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| Author: | oz-syd [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 4:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Why to attractive women scare me? |
I do pretty well in the field, but I've only been landing with HB's <7. When ever I talk to a HB 7> I still feel intimidated and as a response, act coldly, like I'm not interested, but really I'm intimidated because I know they get approached often (where as <7's are happy that a guys talking to them). PUA's, how do I overcome this fear? I keep telling myself that I'm better than them, I'm the prize..... But it doesn't seem to be enough. How can I get pretty girls to be less intimidating? |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 4:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why to attractive women scare me? |
Quote: I do pretty well in the field, but I've only been landing with HB's <7. When ever I talk to a HB 7> I still feel intimidated and as a response, act coldly, like I'm not interested, but really I'm intimidated because I know they get approached often (where as <7's are happy that a guys talking to them).
Stop giving a woman value based on her looks. Realize that there are TONS of beautiful women out there who have a personality that is equal to/less than that of a wet towel.
PUA's, how do I overcome this fear? I keep telling myself that I'm better than them, I'm the prize..... But it doesn't seem to be enough. How can I get pretty girls to be less intimidating? |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 4:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why to attractive women scare me? |
However, not all hot girls are dumb..... Some of them also have drug problems lol |
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| Author: | dvjackson [ Fri Apr 26, 2013 1:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why to attractive women scare me? |
I think this just comes with time and experience, first you think of yourself as having greater value than girls who are equivalent to you in the looks department. then once you can consistently do that you move up to better-looking girls. |
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| Author: | Themagicalone [ Fri Apr 26, 2013 2:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why to attractive women scare me? |
Quote: I do pretty well in the field, but I've only been landing with HB's <7. When ever I talk to a HB 7> I still feel intimidated and as a response, act coldly, like I'm not interested, but really I'm intimidated because I know they get approached often (where as <7's are happy that a guys talking to them).
CONFIDENCE is key my man. I weight lift a lot and if I ever feel like I'm being scared I just think about how ripped I am and how this girl should be lucky I'm even thinking of going at her. Find something that gives you confidence and apply it.
PUA's, how do I overcome this fear? I keep telling myself that I'm better than them, I'm the prize..... But it doesn't seem to be enough. How can I get pretty girls to be less intimidating? |
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| Author: | Ethan Hunt [ Fri Apr 26, 2013 2:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Why to attractive women scare me? |
Here's a little secret: 7's get approached 10x more than 10s do. You know why? Because everyone is like you, everyone is afraid to go after the 10s so they stick with the low hanging fruit. And if anyone talks to the 10s, it's the drunk fatass at the bar pumped full of liquid confidence or a dumb frat boy that says, "Damn gurl! Let me get those digits!" So any guy who 1) has a minuscule amount of social intelligence and 2) has the balls to go up to them and talk to them like a human being (which they are,) has a better chance of getting her number than almost ANYONE ELSE. Why? Because she gets "hit on" all the time. She gets guys staring at her but never talking to her all day long that all think "I bet she gets hit on so much, she'd probably reject me. I bet she has tons of guys!" If you don't do that, you are already way ahead of all the other guys she meets. Yes it is scary talking to 9s and 10s at first, but after about 5 sets you realize how stupid you were for thinking that way and how easy it really is to get beautiful women. So stop putting these girls on a pedestal and stop thinking you aren't good enough to talk to them. If you have enough game to pull a 7, you have enough game to snag a 10. A 10 is just a more lonely, yet much better looking 7. |
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