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Author:  FunDanceMan [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 3:06 am ]
Post subject:  Jumping through hoops, girl asking you to do things?

What do you do when a girl keeps asking you to do things?

Like one girl we've met up a few times. She keeps asking me to send pictures of myself while she's at work. Not nude pictures. Just pictures! Never known a girl that was like this.


I think she just wants me to do it to see if I give in. Or to "entertain" her which is not what Im about. She is probably seeing other guys too and doing this too to them, like a game.

What do you do when a girl keeps asking you to do something you dont want to do? I feel like if I do give her more pictures she'll lose the respect and I'll be SPAM more than just that.

Author:  Themagicalone [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 3:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Jumping through hoops, girl asking you to do things?

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What do you do when a girl keeps asking you to do things?

Like one girl we've met up a few times. She keeps asking me to send pictures of myself while she's at work. Not nude pictures. Just pictures! Never known a girl that was like this.


I think she just wants me to do it to see if I give in. Or to "entertain" her which is not what Im about. She is probably seeing other guys too and doing this too to them, like a game.

What do you do when a girl keeps asking you to do something you dont want to do? I feel like if I do give her more pictures she'll lose the respect and I'll be SPAM more than just that.
Next time she asks tell her she has to earn it, flips the script

Author:  FunDanceMan [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 3:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Jumping through hoops, girl asking you to do things?

She sends me lots of pics of her (I bet she does that with all he guys she talks to.)

So if I say she has to earn it, she might say, but I sent you this and that picture.

Frankly, I dont look good today, dont want to take pictures of me while Im at work, and it really does feel like a game for her. Im guessing cocky funny is still the best way. Or tell her Ill take one tomorrow.

Author:  .Sage. [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 3:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Jumping through hoops, girl asking you to do things?

Whenever you deal with hoops, just remember that it's ok to jump through her hoop if she jumps through your hoop first.

So yes making her earn the pictures is ideal, but instead you can give her something specific to do, get creative. The most obvious one I can think of is get her to send you a picture of herself first, but since she already does this just think of something else. Otherwise just ignore it as best as you can.

Author:  Distrbinzapeace [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 11:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Jumping through hoops, girl asking you to do things?

Lol the girl sounds a little off.
The whole idea of her showing you pictures of herself seems like shes giving you a gold star in school. Fuck who cares if you wanna see hot women there are porn sites GALORE.

What you want, as a confident well established man is entertaining intelligent conversation. That is a FAR better stimulant for you, right? Your not a fucking dancing monkey and never will be.

When the conversation gets boring and back to the old trade pictures bullshit let her know its boring.
"Okay i get it your cute?, so what? That is what you were born with. Instead of pictures i would like to see come character."

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