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Author:  KollegeKid [ Fri Apr 26, 2013 10:16 am ]
Post subject:  Boyfriend Destroyers
When my fraternity mixes with the hottest sororities, the girls always flirt a lot and they're quick to dance with you, but after you've been dancing for a while and go for the kiss close that works at every other party, they ALWAYS pull the boyfriend card. I sense that most of the time, this is complete bullshit and they don't have a boyfriend at all. And even if they do have a boyfriend, they clearly didn't care enough about him to not grind with you.

So what's the deal?
Are they insecure about what their sisters will think of them?
Are they just looking for you to be dominant and brush off the boyfriend comment?
Is there any way to tell if they are telling the truth or not?
And after you determine whether or not it's true, what are the best boyfriend destroyers to use?

Comment away (:
Author:  N1ck9141 [ Fri Apr 26, 2013 3:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Boyfriend Destroyers
Sounds like your not making intent clear, girls like to party, special in uni collage etc (im from UK)

if she dances up on your grinds on you and you dance back it doesnt really mean anything more to her than she has found a guy to interact with so she isnt dancing alone...

if she pulls the boyfriend card throw it back at her, if its true she will feel guilty bitch should!!!
if its a lie she will own up or try and pull you back because she doesnt want you judging her either,

i had a girl grinding on me at an underwear party so boxers and panties, im sat down she is lap dancing etc, boobs in my face everything pulled her close she giggled i went for a kiss she stopped me saying i have a boyfriend sorry, BUT CARRIED ON WITH THE DANCING....

so i thought fast and thought screw this then i wanna get laid, i pushed her off softly but physically gave her a horrible look and said if you have that little respect for your man i dont wanna know you, and he can probably do better i went to walk off...

and she grab my arm and said sorry i just wasnt ready i dont actually have a boyfriend, so i sat back down pulled her next to me this time and said "dont act like your ready then(pause) now tell me something about you more than your looks" and started gaming again and F closed that night with her.... and her room mate but thats uni for ya :P
Author:  Melodical [ Fri Apr 26, 2013 5:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Boyfriend Destroyers
Nearly all HB8+s use the "I have a boyfriend " line. It's a "radar ping" to test your alpha characteristics. Over the last ten years I've tried every single method under the sun to deal with it. By far, far the best is to totally ignore it and carry on with the sarge as if she had never said it. Seriously there is no other method comes close. On very rare occasions you may have to acknowledge what she said- for example if she keeps repeating it- in which case just say "ok" as if she just said "I have a microwave oven" and carry on with the sarge.
Author:  M2 [ Fri Apr 26, 2013 5:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Boyfriend Destroyers
Quote:
When my fraternity mixes with the hottest sororities, the girls always flirt a lot and they're quick to dance with you, but after you've been dancing for a while and go for the kiss close that works at every other party, they ALWAYS pull the boyfriend card. I sense that most of the time, this is complete bullshit and they don't have a boyfriend at all. And even if they do have a boyfriend, they clearly didn't care enough about him to not grind with you.

So what's the deal?
Are they insecure about what their sisters will think of them?
Are they just looking for you to be dominant and brush off the boyfriend comment?
Is there any way to tell if they are telling the truth or not?
And after you determine whether or not it's true, what are the best boyfriend destroyers to use?

Comment away (:

I've been pulling BF destroyer for quite awhile. There is one same theme that runs through all BFD; who gives a shit.

There are two that I use.

The first is one I modified from gambler. It's starts as normal game. You get an objection and then basically just do nothing but disqualify yourself, super-impose some fantasy world you two reside in and then make the boyfriend up to be something stellar.

Example:
"I have a boyfriend."

"I bet he's amazing. Buys you flowers and can't stop texting. That's cool. I'd make a terrible boyfriend."

"Why?"

"Oh, I do shit like leave the toilet seat up and never return phone calls." The whole point of this is to disqualify yourself in such a way that she will object and qualify you.

Of course be playful. The fantasy element (it's not always used) is something like, "you're so damn snotty, he must be amazing to put up with you. I think if we were together, I'd just adopt you as my little sister and go solve mysteries in the back of a magic van."

Most of the key points work so well, I have adapted them in my overall routine.

The other (and I used this, this weekend) is get her talking about him. Invariably she will bitch, but keep blowing it off.

"He really doesn't like to kiss or cuddle."

"Bah, it's probably just booze or something." The whole key to this one is to stick up for the guy so she tears him down even further.

Then, start escalating with kino. When I was in my 20s I got some dumb trendy tattoo of Chinese symbols. She saw it and asked if I even knew what it meant. I told her I did. To prove it, she got her phone out and started looking it up, periodically making contact with me herself to get a better look. Eventually she was right next to me, grabbing all over me and then, well, we devoured each other.

Use them wisely.
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