounding her pussy is okay. 2 fingering her, oral, masturbation etc "belongs to the domain of relationship and is thus problematic" Well, that's pretty fucked up. Is she one of those pretty, slim, blue-eyed blonde girls with braids? My advice: Just tell her everything you just wrote in the post. Communicate. It can upgrade your connection to the next level. |
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| Author: | dvjackson [ Sat Apr 27, 2013 1:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to loosen up a semi-prudish fuckbuddy |
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She states that 1 pounding her pussy is okay.
Well it's probably like how some prostitutes don't kiss their clients. They might let you double penetrate them with a huge dildo and kissing by comparison is an extremely simple and harmless act but to them it represents something more intimate.
2 fingering her, oral, masturbation etc "belongs to the domain of relationship and is thus problematic" Well, that's pretty fucked up. |
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| Author: | Monophthalmos [ Sat Apr 27, 2013 4:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to loosen up a semi-prudish fuckbuddy |
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My advice: Just tell her everything you just wrote in the post. Communicate. It can upgrade your connection to the next level.
Meh. I am not sure if telling her expressis verbis that she's no LTR material because she has these weird notions is going to help my case. We've skirted the issue, me because I like the status quo and still have a GFTOW program before me. I guess she also doesn't want a formal relationship as she's still talking about her ex and how she regrets that it didn't work out.
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